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If your husband worked these hours how much help would you expect?

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Woister · 06/09/2024 10:19

I am a SAHM. Dh works long hours. I basically do all the childcare and house work. In fairness when Dh is off he will take care of 85% of childcare ie take kids out swimming, bowling etc.

So the day before Dh got home a 8pm, then left the following day at 12pm to be home at 3 am. He will be leaving today at 12pm.

how much help would you expect from husband with these hours?

OP posts:
RubberStamps · 06/09/2024 10:22

None

RedHelenB · 06/09/2024 10:21

How old are the children? Tbh unless they are tiny tots not much.

Tel12 · 06/09/2024 10:21

Very little. If he's looking after the children when he'd about I would say that's probably sufficient.