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To have overreacted about DDog and terrified us both for no reason?

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squashedalmondcroissant · 04/09/2024 13:39

Dp and I were watching tv last night and I got up to go to the loo.

DDog has his own bed in our bedroom but isn't generally allowed on our bed as he gets it all hairy. He knows this but sometimes sneaks onto the bed anyway if we are downstairs. He ALWAYS immediately jumps off the bed if he hears us coming upstairs (trying to hide where he's been 😂).

I walk past the bedroom and notice he's laying on the bed on his side, not moving, eyes open. I got worried as he hadn't jumped down when he heard me coming, and although he does sometimes sleep with his eyes open I thought it odd that he didn't wake up when he heard me come in the room. I walked over, spoke to him, called his name and stroked him. Then I put my hands under him and sort of gently 'jostled' him to try and wake him up. No response at all, not even a blink.

By this point I was really panicking and called Dp upstairs saying I think something was wrong. He came in and not long after DDog woke up, jumped up like nothing had happened!

Once our heart rates had returned to normal I started feeling really guilty that I had overreacted and worried Dp for no reason, we were both a bit out of sorts for the rest of the evening.

Did I overreact? Should I have tried harder to wake him up? I was panicking and DDog is quite elderly so not infeasible that something could have been wrong.

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FinallyYouSaid · 04/09/2024 13:46

I reckon he's got to the age where he now just thinks 'fuck it, I'm not moving' 😂

I don't think 'overreact' is the right word op, you just had a fright. Totally understandable.

Spenditlikebeckham · 04/09/2024 13:46

Ime possibly dog's hearing is going a bit thus enabling him to fall into a deeper sleep. Our ddog is currently testing us the same way op! Vet assured us it's a bit of hearing loss and a bit of taking the piss!!

KreedKafer · 04/09/2024 13:45

If your dog is elderly, his hearing probably isn’t what it once was and the noise of you coming in probably wasn’t enough to wake him.

When my dog was very old, she stopped coming to greet us when we got home because she just didn’t hear well enough to wake. We had to gently prod her to let her know we were home and then she’d be all surprised and pleased to see us.

hereismydog · 04/09/2024 13:41

Sounds like he knew he’d been caught out and was pretending not to be there! 😂

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