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To think it’s okay to take certain things from a hotel?

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TakeOrLeaveIt · 10/09/2024 01:00

I’m curious to know what people think about taking items from hotels. For example, I know things like toiletries (shampoos, soaps) are often seen as fair game, but what about things like mugs and glasses? I’ve stayed at a few places recently, and I was tempted by some of the nicer bits. Obviously, I didn’t take anything major, but it’s got me thinking - where’s the line? Is it stealing or part of the hotel experience?

AIBU to think it’s harmless to take certain things? Or shouldn’t all stay behind?

What do you think?

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Sevilletiles · 17/09/2024 01:35

SunnyDaySummer · 10/09/2024 07:18

I saw a mum pinching Lego bricks from a play area in Legoland. She was being very middle class and jolly as she went about it too, which somehow made me more disgusted. Add Lego to the ‘no’ list!

It’s just the working class who normally steal 🙄ffs

Lovelysummerdays · 17/09/2024 00:03

Honestcat · 16/09/2024 23:29

I once took a lamp 😆

I once broke a lamp, they charged me €46 I should of taken it home and glued it back together as a souvenir.

QuizzlyBears · 16/09/2024 23:37

I think it’s tacky. Most of the hotels I stay in have a discreet sign now explaining you can purchase toiletries etc if you’d like - obviously also a subtle way to also explain you’ll be charged if they’re taken.

Honestcat · 16/09/2024 23:29

I once took a lamp 😆

Spaceshiphaslanded · 16/09/2024 20:01

Rosscameasdoody · 16/09/2024 19:17

I particularly liked the bit about not taking the remote but the batteries were fair game, don’t steal the lamp but it’s OK to take the bulb, and, hilariously, don’t take the salt cellar but it’s OK to take the salt !!

in real life I do think batteries and bulbs probably are a step too far…salt (fair game haha!)

Rosscameasdoody · 16/09/2024 19:17

Spaceshiphaslanded · 16/09/2024 19:06

haven’t you seen the friends episode where Ross explains this very well 🤣

I particularly liked the bit about not taking the remote but the batteries were fair game, don’t steal the lamp but it’s OK to take the bulb, and, hilariously, don’t take the salt cellar but it’s OK to take the salt !!

Spaceshiphaslanded · 16/09/2024 19:06

haven’t you seen the friends episode where Ross explains this very well 🤣

Abbyant · 15/09/2024 08:08

we’d only ever take the things like tea, coffee, and toiletries if they are single use and not attached to a wall.

pollymere · 14/09/2024 18:09

I've stayed in some high-end hotels where everything is for sale. So if you like something you can buy it new at Reception and it will be sent to your home or you can take it then. Including the beds and chairs. However... This means if you take anything from the room they will bill you the full price of the item.

Apparently the amount of theft it curtailed was untrue... But they've also had people wanting to buy the pillows or duvets or in one case, the bed. My husband sleeps on Travelodge pillows that I bought online so actually I wish more hotels would offer this. I'm sure you'd have happily paid for the mugs etc if you'd been able to.

steff13 · 14/09/2024 02:04

HeddaGarbled · 10/09/2024 01:53

I've taken home a shampoo too but once home I don't actually need or want it

Quite. I don’t know why people bother to do this. If you can afford to stay in a hotel, you’re not struggling to afford shampoo are you? Why take a tiny half used bottle of a product you wouldn’t choose normally and risk it leaking all over your toilet bag, so you can have one shower/hair-wash at home with your sub-standard freebie?

I don't ever use the hotel toiletries. I take the little ones to put in the Blessings Bags my daughter and I pass out to homeless people.

And nice hotels tend to have nice toiletries.

MzPixie · 14/09/2024 01:56

Pam100127 · 13/09/2024 08:59

Taking anything that can be reused is theft.
We run an Airbnb and people have stolen towels, Salt & Pepper mills and even a clock off the wall.
It is stealing.
We have to replace those items - the hotel would too.
It’s a financial loss and room rates have to be put up to cover it, so everyone is penalised.
If you steal from a hotel (or an Airbnb/B&B) it’s no better than stealing from a shop, or someone’s house.

Crazy that people do this 😯

MzPixie · 14/09/2024 01:53

I would never think to take anything from a hotel even toiletries I find it ridiculous that people would even steal the likes of cups towels mugs etc

HoppingPavlova · 14/09/2024 01:17

Including my son's clothes he's grown out of, perfect for their or neighbours of friends' kids too

You dump old clothes in hotel rooms? How bizarre.

I always try and take worn out old undies, bras, sleepwear etc if travelling via a flight so I can dump there and not have to cart home in luggage (and leaves room for extra stuff I may buy when travelling), but I put those in the rubbish bins in the room. Anything decent I don’t want, kids clothes when they were young and grown out of, I’d take to a charity shop at home, not bag them up and dump them in hotels for staff to deal with!

suburberphobe · 14/09/2024 00:52

Slippers if you must, and you've worn them during your stay (they're not used again).

This.

Last hotel I stayed in they had big bottles of shampoo, conditioner and douche gel fixed to the wall in the shower. Good products too, eco.

Hurrah for eco-friendly hotels.

There's tons of plastic crap sloshing about in the world's oceans.

You can always buy those small bottles in chemists to fill your shampoo etc. at home to take with you. I leave them for the fabulous ladies who clean my rooms.

Including my son's clothes he's grown out of, perfect for their or neighbours of friends' kids too.

EtiquetteLady · 14/09/2024 00:42

Just wow. You’re clearly a chav who doesn’t have the faintest idea how to behave in civilised society. Staggered that you are even asking this question.

DinosaurMunch · 14/09/2024 00:07

TakeOrLeaveIt · 10/09/2024 01:00

I’m curious to know what people think about taking items from hotels. For example, I know things like toiletries (shampoos, soaps) are often seen as fair game, but what about things like mugs and glasses? I’ve stayed at a few places recently, and I was tempted by some of the nicer bits. Obviously, I didn’t take anything major, but it’s got me thinking - where’s the line? Is it stealing or part of the hotel experience?

AIBU to think it’s harmless to take certain things? Or shouldn’t all stay behind?

What do you think?

Tell me you're a Scouser without telling me you're a Scouser.

Went for a meal at pizza hut with colleagues from Speke once. They all seemed perfectly nice people at work, reception staff with responsibility for taking money and cashing up etc. They stole all the cutlery and crockery and then tried to leave without paying. The funny thing was that they were so matter of fact about it, it didn't occur that they should not do this in front of colleagues.

Sethera · 13/09/2024 23:58

TowerRavenSeven · 13/09/2024 20:57

Are you the person that sat at our table at a wedding and put the wine glasses in your purse? Of course it’s not ok!

In her purse? Your wine glasses must have been teeny-tiny Wine

TowerRavenSeven · 13/09/2024 20:57

Are you the person that sat at our table at a wedding and put the wine glasses in your purse? Of course it’s not ok!

GreatGardenstuff · 13/09/2024 20:54

That’s scruffy as. Shower caps and camomile teabags is my limit.

Birdingbear · 13/09/2024 17:24

We went to the Legoland castle hotel at they've a price list on the wall of everything you will be charged for if missing in the room. The quilt cover was listed and was 250.00!
Companies need to replace these items if yoy take them, even the glasses so no. I wouldn't take this stuff.

MeridaBrave · 13/09/2024 12:48

Ok to take small bottles of shampoo / soap / tea bags / slippers - ie consumables. Theft to take glasses / spoons / soft toys / towels.

i recently stayed in a hotel with big bottles of shampoo and a sign saying if you take they will charge your credit card…

AnnieSnap · 13/09/2024 11:54

Mugs, glasses, towels & Robes are theft! Toiletries are intended for your use.

Toomanyemails · 13/09/2024 11:23

pinkgown · 10/09/2024 01:26

I've been in a couple of hotels where there's a price list in the bedroom for things like towels etc. - even bedlinen! They must be very fed up with light fingered guests.

I've noticed this, usually in fancy hotels, which I found a bit off-putting - a high end hotel is a treat for me and the price lists/price labels were really prominent so I felt like I was in a department store or being treated as a potential thief!

I think part of the reason is that nicer places have stuff people may want to buy, like particularly soft bedlinen - the price lists are because they know some people will want W hotel towels at home, not necessarily that people were stealing... Although rich people are always the tightest so who knows!

I looove the mini toiletries, perfect for the gym. Biscuits and tea bags also come home with me.

Creamteasandbumblebees · 13/09/2024 11:17

Complimentary toiletries - Yes
Complimentary slippers - Yes
Tea/Coffee - Yes (if you are that desperate)
Everything else -No
It's stealing, plain and simple. Would you steal these glasses from a shop?

HappyDane · 13/09/2024 10:54

Obviously it stops well before that line! But there are many, many scummy people in the world.