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Urgent miscarriage advice . Graphic. Don't read if triggering.

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GinAndGooseberries · 06/09/2024 19:22

Posting here for quickness. Please delete if you want when I have answer. Please tell me how many pads I need to go to a and e? I've forgotten.

Gestational sac out with baby inside.

Now large clots and heavy bleeding. On pad 3 in half an hour with lots of clots.

Not sure if just leave an hour and see if settles.

Wasn't bleeding much before sac came out. Think it's all the lining coming now.

Epas shut and keen to avoid emergency department on a Friday night if I can.

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KvotheTheBloodless · 06/09/2024 22:11

I'm so, so sorry OP. I've been exactly where you are, it's fucking shit.

mynameiscalypso · 06/09/2024 22:09

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Fangisnotacoward · 06/09/2024 22:05

So very sorry for your loss, I hope the bleeding settles and you are able to start recovery physically and mentally soon x

BakewellGin1 · 06/09/2024 22:05

So sorry for your loss xxx

BlackFriYay · 06/09/2024 22:04

I'm so sorry for your heartbreaking loss OP and DH/DP.

I hope you're being well looked after x

MassiveOvaryaction · 06/09/2024 22:03

So sorry for your loss Flowers

Skykidsspy · 06/09/2024 21:59

I had similar - some ‘retained products’ were caught in my cervix and had to be removed by the dr, they used a speculum and tweezers. It was very unpleasant but quick and necessary to stop the bleeding, my body was trying to bleed it out.

Hope gynae sort you out asap, very sorry you’re going through this. The physical trauma is a real kick in the teeth on top of the mental side of things.

KenAdams · 06/09/2024 21:59

I'm sorry OP

Jl2014 · 06/09/2024 21:56

So sorry for your loss, OP 😢

Bemusedandconfusedagain · 06/09/2024 21:53

I'm so sorry you're going through this but you're absolutely in the right place in case you are having/have a haemorrhage.

TypingoftheDead · 06/09/2024 21:50

So sorry for your loss, OP xx

sparename · 06/09/2024 21:50

Hello. I'm glad you're in the right place to get treatment if you need it. On a different note it sounds like you'd like to keep your baby at home. I have read about storing your miscarried baby in water to better preserve them. Literally just in a tub in the fridge. I wish I'd known when I lost mine.

Sheelanogig · 06/09/2024 21:48

Sending lots of virtual hugs to you.
I am so sorry (but really glad you at hospital).

Tiredofallthis101 · 06/09/2024 21:46

I'm so sorry OP how devastating. ❤

Golaz · 06/09/2024 21:45

I’m so so sorry for your loss OP. So glad you went to hospital and are being looked after xxxx

UpUpUpU · 06/09/2024 21:44

❤

Partridgewell · 06/09/2024 21:43

I'm so sorry OP. I hope you avoid an operation and are comfortable in hospital. Thinking of you and sending love and strength.

spiderlight · 06/09/2024 21:40

So very sorry. I'm glad you're safe and being looked after. If it's any consolation at all, when I had similar at 13 weeks (a long time ago), my pain eased very quickly after I'd passed the sac, and the crazy bleeding afterwards didn't last very long - I think overnight but not much longer than that. Thinking of you and sending a handhold.

Spenditlikebeckham · 06/09/2024 21:40

After I passed the intact feotus the bleeding subsided quickly. Glad you went in op.. Sorry for your loss..

PleaseStopEatingMyStuff · 06/09/2024 21:36

I'm so sorry too OP. My heart goes out to you. I hope you can get back home soon and take some time to heal.

xyz111 · 06/09/2024 21:35

I have nothing constructive to add, but I'm sorry for what you're going through xxx

Blogswife · 06/09/2024 21:27

So sorry Op, my heart goes out to you

So glad you’re in the right place now. Another one who has been there too ❤️

DollieBantrysPantry · 06/09/2024 21:27

So so sorry OP xxx

BrutusMcDogface · 06/09/2024 21:23

I’m so, so sorry 😢 💐

Take care

MiddleSock · 06/09/2024 21:22

I’m so very sorry. You are in the right place

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