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To think it’s okay to take certain things from a hotel?

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TakeOrLeaveIt · 10/09/2024 01:00

I’m curious to know what people think about taking items from hotels. For example, I know things like toiletries (shampoos, soaps) are often seen as fair game, but what about things like mugs and glasses? I’ve stayed at a few places recently, and I was tempted by some of the nicer bits. Obviously, I didn’t take anything major, but it’s got me thinking - where’s the line? Is it stealing or part of the hotel experience?

AIBU to think it’s harmless to take certain things? Or shouldn’t all stay behind?

What do you think?

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MirandaJH · 27/09/2024 10:21

Fountofwisdom · 26/09/2024 21:36

Absolute rubbish. It’s not an ‘emergency’ is you run out of conditioner in the shower or have a guest round who wants decaf coffee!! It is scuzzy to take things from hotel rooms just because they are worth a few pence. And no one who can afford to stay in a hotel room is that close to the poverty line. Utter crap.

Actually there were times I had to stay at hotels (e.g. weddings) when I was having to go to a food bank and received money towards my rent because despite working, I couldn’t afford to live. Welcome to the real world.
Bet that stick feels painful stuck up there.

KimberleyClark · 27/09/2024 09:37

MerelyPlaying · 27/09/2024 06:35

Can't believe nobody has mentioned how useful shower caps are for covering bread dough while it's rising 😀 but I haven't had one in a hotel room for ages.

They are not really environmentally friendly being intended to be single use. I always have a proper shower cap in my wash bag anyway.

MerelyPlaying · 27/09/2024 06:35

Can't believe nobody has mentioned how useful shower caps are for covering bread dough while it's rising 😀 but I haven't had one in a hotel room for ages.

OneTooFree · 27/09/2024 06:10

When I stay in a hotel I turn up with a large van and completely strip the room.
I had my eye on a grand piano in a hotel I recently stayed in, but unfortunately I couldn't fit it in the van as it was already stuffed full.
Maybe next time.

Auburngal · 27/09/2024 06:07

Fizbosshoes · 23/09/2024 18:13

This the thing I don't get, teabags are literally pence, and they would factor x per person into the price of the room. If they put 3 out for example, what difference if you drank 3 cups of tea while you stayed or drank 1 cup and took 2 tea bags home? (I don't do this BTW, but I have taken biscuits before and not given it a second thought)
They don't give you a refund of eg 50p if you left all the sugar and biscuits there!

I take toiletries if i think they are particularly nice. And i use them! (I wouldnt take them if i didnt think i would) Some cant be refilled so it's obvious the next guest would get new ones.

My dad often used to go out for coffees and sometimes they were served with a lotus biscuit. He knew DD liked them and usually brought it home and offered it when we were next round. He wouldn't be theiving or scuzzy if he ate it st the time, what difference if he brought it home? He paid the same as the person who ate theirs with the coffee!

Also some people may have forgotten to take their toiletries with them. I didn’t take my shower gel as finished it off at home after my previous hotel stay as only had 3 showers left worth in bottle. Forgot to put a new bottle in toiletries bag

saltinesandcoffeecups · 27/09/2024 00:51

Aliflowers · 24/09/2024 13:07

Oh and they’re the little single use ones. Would never in a million years take the big bottles. The hotel we stay in on holidays uses the big bottles of Crabtree and Evelyn. My daughter loves the conditioner so much but seems to only be available in Hilton hotels and the only place I’ve found them for sale was a eBay where im assuming someone has nicked them and then placed for sale

https://www.crabtree-evelyn.com

I’d forgotten about this company! I used to love their stores way back when.

Luxury Bath, Body & Hair Care | Crabtree & Evelyn

https://www.crabtree-evelyn.com

WigglyVonWaggly · 26/09/2024 23:05

You can take anything intended to be consumed / allocated in a quantity to be used by you during your stay. Soap, disposable shower cap, disposable sewing kit, bottle of water, biscuits, sachets of tea. You do not take things that are for all guests like pictures, robes, towel, pillows, glasses, radios, irons, hair dryers, ornaments, trouser presses, fans, phones, shower curtains, bath robes, soap dispensers which are in pumps and clearly meant to be refilled and used by others after you.

Do people really need telling this? Really?

Flowery57 · 26/09/2024 21:51

It is stealing and life is hard enough for people trying to run a business without people thieving from them. Would you be okay with guests stealing your cups or glasses from you?!

TrishM80 · 26/09/2024 21:43

BettyBardMacDonald · 26/09/2024 21:18

If you feel that way, why patronize them?

It's the same as the people who complain about airlines. Feel free to start a highly visible, highly trafficked, safety-intensive service business with massive overhead costs, and run it as a non-profit, providing super-low room rates and fares to the general public.

There's a difference between trying to make a profit and price gouging.

Fountofwisdom · 26/09/2024 21:42

SileSeilide · 23/09/2024 08:41

But why is it scuzzy to take a teabag but ok(ish) to take a small bottle of conditioner or bodywash?

I don't see the logic here? Either they're both scuzzy or they're not, surely?

Larger items are in a whole other category, but a teabag and a mini-shampoo are at the same level imho.

In Tesco, it’s £3 for 80 Tetley tea bags, so less than 4p each. Taking 6 teabags from a hotel room = 24p or so. It’s either utter stinginess OR resentment at having to pay whatever price you paid for your room. Either way, it’s pathetic.

HappyDane · 26/09/2024 21:38

Again, it's absolutely fine to take things that have been accounted for in the room rate. Fgs why do you think they bother to put them there??

It's not like a supermarket where they need to sell them to make their money back!

Fountofwisdom · 26/09/2024 21:36

MirandaJH · 23/09/2024 15:12

I’m surprised by how many people are disgusted at people taking toiletries and coffee sachets…when you’re paying over £100 a night to stay somewhere, I doubt companies will worry after their huge profit margins. I take them because they’re handy to have in for emergencies, such as when you run out of conditioner in the shower or have a guest round that only drinks decaf. Whoever is looking down on this needs to take the stick out their arse, quite frankly. And stop looking down on people if they are “scuzzy”- everyone is one paycheque away from living on the streets.

Absolute rubbish. It’s not an ‘emergency’ is you run out of conditioner in the shower or have a guest round who wants decaf coffee!! It is scuzzy to take things from hotel rooms just because they are worth a few pence. And no one who can afford to stay in a hotel room is that close to the poverty line. Utter crap.

BettyBardMacDonald · 26/09/2024 21:18

TrishM80 · 26/09/2024 21:13

Nah, they rip people off because they're greedy bastards who take advantage of big events to charge customers way over the odds.

If you feel that way, why patronize them?

It's the same as the people who complain about airlines. Feel free to start a highly visible, highly trafficked, safety-intensive service business with massive overhead costs, and run it as a non-profit, providing super-low room rates and fares to the general public.

TrishM80 · 26/09/2024 21:13

Nanny0gg · 24/09/2024 16:40

And they 'rip people off' to cover the cost of the thieving

Same as shops do for shoplifters

Nah, they rip people off because they're greedy bastards who take advantage of big events to charge customers way over the odds.

Goodtogossip · 25/09/2024 16:42

Taking anything other that what they expect you to take ie toiletries etc is stealing no matter how small it is. If everyone took a glass or mug think of the expense on the hotel to replace them all. It would mean hotel prices going up & the stay less enjoyable if you had to keep calling Reception when you find things missing in the room.

Boombaddabing · 25/09/2024 14:41

Nanny0gg · 24/09/2024 16:47

Not good at critical thinking, was he?

Nope - that's one of the reasons he's an ex. 😆

Pedallleur · 24/09/2024 20:54

I must take one of those 50p glasses or a flannel. Really? Prob turn up in a car that's £300 per month. Back at home bet you would never say just use that glass we stole it from a hotel we stayed at.

2Rebecca · 24/09/2024 20:27

I take very little. We have tea sugar and coffee at home so why steal them? Single use toiletries I'd use yes, biscuits yes. It just puts hotel costs up and you end up with immovable hair dryers etc

Screamingabdabz · 24/09/2024 20:27

God there really are a lot of grabby fuckers in the world…🙄

Fountofwisdom · 24/09/2024 20:23

Auburngal · 18/09/2024 08:16

I take the sugar sachets to top up the pot at home for when I have tradespeople visit to do work as 99% of them take sugar in their tea or coffee. None of my friends or family who visit don't take sugar in their drinks. Plus the odd recipe requires a bit of sugar so use one sachet. My parents do the same

Also when you visit a cafe or restaurant and order coffee and put 2 sugars on saucer, I take those.

FFS! Can you not afford 99p for a bag of sugar from Tesco? I’m surprised you don’t steal the toilet rolls too because all your friends and family who visit must take a dump or a wee and you don’t want to pay for their wipey-wipey when you can put stolen bog roll on your holder.

StomaAndMe · 24/09/2024 20:17

I stayed in a hotel not long after lockdown & they only provided paper cups, so I popped to a nearby supermarket & bought a couple of cheap mugs - which I left behind 🤣 I can't imagine nicking mugs🤨

SileSeilide · 24/09/2024 20:14

HoppingPavlova · 24/09/2024 12:18

The places I stay usually have higher end shampoo’s/conditioner’s etc, and high quality teabags and decent coffee pods - better than what we have at home. I always take the bathroom stuff (as said before my current workplace has a box where we all place them and it gets taken to women’s shelter periodically). I usually drink all the tea and take coffee pods home but if DH is there, lucky to have any leftovers. It’s the first thing we do with a hotel when getting in the room, make ourselves a cuppa while we settle in, and they always have tiny cups so you end up having so many. Wish places would just get decent mugs.

I always take the bathroom stuff (as said before my current workplace has a box where we all place them and it gets taken to women’s shelter periodically).

Is this not taking the piss a bit?

Hotels do charge higher prices to cover the cost of the toiletries they provide.
So if you clean them out every time you stay - even if it's for a good cause - aren't you basically getting others to subsidise your charity donation? Without asking them if they're ok with that?

I mean you can buy toiletries to donate. Why don't you just do that?

Sorry, but it just seems wrong somehow, even though I'm all for supporting shelters.
Well-meaning but in CF territory all the same.

Chillimuma · 24/09/2024 19:55

WTAF no you don’t take glasses of mugs from hotels or restaurants. They are there to use while you are staying and they belong to the hotel / restaurant.

are you thick or just extreme CF

MirandaJH · 24/09/2024 19:23

Nanny0gg · 24/09/2024 16:40

And they 'rip people off' to cover the cost of the thieving

Same as shops do for shoplifters

So when you stay at a wedding venue that charges £300 a night, they charge that much to make up for the three 2p teabags I took? 🙄

redalex261 · 24/09/2024 18:21

Er, no! Trashy AF.