I'm having trouble with a colleague. They keep doing things that feel too personal:
- Always watching my calendar and asking about my meetings
- Noticing where other managers are and how long they're away (for example commenting why one of the directors had been on their phone nearly an hour in the car park and was everything ok)
- Asking where my car is when it's not in the car park and noticing what time of day I arrive frequently
- Asking other staff why I went to the doctor because someone had mentioned I was in the office due to gp appointment
This behaviour makes me uncomfortable. It seems like they're not respecting personal space at work. They are someone I manage too, which I think makes it more out of line. I told someone I know outside of work and they said perhaps I'm being sensitive which is why I would like others opinions as I know how to deal with it but just want to make sure I'm not making something bigger than what it is.
Am I being unreasonable thinking this is creepy or do I need to relax?