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If you voted for brexit did you get what you wanted?

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Poutl · 08/09/2024 12:43

I’m definitely not a sneery anti-brexiter. I get that 50% of the population had legitimate concerns and did what they thought was best for the country. But my question is: did the thing that was so intolerable as a result of being a part of the EU get resolved for you by way of brexit?

I just don’t see what the point of it all was.

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atotalshambles · 08/09/2024 18:09

Didn't vote for Brexit and I cried when I heard we had voted to leave. Having a simple majority for such a huge decision was madness. I grew up in one of the areas that voted for Brexit. They had seen a huge influx of EU citizens who were able to work for less in multiple-occupancy properties etc.. and would work for less money and therefore wages went down. So I could see why they voted for Brexit. I think those who did vote Leave were highly let down by the Conservatives. I do wonder whether people were so complacent about many things before the vote. I would love for the UK to have a closer relationship to the EU and maybe rejoin (if they would have us and if terms were not terrible).

CrossUniStudent · 08/09/2024 18:07

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 08/09/2024 17:10

Yes I have got everything I wanted ta for asking. And it was 52%, not 50% (in the referendum!)

Many of the shoutiest angriest whingers are people who didn't even vote.

What were you asking ?

Livelovebehappy · 08/09/2024 18:07

RhubarbStrawberry · 08/09/2024 17:48

If people respond in the same way you have "I am very pleased that I voted leave." With no reason given, it'll be a very boring thread.

Edited

Most people voted leave as they didn’t want us to have to bow down to mostly irrational rules and demands from the EU. I thought that was pretty obvious as every time the UK tried to implement our own rules to suit our own people, it was slapped down by the EU. Or the EU would force ridiculous rules and regulations on us. The fee they took from us for being part of this circus was absolutely huge, and made up of sums plucked out of their arses.

Perplexed20 · 08/09/2024 18:06

KurtCobainLover · 08/09/2024 17:57

I voted leave because I felt being in the EU was restrictive. I don’t regret it.

@KurtCobainLover How, specifically?

Fleetheart · 08/09/2024 18:05

@KurtCobainLover - what was restrictive and what has changed? I would really like to know. Everything is worse now as far as I can see in terms of restrictions.

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 18:03

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 17:40

The vast, vast majority of people didn't know what they actually were voting for.

And I don't know a single person who voted for it who doesn't deeply regret it.

The vast, vast majority of people didn't know what they actually were voting for.

Surely that's not true. Brexit was debated for months and any information you needed was available on the internet. There was nothing but people on the radio, in newspapers and on the TV talking about leaving the EU.

Perplexed20 · 08/09/2024 18:02

notgettinganyyounger · 08/09/2024 17:26

I am very pleased that I voted leave.

This post is quite interesting, I would like to ask the same question to those who voted Labour in July. Might start a thread sometime unless there is already one.

They're loads of them. And yes I am glad.

Perplexed20 · 08/09/2024 18:02

bringmorewashing · 08/09/2024 17:08

Well I for one am thrilled with my new blue passport. Makes it all totally worthwhile!

It's black and now made in France.

Livelovebehappy · 08/09/2024 17:59

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 17:40

The vast, vast majority of people didn't know what they actually were voting for.

And I don't know a single person who voted for it who doesn't deeply regret it.

And you know this how? I haven’t seen any news item which states the ‘vast majority’ didn’t know what they were voting for. You can’t just make things up to suit your narrative….

KATHSTYLE · 08/09/2024 17:59

I voted to leave because I resented all the money that was being sent to the EU and thought it could be better spent improving things here.

There have been no improvements. On the contrary, things just seem to get worse and worse.

I also had reservations about unfettered immigration and a hope that some autonomy and sovereignty would help us.

I regret voting to leave and would vote to stay if I could rewind the clock.

KurtCobainLover · 08/09/2024 17:57

I voted leave because I felt being in the EU was restrictive. I don’t regret it.

angelcake20 · 08/09/2024 17:53

DM voted leave to reduce immigration and is cross that it hasn't happened. Of the two others I know, one thought we would turn into Switzerland, which would require a different type of Brexit, and the other thought it would be easier for their (non-EU) relatives to get visas, which may have happened.

PeachTree500 · 08/09/2024 17:53

Could some of the people who say they are glad they voted Brexit talk more about the reasons please?

I was never a staunch remainer and definitely saw disadvantages to EU membership from a left-wing perspective. However when I saw the tone of the Brexit campaign and the focus on immigration I decided to vote remain, because those were not my concerns about the EU.

It doesn’t seem to me that any of the issues people had with the EU, either from a left or right-wing angle, have been addressed. But I am not very familiar with the specifics and I would like to learn.

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 17:52

ILikeItWhatIsIt · 08/09/2024 16:20

I don't really know what the point of it was either, or really how we ended up in the situation of having a vote.

What I will say though, is that very rarely does the public get what they think they're voting for. Politicians are very good at using ambiguous language. When they say things they know that most people will interpret it a certain way but actually it can be interpreted multiple ways, meaning they can easily back out. Either that or they just blatantly lie to get what they want then deal with it later if they get called out. So us serfs never win regardless how we vote. We do not live in a true democracy.

I don't really know what the point of it was either, or really how we ended up in the situation of having a vote.

Farage under UKIP had been gaining popularity on his anti EU stance and the Tories felt threatened. They promised an EU referendum if they got voted in, which they were.

The EU referendum was mainly held because of immigration. People were fed up with uncontrolled immigration. They no longer believed in 'experts' and were looking forward to sunny uplands.

Then Brexit happened and immigration increased and none of the promises such as millions to the NHS or control over fishing took place.

The UK had been sold a kipper and it's been disastrous.

RhubarbStrawberry · 08/09/2024 17:48

notgettinganyyounger · 08/09/2024 17:26

I am very pleased that I voted leave.

This post is quite interesting, I would like to ask the same question to those who voted Labour in July. Might start a thread sometime unless there is already one.

If people respond in the same way you have "I am very pleased that I voted leave." With no reason given, it'll be a very boring thread.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 08/09/2024 17:47

I was on holiday when Brexit happened. You could ask me a different question though. Do I wish we could go back in time and stay in the EU? No I don’t.

Flibflobflibflob · 08/09/2024 17:45

In 20 years there will still be mumsnetters posting “are you happy you voted BREXIT ARE YOU HAPPY!?” every few weeks. I didn’t vote before anyone starts moaning at me, let it go!

Messen · 08/09/2024 17:43

Camembertcufflinks · 08/09/2024 17:21

Being restricted to 2kg of medical food when travelling from the U.K. to the EU isn't helpful for a lot of disabled people reliant on tube feeds. That was an unexpected and unfair result of brexit. It's a little known and very definitely detrimental change that has left many disabled people feeling even more restricted than they already are. The choice either wing it and hope border control don't pick on you or risk declaring feed and being left without or ending up in trouble. 2kg of medical feed isn't even 2 days worth of food for some people.

That’s appalling. Is there no exemption certificate or … anything? I had no idea about this.

LongTimeReading · 08/09/2024 17:40

Poutl · 08/09/2024 12:43

I’m definitely not a sneery anti-brexiter. I get that 50% of the population had legitimate concerns and did what they thought was best for the country. But my question is: did the thing that was so intolerable as a result of being a part of the EU get resolved for you by way of brexit?

I just don’t see what the point of it all was.

Well, "50% of the population" didn't, it was just over 50% of those who were eligible to vote and did so. Not 50% of the population.

But if you remember, of all the people who were eligble to vote, it was almost a 3-way split between in, out, and chose not to vote.

I was one of the latter. Hadn't a clue either way, and strongly beleive none of us should have been put in that position. I hate what it's done to people.

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 17:40

The vast, vast majority of people didn't know what they actually were voting for.

And I don't know a single person who voted for it who doesn't deeply regret it.

HoppityBun · 08/09/2024 17:39

Redlettuce · 08/09/2024 17:20

It wasn't mainly about the economics but it hasn't proved too bad. Growth is roughly the same as the EU since Brexit.

It did mean we were able to negotiate our own vaccine deals during covid.

The problem is we had a lot of people running the UK that didn't believe in Brexit and were actually trying to undermine it so we got a poor deal.

The post I did below shows that’s not true- a loss of 15% is significant. Lord Frost was incompetent but what made you believe that the people running the country were competent to negotiate a good deal? It’s been disastrous for small businesses. As for the vaccines, that doesn’t seem so clear. The UK took a gamble on safety and the vaccine we mostly used it was approved and obtained under EU rules. Wasn’t it – to a great extent - manufactured in the EU? There were problems after the AstraZeneca one couldn’t be used in people under 40.

ItTook9Years · 08/09/2024 17:38

Livelovebehappy · 08/09/2024 17:36

Yep. Same here. Happy to vote Brexit at the time, and still happy with my decision. People blame the downward turn in the economy and cost of living crisis on Brexit when, in fact, a lot of issues occurred due to Covid coming soon after which has affected how we live today far more than Brexit ever did.

I have access (through work) to some of the UK’s best economists and they rank Brexit, Covid and Truss as pretty equal…,

itsgettingweird · 08/09/2024 17:37

Realisation we aren't superior .....

itsgettingweird · 08/09/2024 17:37

Muchtoomuchtodo · 08/09/2024 17:32

The in laws voted to leave. Their motivation was to take back control of our borders. They holiday a lot and are fuming at how much longer border control takes on most of their trips. Seeing they’re faces when they found out recently that they’re going to need to pay for Visa waivers soon was hilarious!

They still can’t get their head around why their younger grandchildren can’t easily study in any European universities like one of their older ones did, or why a working a ski season is far more challenging to sort out now than pre-Brexit.

I’m really not sure what they were expecting . I try not to discuss it with them any more.

Yes I'm also seeing people who voted for Brexit surprised that they got a Brexit 🤦‍♀️

But they didn't vote to stop them going out of the country - it was to stop others coming in.

I think some people have had the realisation we are superior to others and it's somewhat (surprisingly) surprised them!

I have people genuinely surprised they can't just go to their second home in Spain for as long as they want now - that wasn't what they voted for.

Urm - yes it was! I respected that you did so you need to respect that's what you got!

Livelovebehappy · 08/09/2024 17:36

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 08/09/2024 17:10

Yes I have got everything I wanted ta for asking. And it was 52%, not 50% (in the referendum!)

Many of the shoutiest angriest whingers are people who didn't even vote.

Yep. Same here. Happy to vote Brexit at the time, and still happy with my decision. People blame the downward turn in the economy and cost of living crisis on Brexit when, in fact, a lot of issues occurred due to Covid coming soon after which has affected how we live today far more than Brexit ever did.

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