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Am I a cf for asking a farmer this question?

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Whye · 07/09/2024 15:18

We want to buy a house which is off a rarely used but fast winding country lane - only wide enough for one car. The speed limit is 30 but we have seen cars zooming along. I would not feel safe walking my dog on these country roads. There are some woods nearby but I would probably have to load dogs up each time for the 2 min drive.

There are fields all around. Would I be cheeky to ask the farmer who owns the fields opposite us if I could potentially walk my dogs on the perimeter of his fields, obviously I will pick up messes and be respectful.

We would be 5 mins from a decent sized market town so there are plenty of options just not convenient. Am I being cheeky?

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BlueEyedLeucy · 07/09/2024 19:13

We walk on farmer’s fields but I think this may be another if those ‘Scotland is different’ scenarios. And we don’t when there’s livestock in the field, and not through the crops. We walk the edge of the field. So it’s not an option all year round cause it’d be damaging his livelihood.

Drearydiedre · 07/09/2024 19:11

Our farmer let's us but we made friends first, he saw using the only footpath and said we can walk the perimeters. It's arable though. He doesn't take kindly to the other people who do it though. I don't think id ask before moving in and being neighbourly! Dogs can be a nuisance to farmers

PolePrince55 · 07/09/2024 19:10

Whye · 07/09/2024 15:25

Well i won’t buy house if this is not possible. I need to be able to walk dogs without getting in car.

Edited

It's a silly reason to buy or not buy a house.
He could say yes and then put live stock in field and change his mind a year down the line.

PolePrince55 · 07/09/2024 19:09

It's not cheeky but if he has live sick he wouldn't want dog off lead I wouldn't imagine. If he has crops he won't want them trampled.

YourWildAmberSloth · 07/09/2024 19:08

Ago · 07/09/2024 15:26

Then id look somewhere else, what could start as a yes could easily become no in time.

This. He might say yes and then change his mind, or the farm may change hands.

Tocleanornottoclean2 · 07/09/2024 19:04

ReadWithScepticism · 07/09/2024 19:02

the DPD driver who took to shitting in a barn
GrinGrin That's a delivery I expect you could have done without. Unless you are very very organic ,I suppose.

We wouldn't have noticed probably it he hadn't left loo roll! Happened a few times before we connected the dots. We have an outside loo as well, the postie always used it on his rounds but nope, the corner of an old barn was preferable for this chap!

ReadWithScepticism · 07/09/2024 19:02

the DPD driver who took to shitting in a barn
GrinGrin That's a delivery I expect you could have done without. Unless you are very very organic ,I suppose.

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 07/09/2024 19:01

Tocleanornottoclean2 · 07/09/2024 18:50

I can count on one hand the problems we have had with people walking, my family has farmed 500 acres for generations. Those problems were not from people who asked if they could walk their dog around the edge of a field. I say ask, they can say no but I imagine it'll depend on the area of the country and the proximity to potential hooligans. The only hooligans we get in our area is the DPD driver who took to shitting in a barn.

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You've been lucky. My family have had problems.

Tocleanornottoclean2 · 07/09/2024 18:50

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 07/09/2024 18:09

Also from a farming family and every farmer I know would say no.

My cousin has had so many sheep injured by dogs. My uncle lost several metres of crops because walkers were letting their dogs and kids run through it. We've had sheep and cows get onto arable land because gates were left open.

Then there's what happens if someone gets injured on your land, especially if you've given permission to be there.

I've been allowed by a farmer to use his land to walk, but after several years of chatting to him. He knew I understood the lifestyle and any consequences of mistakes on the land. He knew I'd keep the dog in check. At first, he told us immediately that there was no dog walking on his land. My cousin and uncle have said no to people on their land before now too.

I'm here giving my experience of what will be said and the reasons for it. Not because I want to speak for a farmer because I live in the countryside. I lived rurally. Currently I live on the edge of a housing estate.

I can count on one hand the problems we have had with people walking, my family has farmed 500 acres for generations. Those problems were not from people who asked if they could walk their dog around the edge of a field. I say ask, they can say no but I imagine it'll depend on the area of the country and the proximity to potential hooligans. The only hooligans we get in our area is the DPD driver who took to shitting in a barn.

Areolaborealis · 07/09/2024 18:48

The field is someone's private property. Ask yourself how you would feel is a complete stranger came to your door and asked if they could let their dog poop in your garden because they don't have a garden and can't be bothered going to the park?

GiveMeSomeWaterItsHot · 07/09/2024 18:27

Don’t make your problem his problem 🙄 🙄 If he lets you then he’s opening up the possibility of other people wanting to walk their dogs there as well. I think you’re being very cheeky and I would say no if I was the farmer.

D12troop · 07/09/2024 18:20

OhmygodDont · 07/09/2024 18:17

A lot of people in certain areas of the country certainly will know farmers. There is six within 30 minute drive here and then there is use who have more small holding types. Though maybe because we live in a very flat area.

Farming is hard enough to survive without people expecting to just use your land for a dog walk or general stroll unless a right of way already exists and even then people take the piss.

I know loads of farmers thanks but I'm not pretending to be one.

derxa · 07/09/2024 18:19

D12troop · 07/09/2024 18:10

Who knew that there would be several farmers perusing mumsnet on a saturday afternoon?! What's that I smell?! Is it cow dung 😆

I normally lurk these days. I’m a sheep farmer. There are quite a few farmers on here. It would be a polite no OP.

OhmygodDont · 07/09/2024 18:17

D12troop · 07/09/2024 18:10

Who knew that there would be several farmers perusing mumsnet on a saturday afternoon?! What's that I smell?! Is it cow dung 😆

A lot of people in certain areas of the country certainly will know farmers. There is six within 30 minute drive here and then there is use who have more small holding types. Though maybe because we live in a very flat area.

Farming is hard enough to survive without people expecting to just use your land for a dog walk or general stroll unless a right of way already exists and even then people take the piss.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 07/09/2024 18:16

D12troop · 07/09/2024 18:10

Who knew that there would be several farmers perusing mumsnet on a saturday afternoon?! What's that I smell?! Is it cow dung 😆

Farmer's granddaughter here, brought up on a farm but in Scotland. In Scotland OP can walk in that field as long as she behaves responsibly. She doesn't need permission.

Right to Roam Scotland

OhmygodDont · 07/09/2024 18:15

Find a different house. No farmer is going to want to allow you leading to others trying to use it then a right of way becoming an issue.

Also just because today it’s a field of corn doesn’t mean in 1/2/5/10 years it won’t be a cow field or an entire housing estate.

If an immediate walk on path/forest is a requirement find that.

bluebeck · 07/09/2024 18:11

This thread is bizarre.

@Whye of course you aren’t being a CF in asking the question. A CF would just be walking their dogs without asking permission.

Our local farmer has certain fields, about six of them, that he doesn’t mind people walking around the perimeter with dogs/running/on horseback. However, they are all crop fields and he’s losing very little ground but managing any presence to a very restricted area.

I wouldn’t choose to live anywhere where I absolutely had to drive to walk the dogs. Ask your question politely. They may even be amenable to charging a fee? Have the conversation and see how you feel after that.

xyz111 · 07/09/2024 18:11

If the road is rarely used, just use the road and make sure you're in bright clothing. 2 mins in the car is also nothing. I wouldn't lose a house I loved over that.

D12troop · 07/09/2024 18:10

Who knew that there would be several farmers perusing mumsnet on a saturday afternoon?! What's that I smell?! Is it cow dung 😆

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 07/09/2024 18:09

D12troop · 07/09/2024 17:32

Thanks for being a voice of reason. Many posting are just angry NIMBYers who live in the countryside advocating on behalf of farmers!

Also from a farming family and every farmer I know would say no.

My cousin has had so many sheep injured by dogs. My uncle lost several metres of crops because walkers were letting their dogs and kids run through it. We've had sheep and cows get onto arable land because gates were left open.

Then there's what happens if someone gets injured on your land, especially if you've given permission to be there.

I've been allowed by a farmer to use his land to walk, but after several years of chatting to him. He knew I understood the lifestyle and any consequences of mistakes on the land. He knew I'd keep the dog in check. At first, he told us immediately that there was no dog walking on his land. My cousin and uncle have said no to people on their land before now too.

I'm here giving my experience of what will be said and the reasons for it. Not because I want to speak for a farmer because I live in the countryside. I lived rurally. Currently I live on the edge of a housing estate.

TGMT · 07/09/2024 18:08

Farmer here. Hard no, the farmer doesn’t know you, people often start taking liberties when given any permission, damaging crop margins, letting dog off the lead (“just this once”) trying to claim rights on the land after a period of time. We have seen this time and time again. So you can ask but I imagine it will be a hard no and he/she would be right to say no.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 07/09/2024 18:03

Just checking you are in England not Scotland?

The posirion in Scotland re acess to land is completely different.

Deboragh · 07/09/2024 18:02

Don't presume you will have any right to walk your pets in the woods either. There are lots of ground nesting birds that are now in danger of being extinct because of entitled dog walkers.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 07/09/2024 17:55

Def.not if there are likely to be sheep in the fields.

It sounds daft, but friends who used to live in very rural N Devon found it so much easier to walk their dogs when visiting us in outer SW London - we have a huge park a short walk away. At home they would have to drive for at least 15 minutes before getting to anywhere they could let them off the lead.

Frith2013 · 07/09/2024 17:55

Also, being trampled by a cow (or indeed, many cows) is not an irrational fear.

I know 2 farmers who had their legs broken by cows kicking out whilst being milked. And a friend of mine (also incredibly rural) was trampled by a herd of cows in a field where she had walked for years and had broken ribs and needed her face reconstructing.

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