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When is late not coming?

110 replies

ArmchairOlympian · 04/09/2024 19:14

How long do you wait before giving up?

Im waiting for someone to collect my sofa after selling on Facebook. They’re 15 minutes late. Should I give it up and get on with my evening?

so annoying.

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GrandHighPoohbah · 04/09/2024 19:30

I always arrange a pick up of my items for sale for times when I would be home anyway. Randoms off the internet frequently let you down unfortunately, it's part and parcel of online selling. Often picking up isn't as much as a priority for them as getting rid is for you. It's very rude but that's what happens quite a bit.

titchy · 04/09/2024 19:30

DeliciousApples · 04/09/2024 19:26

15mins is nothing. They're prob lost or stuck in traffic. Give them a break.

They're picking up a sofa from FB - they won't turn up. Sorry OP. But there are so many free sofas on my local FB pages - no one really wants them.

Parkmybentley · 04/09/2024 19:29

Weird. They might be coming from really far away. If they are driving they won't (shouldnt!) be reading or replying to texts!

DeliciousApples · 04/09/2024 19:26

15mins is nothing. They're prob lost or stuck in traffic. Give them a break.

TruthThatsHardAsSteel · 04/09/2024 19:23

I'd text "go you need to collect this by time, I'm not available after. Thanks"

AnOldCynic · 04/09/2024 19:20

What would you be doing if you weren't hanging around? are you meant to be going out?

ArmchairOlympian · 04/09/2024 19:18

If she turns up at 8pm I wouldn’t answer the door. I’ll give her until 7.30. Fuming as my evenings are so short and I’m just hanging around.

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ArmchairOlympian · 04/09/2024 19:16

I’ve text her but no response.

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Sittingonthefence83 · 04/09/2024 19:16

I'd probably say an hour !

frecklejuice · 04/09/2024 19:15

I'd say 30 minutes or at a push 45, it's so annoying when they just don't let you know.