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to ban DD from eating chicken

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GreatMintPeer · 06/09/2024 09:51

I know this might sound extreme, but hear me out. My DD has been having some digestive issues lately. She's been complaining of stomach aches and feeling bloated after meals. After doing some research, I discovered that chicken can be a common trigger for digestive issues in some people.

I decided to do an experiment and cut chicken out of her diet for a week. Lo and behold, her stomach aches disappeared and she felt much better overall. I was thrilled that I had found a simple solution to her discomfort.

But now, DD is begging me to let her have chicken again. She misses her favorite meals and feels left out when her friends are eating chicken nuggets at school. I understand where she's coming from, but I can't ignore the fact that her health has improved since cutting out chicken.

I've tried to explain to her the reasons behind my decision, but she just doesn't seem to understand. She thinks I'm being unfair and depriving her of something she enjoys. I feel torn between wanting to make her happy and wanting to keep her healthy.

So, am I being unreasonable to ban my DD from eating chicken? I just want what's best for her, but I can't help feeling guilty for denying her something she loves. Any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

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Lostinbrum · 06/09/2024 10:01

You really need to carry out an elimination diet under the guidance of a doctor or nutritionist. You can't just cut something like chicken out of a child's diet. Let her have the chicken nuggets and please see a doctor

Tiswa · 06/09/2024 10:01

I would get medical advice - as it is chicken nuggets you don’t know it is chicken and not something else

properly done food diary etc will help as well

Penguinmouse · 06/09/2024 10:00

Reintroduce, see what happens but also book a GP appointment so she can be properly tested. As people said, it might be gluten in the breadcrumbs, or sauce. You need a doctor to confirm what the problem is and then can make a decision.

LostTheMarble · 06/09/2024 10:00

Littlemisscapable · 06/09/2024 09:57

What ? Please take her to the GP and get a proper diagnosis.

This! You don’t know if it’s actually chicken and without a sensible approach you could give her unhealthy ideas about food. Googling is fine to get an idea but it’s not a diagnostic tool!

FatmanandKnobbin · 06/09/2024 10:00

Get her an intolerance test.

I would also try her on chicken again for a week and see what happens.

How old is she?

Mangolover123 · 06/09/2024 09:59

Are you sure it is chicken and not gluten?

Edingril · 06/09/2024 09:59

You are not a doctor get her tested

Ratfinkstinkypink · 06/09/2024 09:58

I would reintroduce it too to see if symptoms return.

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 06/09/2024 09:58

I wonder if eating chicken at lunchtime rather than the evening would make a difference? Also, if it's breaded as opposed to plain or in eg tomato sauce? It could as easily be the coating/ preservatives/gluten in the breadcrumbs. Might be worth experimenting further? Finally, some people who are intolerant to chicken are fine with turkey.

GhibliCat · 06/09/2024 09:57

I agree in giving them again to see if the symptoms return.

When she starts complaining explain it's the chicken.

LolaJ87 · 06/09/2024 09:57

If she has been having these issues have you brought her to see a GP? There could be something else going on here. How old is she?

Littlemisscapable · 06/09/2024 09:57

What ? Please take her to the GP and get a proper diagnosis.

GhibliCat · 06/09/2024 09:57

How old is she? Could you try the quorn chicken nuggets?

Seeline · 06/09/2024 09:55

You can't prove it was the chicken unless she tries it again and the symptoms return.

I would have thought there were far more likely causes than chicken anyway. Chicken really isn't a common cause of stomach ache/bloating.

How old is your daughter?

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