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Whats the point in eating healthily?

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Whenthechipshitthefan · 02/09/2024 22:26

When I've gained 3lbs.
On a bad week when I was eating normally I gained max a 2lb a month. This week I weighed myself and I've gained 3lbs. I've been following Zoe rules, upping my plant intake. Eating nuts when hungry. No crisps. Very limited sugar. Chosing the healthiest option when out, feeling positive about it all.. and gained 3 fucking pounds. Whats the point? Just feel like saying fuck it as I munch my way to obesity.
I wanted to lose 2lbs a week and hit my friends wedding next month looking and feeling great. Now I don't want to shop for a new dress or even go because I'm going to look like a heifer in all the photos for years to come.

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5128gap · 03/09/2024 12:38

You don't say how long you've gained the 3lb over? If it's a week it will almost certainly be water weight. If its over the month then you need to have a review and make sure that as well as eating healthily you're in a calorie deficit. You will have done amazing things for your overall health and wellbeing, your skin and hair and immunity by following a healthy diet. But the only thing that shifts weight is fewer calories in my (extensive, having tried many eating plans!) experience. You've done the hard part by getting the good foods in instead of the poorer choices, but if the weights not shifting I'd strongly recommend you also count calories.

Skyrainlight · 03/09/2024 11:57

Nuts are very high in calories and low in satiety, I would eat something else when hungry.

rainydaysaway · 03/09/2024 07:34

you can see your calories intake on Zoe, so worth keeping an eye on that too.

Suzuki70 · 03/09/2024 07:00

Cholesterol. I have just been diagnosed with familial high cholesterol at 40 and put on ezetimibe. It was a bit sobering that I was at a high risk of heart attack in my 50s even though I was only a size 12, because alongside the hereditary factor my diet was full of cheese, crisps and pastry.

BogRollBOGOF · 03/09/2024 06:58

Zoe is about gut health and sustainable nutrition.

There's a lot more to health than variations on scales which can be water retention for a multitude of reasons including hormones, tired muscles or even just needing to spend 5 minutes in the toilet.

It's decades of quick fix, (unsustainable) low calorie diet that's the problem

MagneticSquirrel · 03/09/2024 06:51

Also eating out, even the “healthy options” eg chicken salad are 500-700 calories at most pubs and restaurants. The pub health option is at least half or few calories than most of their mains but you won’t lose weight if eating out a couple of times a week unless diet restricted rest of the week. Most supermarket sandwiches come in at 400 calories and not necessarily high in protein and cafe/coffee shop ones are worse!

Milsonophonia · 03/09/2024 06:48

Carry on eating healthily, stop snacking and drink a shit ton of water. That 3lb could be a couple of massive poos!

Cheeesus · 03/09/2024 06:44

DilkushaKitchen · 02/09/2024 23:07

I am doing Zoe, bur watching my calories too, I don't think you can really eat nuts or seeds or even olive oil "freely" and lose weight. I only have 25 - 30g of nuts a day.

I've found I feel less hungry if I've had decent meals that score well, my meals are higher calorie than I used to eat, but I barely snack any more. I am losing - very slowly!

I’d agree with this.

Ginmonkeyagain · 03/09/2024 06:42

Eating healthily is a benefit in and of itself. You could reach your ideal weight on a diet of cheese strings and muller fruit corners but that is not going to be good for you.

There is more to being healthy than just being slim.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 03/09/2024 04:23

The Zoe principles are a great way to eat.

Once you get used to eating this way, and really feel the benefits, you will see where you can make little tweaks to reduce overall calories. You might see what happens if you fast until lunchtime, or reduce snacks or portion sizes or starchy carbs. But I wouldn't lose heart or mess with the overall program, it's your long term health that counts.

longdistanceclaraclara · 02/09/2024 23:28

Nuts are highly calorific, Ci v co

DilkushaKitchen · 02/09/2024 23:07

I am doing Zoe, bur watching my calories too, I don't think you can really eat nuts or seeds or even olive oil "freely" and lose weight. I only have 25 - 30g of nuts a day.

I've found I feel less hungry if I've had decent meals that score well, my meals are higher calorie than I used to eat, but I barely snack any more. I am losing - very slowly!

Ineedaholidayyyy · 02/09/2024 23:05

@Whenthechipshitthefan just to add to my PP. I made a choice in January to start a healthier lifestyle. At the end of every month, I took body measurements from my arms, chest, waist, hips, bum and thighs and recorded each month. By June , my measurements equalled a combined loss of 24 inches, and 2 dress sizes, but during that time I only lost 7lb in weight.

Mycatisbetterthanyourcat · 02/09/2024 22:58

There's a good Just One Thing podcast on BBC iplayer about the benefits of eating nuts but I'm pretty sure he did say just one small handful per day (unsalted)

Chocolateorange22 · 02/09/2024 22:56

Are you exercising alongside it?

If so stop weighing yourself and use a tape measure for a better measure of how you are doing.

QuotetheRaven · 02/09/2024 22:55

Weight control and eating healthily are two differ things.

Weight loss is about working out calories used and eating less over the day, thereby being in a deficit and burning fat to lose weight.

Healthy eating is cutting out processed food, avoiding chemical additives and sugar, and balancing macros, nutrients and vitamins.

If it's weight loss you want, eat less calories than you eat. That doesn't mean go hungry. Veg, quark, yogurts, meat - can all have a low calorie base and leave you full. In fact protein takes a whilst to digest so leaves you feeling full whilst sugar breaks down fast - spikes you - then you feel hunger again quickly.

Eat healthily on a calorie deficit and weight will go over time, even without exercise. Figures are made in the kitchen.

Whenthechipshitthefan · 02/09/2024 22:55

You're all so wonderful! And I do need to look at the bigger picture. I do feel better. My gut health is so much better. My skin is pretty good.
And the reason I started was to feel better. I was just hoping to lose weight too.
I think because I've been feeling so positive this just felt like a slap in the face. I've been going to the gym (obvs not enough!) And just moving more too.
I guess time will tell and I probably should eat less nuts!
Reset- thanks for giving me a kick up the arse. Keep being positive about diet and food and good health will follow.

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ErrolTheDragon · 02/09/2024 22:51

DH and I did Zoe, we found it very useful for resetting our diet to include more veg and pulses, less carbs esp sugar, BUT it's naive to think calories don't matter. So, using nutracheck for that... works well together. The Zoe type foods are more satiating but nuts need weighing!

CherryValley5 · 02/09/2024 22:51

RhaenysRocks · 02/09/2024 22:35

How many nuts? They're a much healthier option than crisps assuming they're not roasted in honey but they are calorific. Healthy eating is not just about the scales. If you want a quick fix crash diet drop all carbs and do a month on steamed chicken, green beans and eggs. Healthy eating is a much wider process about range and variety and portion size.

Even in MN terms this is absolutely ridiculous advice. Not sustainable or healthy in the slightest.

MiddleClassProblem · 02/09/2024 22:49

of you are following Zoe rules, listen to the Zoe podcast ep on obesity. It has some interesting takes on anyone’s weight.

And a flux like that is nothing. As pp said it could be water weight, it could be to do with your menstrual cycle, you could be backed up more etc.

Sunshineandrainbows23 · 02/09/2024 22:48

Well done on improving your diet! Gaining weight on scales doesn't mean you are gaining fat. It could be water weight if you are drinking more water/consuming more fruit and veg which contain lots of water. Whole foods such as fruit and veg weigh a lot so they will weigh a lot while they are working their way through you.

Focus on your clothes and optics, and health not scales. Good food will also make you look more attractive with good skin, nails and hair! Good luck! :)

Legendairy · 02/09/2024 22:45

Unfortunately what you have described is doesn't controlled enough to lose weight, foods you might consider healthy may have loads of calories in (or you could be eating portions that are too big). Its obviously much better for you than eating crap but to lose weight you have to be properly disciplined IME.

CherryValley5 · 02/09/2024 22:45

3lbs is nothing. Could well be just water weight, a poo.. who knows. Why wouldn’t you want to be healthier in the long term?

PeloMom · 02/09/2024 22:45

When you eat more than you burn, you gain- nuts, avocado etc add up fast. It also be increased water intake, where your cycle’s at etc.

Ineedaholidayyyy · 02/09/2024 22:44

You aren't giving it a chance. Losing weight is a process, it takes time and consistency with a calorie deficit, there is no quick fix. It's great that you are making changes to living a healthier lifestyle, please stop weighing yourself every day/ week as weight fluctuates for all sorts of reasons. It will only make you feel disheartened and you'll end up going back to your old ways.

I'd suggest to take body measurements instead and track progress that way, and go off how you feel in your clothes.