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littleredbumblebee · 02/09/2024 22:48

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went on a caravan holiday last week for 5 nights and my son who is 11 played with some kids from other families and had a great time- all good

On the last night one of the smaller boys was running around with no shirt on and he has spots, one of the other families asked and his mum said oh he has chicken pox but we though getting away would do him good.

I told her my son had never had chicken pox and said I bloody hoped my son was not going to come down with them. One of the other parents also said they should not have brought the kid. Basically it ended up with them going inside the caravan in a huff. The next day we all left

So today the day before my son is use to start at high school he woke up covered in spots and now has chicken pox and won’t be in for his first week at high school. Tonight he is now crying saying he won’t name any friends now and he won’t know his way around and no amount of comforting will calm him down. Very few kids for his school are going to this high school and he is so upset he will have missed out on making friends.

We have been in touch with his form tutor who has been great and has said they will support him and catch him up but I could bloody scream. How can some people be so bloody selfish.

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fashionqueen0123 · 02/09/2024 23:02

God that’s awful. Why on earth did they let their kid out!

mothsandgoths · 02/09/2024 23:01

At least he's had it now. Will be forgotten about in a months time

Beezknees · 02/09/2024 23:00

Yes it's selfish of them but you also could have had him vaccinated.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 02/09/2024 22:59

That does suck, and I would be crying too in his situation, but he will settle in fine when he does go in. I hope he isn't too unwell with it.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 02/09/2024 22:59

Well it’s a risk isn’t it - should have got the vaccine

SoupDragon · 02/09/2024 22:59

I mean, yes it is shit and was irresponsible of them but at least he won't get it during his GCSEs now.

DiscoinFrisco · 02/09/2024 22:58

That's rubbish. People are selfish. I hope your ds is better soon. He'll be okay at high school...

Rocksaltrita · 02/09/2024 22:57

Why didn’t you have him vaccinated? Hardly costs anything and standard in many countries.

Wasywasydoodah · 02/09/2024 22:54

Oh, that is bad. I’m so sorry for your son. Some people have no idea. I had to tell someone who is normally v sensible not to bring their baby with chicken pox to a church service recently. I just can’t understand the logic…

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