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How would I be viewed holidaying on my own?

204 replies

Slyngel · 06/09/2024 12:04

Hi there,

I'm 67 and single. I retired at 62 and spent three years full-time looking after my mum with Alzhemers' dementia. She died in 2022 at the age of 94. I miss her very much and am having trouble finding a new purpose in life.

I haven't been on holiday since 2016. I don't have anybody to go with but was thinking that a week in the sun in December or January might perk me up a bit and help me through the winter. I was thinking of somewhere like Tenerife.

I was wondering how people in these times view people holidaying on their own. Is it an okay thing to do or is it regarded as strange? Not looking for company specifically, I can cope on my own, but really just wondering how someone like me would be viewed by other holidaymakers on a winter sun beach-type holiday.

I would welcome any advice or views, positive or negative. Thank you.

OP posts:
araiwa · 06/09/2024 12:07

Why would you give a shit what people think?

Woahtherehoney · 06/09/2024 12:07

I know so many people who holiday on their own and if I could afford it alongside our family holiday I absolutely would.

I don’t think anyone would regard it as strange and it’s a really normal thing to do these days. The only people I’ve found who think things like that are odd are those who would never have the courage to do anything by themselves.

if you did want company there’s lots of options now for solo travellers and it’s not all just saga type holidays. If you wanted to do it as a group then do some Google research - lots of fun organised tours and things like that where you can meet others but still have time on your own.

Go on your holiday and have a fab time!

Funkyslippers · 06/09/2024 12:06

I wouldn't bat an eyelid but if I happened to notice you were on your own I'd think "good for you"!

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 06/09/2024 12:06

Go and have a nice time away. It will be good.