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Anyone else had a rubbish school holidays?

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Blueybanditbingochilli · 02/09/2024 14:39

Namely because of:

  1. The fucking WEATHER. No doubt I will be piled on telling me to buy puddle suits and ‘crack on’ but it’s been absolutely miserable and I will not hear otherwise. We haven’t been abroad, we don’t have nearby family to visit and we don’t have good inexpensive indoor local attractions so every rainy day (which has genuinely been most days) has been SHIT and we have gone out of our minds with boredom.
  2. The age of my children (5 and 17 months), an ENDLESS treadmill of toilet visits, nappy changes, meals, naps, drinks before doing the lot again. They can’t be left alone together as they fight and wind each other up so to even go for a piss I have to strap the youngest, screaming, into his pram while the oldest desperately tries to get to him to cause more havoc.
  3. My youngest has been ill on and off after starting nursery all summer with croup, ear infections, whooping cough and HFM, so on top of the rainy days we have also spent ‘ill’ days sat bored out of our skulls in the living room which I swear one day will be the purgatory I spend my afterlife in.

Not interested in smug stories about puddle suits, impeccably behaved children with fabulous immune systems or those who ‘love the cooler weather’. This is a rant thread for those who can relate to my position and nothing more. Roll on school!

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Blueybanditbingochilli · 02/09/2024 19:03

Hotorope · 02/09/2024 18:58

Well these are from 15th July/ today and Scotland. Our summer holidays have been pretty nice, sorry 🤷‍♀️

No need to be sorry I’m just convinced we’re posting through a vortex linking 2 separate universes at this stage. I counted 12 days rain in a row and I don’t think it’s exceeded 23/24 degrees once. All days bar a few have been cloudy and around 20 tops.

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Blueybanditbingochilli · 02/09/2024 19:02

Hotorope · 02/09/2024 19:01

Quote from one of your links, when the summer holidays started

Temperatures increased in the third week of July, with temperatures in the upper 20s across southeast England, reaching the 30s in some areas. Heathrow and Kew Gardens (Greater London) both saw 32.0°C on the 30th, the highest temperature of the year so far. The temperature remained above average to the end of the month, and felt occasionally muggy especially in the southeast.

I’m not in the south east and the entire country is not the south east Hmm

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Hotorope · 02/09/2024 19:01

Quote from one of your links, when the summer holidays started

Temperatures increased in the third week of July, with temperatures in the upper 20s across southeast England, reaching the 30s in some areas. Heathrow and Kew Gardens (Greater London) both saw 32.0°C on the 30th, the highest temperature of the year so far. The temperature remained above average to the end of the month, and felt occasionally muggy especially in the southeast.

Hotorope · 02/09/2024 18:58

BogusHocusPocus · 02/09/2024 18:55

I live as far south as you can get, and it's been cool and cloudy here all summer.

I'm aghast at how different people's perceptions can be.

South east or South West?

Hotorope · 02/09/2024 18:58

Well these are from 15th July/ today and Scotland. Our summer holidays have been pretty nice, sorry 🤷‍♀️

BogusHocusPocus · 02/09/2024 18:55

Abracadabra12345 · 02/09/2024 15:27

I keep hearing this but I live in the SE and the weather has been dry and warm, sometimes hot, for most of the summer holidays. Where do you live?

I live as far south as you can get, and it's been cool and cloudy here all summer.

I'm aghast at how different people's perceptions can be.

confusedthirtysomething2 · 02/09/2024 18:51

Yep. Was in tears a week in!

Commonsense22 · 02/09/2024 18:47

Blueybanditbingochilli · 02/09/2024 15:14

I’m not being facetious but I honestly don’t understand these ‘the weathers been great here!!!’ posts. I’m on the south coast and it has rained at LEAST 60% of the days, and most of the rest have been cloudy and windy. We’ve had probably 3 or 4 ‘proper’ summer days, at most. I just don’t understand how we can have such different experiences yet allegedly live so close together.

Northerner here and the weather was shocking throughout. Awful. Gardens wrecked, fallen trees, cold, floods, heating on weather.
We had 1 precious week visiting relatives thankfully.

ZippyLimeSnake · 02/09/2024 18:43

This is probably the worst summer holiday I’ve had since having children. I have quite large age gaps 14, 8 & 3 & it’s so hard to do something they all want to do 90% of what I suggest my eldest isn’t interested in, everything is so crazy expensive. I went to book tickets to the Aquarium as youngest has never been & my 8 year old loves sharks.. Family of 5 the tickets were just shy of £200?! Even doing the cinema cost us over £50 once we bought popcorn ect & I wouldn’t mind taking our own bits but the kids find getting their cinema treats exciting.

I’ve booked a holiday for abroad next year instead.

Suzuki70 · 02/09/2024 18:36

July was a bit wet but I don't class most of that as the summer holidays! We didn't break up until the 24th and then we immediately went to NE England for a week which was 24 and sunny.

https://www.yourweather.co.uk/news/forecasts/the-uk-weather-outlook-for-august-2024-how-long-will-the-hot-weather-last.html

This points out the end of July was warm and the weather was expected to continue in the mid/south of England.

I do think the South Coast had anomalous weather. DS went to Weymouth and it was 5 degrees colder with rain.

The UK weather outlook for August 2024: How long will the hot weather last?

Find out what to expect for the month of August in our long range weather forecast for August 2024. Will the heat carry on?

https://www.yourweather.co.uk/news/forecasts/the-uk-weather-outlook-for-august-2024-how-long-will-the-hot-weather-last.html

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 02/09/2024 18:19

We've had insanely hot days, interspersed with lots of rain. Last weekend we went to a music festival and it was like the apocalypse with the rain, then this weekend blazing hot sunshine which was crazy..I got back off a tenerife holiday on 30th July and it was hotter here than in tenerife!!

OP, I promise it's gets better. I had 3 under the age of 4 and I remember how relentless the holidays were. I just tried to be kind to myself, muted social media of all the "making memories" twats and just tried to survive.

Mine are all tweens/teens now, I never see them now. I work full time and they go days without seeing me and don't even care 😆

Rhayader · 02/09/2024 18:10

We’ve spent 6 months with my DD in 1st position on the waiting list for her chosen secondary school where all of her friends are going. She’s been assigned an abysmal school that is 5 times further away and nearly an hour on public transport. School starts tomorrow and she’s still not got a place. It’s been a long summer waiting to see if there was any good news today when the school office opened but nope.

YouCantBeSadHoldingACupcake · 02/09/2024 17:59

It has been shit. Admittedly the first few weeks were ok, but then ds (10 asd) really started to struggle without the school routine and has made every day a nightmare for his siblings. I have had to spend so much time trying to regulate him that the others have been ignored for large periods of time. And trying to get anything done around the house has been basically impossible. And now we have the adjustment of getting back to school to contend with.

Treetertop · 02/09/2024 17:59

Eldest brought threadworms home the last week of term, we all got them, its taken 6 weeks to sort out. The End.

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ipredictariot5 · 02/09/2024 17:53

Babbadoobabbadock · 02/09/2024 17:41

I’m in Southport. This has been the most horrific, gut wrenching, tragic holidays for everyone

that really puts everything in perspective - I am lucky to have made it through the summer without such devastating loss.

ipredictariot5 · 02/09/2024 17:50

ME!!!
DD dumped just before A levels didn’t make grades and lost university place
Lost 2.5 k when we were supposed to go on holiday on the day the world stopped because of the computer glitch
Had to put one of our cats down
Fell out with my in laws
My car broke down
Got COVID
and the weather has wrecked my garden
It has been a trying few weeks to say the least so lets hope for a happy September :)

Hotorope · 02/09/2024 17:44

whatwhatwhot · 02/09/2024 15:04

@Blueybanditbingochilli do you live in Northern Ireland? Or somewhere similar ? Weather in the south of UK has been pretty good. Plenty of warm sunny days. My parents in NI have had a crap summer but that is the same every year pretty much.

Was going to say this too. We’ve had a sunny summer holidays where I am (South England).

AluckyEllie · 02/09/2024 17:41

I’m so laughing at the living room purgatory!! Bloody Blippi will be playing on the tv and I will be constantly searching for the remote to turn it off. There will be snacks half eaten everywhere- you will tread in crunched up pombears and breadsticks. Toys will be scattered- from about 10 different activities. Paint sticks without lids. Stickers not stuck on properly and lined up wrong. Potty with a wee in it. Crying baby as the toddler tries to attack them.

Babbadoobabbadock · 02/09/2024 17:41

I’m in Southport. This has been the most horrific, gut wrenching, tragic holidays for everyone

NeverDropYourMooncup · 02/09/2024 17:37

Well, the first two weeks were hot and filled with cro-magnons (wouldn't give them the credit of reaching Neanderthal levels of intellect) smashing shit up and generally ruining the only guaranteed full week off work I had, DP's employers forced him to WFH one week because it suited them when I had already agreed to work, then permitted him to take 5 days of the 15 he had outstanding because it didn't suit them to let him take them earlier, but refused to let him take the remainder because 'we need somebody here' to work completely by himself whilst they were all on holiday/didn't bother recruiting for a replacement for the person who left, so he's lost 10 days of annual leave due to it being year end.

On top of that, it's been stiflingly hot and dull when not blazing & too hot, the rain completely failed to clear the air at all and I've been fielding barked instructions to do stuff outside my role all summer, all demanding that I do Not My Job for them as though they're the only priority in the world.

Oh, and I got up this morning to find that DP had decided to put my new clothes into a wash at 6am - except for the two brand new cotton shirts I'd bought, which he has apparently baked until crispy and have to be soaked again in the hope that the creases come out and haven't been shrunk three sizes in the process. So I did a shit day in shit stuffy weather with hot flushes (as the GP has fucked up and lost the HRT prescription and now doesn't want to re-prescribe) in a nylon shirt I'd earmarked for the bin.

TaylorSwish · 02/09/2024 17:30

It makes me laugh when people say to wear a coat and wellies and go out in the rain anyway. It’s miserable, a shitty wet walk and then dragging muddy water in the house after and having to clean it all up and then clean the clothes and then everyone’s bodies. No fucking way.

KatLiz · 02/09/2024 17:27

We've only had 3 days this summer that I haven't got the washing dried, so weather wise it's been fine (Midlands). Apart from the weather though it's been rubbish! An expensive roof repair meant we've had no holiday and haven't done anything really other than visit parks and play at home. The 3 and 11 year old have argued constantly, about absolutely everything from the TV to their respective noise levels. It's been the first summer in 20 years of parenting that I haven't loved, previously I've always been sad when summer ends and everyone heads back.

Iiiiiiiiii · 02/09/2024 17:14

Shiningout · 02/09/2024 14:50

The weather seems worse every summer, either that or I'm looking back on my childhood summers with rose tinted glasses. I had the paddling pool up for all of 3 days. It's been shit

Yes there have been some awful days, but there have been plenty of lovely days - and we are in the North! We have had mainly outside days and yes it wasn't 30 degrees but still nice sunny dry days. We will be restarting school with sun tans from scotland last week.

ForKeenDeer · 02/09/2024 16:36

Abracadabra12345 · 02/09/2024 15:27

I keep hearing this but I live in the SE and the weather has been dry and warm, sometimes hot, for most of the summer holidays. Where do you live?

What?? 4-5 says of hot weather, and spread out! The evenings have been cool, fan out twice this whole summer, It's been ok as in not constantly raining here but the grass this year is very green and not as dry or brown as some other years, not the worst summer but not mostly hot lol. My cardi has been out a lot more this year. We are all living in parallel universes!! Lol