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Urgent miscarriage advice . Graphic. Don't read if triggering.

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GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 19:22

Posting here for quickness. Please delete if you want when I have answer. Please tell me how many pads I need to go to a and e? I've forgotten.

Gestational sac out with baby inside.

Now large clots and heavy bleeding. On pad 3 in half an hour with lots of clots.

Not sure if just leave an hour and see if settles.

Wasn't bleeding much before sac came out. Think it's all the lining coming now.

Epas shut and keen to avoid emergency department on a Friday night if I can.

OP posts:
bonkersplonkers · 06/09/2024 21:18

I'm so sorry for your loss, both of you. You're in the best place x

elm26 · 06/09/2024 21:02

Thinking of you, so sorry you're going through this. I had similar with a miscarriage about 8 years ago. You're in safe hands. So sorry for your loss xxx

Dampshinygrass · 06/09/2024 21:00

hope you are ok OP. I had something similar last year, ended up passing out twice in A&E due to blood loss. You’re in the right place. Take care of yourself. X

meteow · 06/09/2024 21:00

GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 20:38

Thanks so much. It's our miracle ivf baby. We found out last week no heartbeat and have been waiting at home since which was a hellish wait.

Was so "pleased" if that makes sense that baby in sac came out fully at home as we want to bury baby in garden. But then the crazy bleeding and massive clots started after.

Got a canula in and had bloods and urine sample which was 90% blood in a tub!!!!!! Waiting for gynae dr to come. Feel safer here.

Pain still bad but I hope easing. I really want to avoid an operation if possible.

Oh op, I'm so sorry. I have been in exactly the same situation, ivf baby whose heart never started beating, it was absolutely heartbreaking. I feel so much for you. Please take some time to process this and look after yourself. I wish you so much luck for the future.
If it's any consolation (I don't mean this to hurt) two months after my miscarriage I conceived naturally. It was nothing short of a miracle.

NigelHarmansNewWife · 06/09/2024 20:57

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hopefully they can stabilize things for you.

JenniferGreenHat · 06/09/2024 20:57

Sorry for your loss xx

SleepPrettyDarling · 06/09/2024 20:53

I’m so sorry for your loss x

Londonrach1 · 06/09/2024 20:49

Sorry op a&e. I been where you are now..sending support. Sorry for your loss xxx

AliTheMinx · 06/09/2024 20:48

So incredibly sorry. This happened to me too. Sending all the love in the world xx

ADHDGURL · 06/09/2024 20:47

Oh no didn't want to read and run.. so sorry. I hope you get the care you need 🙏

HateMyselfToo · 06/09/2024 20:46

You're in the right place.
Sorry for your loss.

Zanatdy · 06/09/2024 20:42

So sorry for your loss, glad you’ve gone for help to the hospital

GoulashSoup · 06/09/2024 20:42

I’m so sorry OP, glad you are being looked after 💐

TheCultureHusks · 06/09/2024 20:40

Oh OP I’m so so sorry ❤️ but very glad you’re in the safest place. Take care of yourself x

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GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 20:38

Thanks so much. It's our miracle ivf baby. We found out last week no heartbeat and have been waiting at home since which was a hellish wait.

Was so "pleased" if that makes sense that baby in sac came out fully at home as we want to bury baby in garden. But then the crazy bleeding and massive clots started after.

Got a canula in and had bloods and urine sample which was 90% blood in a tub!!!!!! Waiting for gynae dr to come. Feel safer here.

Pain still bad but I hope easing. I really want to avoid an operation if possible.

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Maray1967 · 06/09/2024 20:32

So very sorry, OP. Had 3 myself between my two DC, but none were as heavy as yours sounds. My DM did though and she went to hospital.

You’re in the right place. Hope you can get some rest.

💐

Daisybuttercup12345 · 06/09/2024 20:20

I am so sorry xxxx

NinaGeiger · 06/09/2024 20:19

Sorry you're going through this. Hope they are helpful at the hospital.
Keep us updated (if you want to, especially if there are boring waits at the hospital)

TheShellBeach · 06/09/2024 20:16

You're in the safest place, OP.

I'm very sorry you've lost your baby.
Flowers

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GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 20:15

I'm hops been triaged. Waiting to go to gynae ward. Thanks so much. Really couldn't think what to do.

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mummymayhem18 · 06/09/2024 20:05

So sorry to read this. I hope you're ok and soon back at home.

Elphamouche · 06/09/2024 19:41

So sorry OP. Glad you’re going to hospital, way too much bleeding.

IVFmumoftwo · 06/09/2024 19:38

Yeah had one at ten weeks. Went through three big maternity pads in minutes. Resorted to a towel as I staggered from the bathroom. Luckily it slowed very quickly. Glad you are going to the hospital. Sounds like the best place.

meteow · 06/09/2024 19:37

Sorry for your loss op. Glad you're going to the hospital it doesn't sound like a normal amount to be passing

AnneLovesGilbert · 06/09/2024 19:36

You poor thing. Glad you’re going in, make sure he packs chargers and food if he can. I hope you get seen really quickly, don’t be brave, get seen asap.

Sending strength and love.

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