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To be flabbergasted, amazed, and perplexed by my friends bean choice

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C64 · 02/09/2024 08:14

I was recently at a friend’s house and noticed they only had supermarket own brand beans. I was flabbergasted and astonished. It has rocked me to the core.

My friend isn’t short of money. She earns six figures, has a 900k house (mortgaged), has a BMW, and holidays in the Maldives annually.

I was there for lunch. I was expecting bruschetta with cherry tomatoes from the artisan farmer’s market. When she offered me beans on toast, I just couldn’t take it any longer and had to leave. I told her it was because I thought I’d left the hot tub on, but I think she knew it was the beans.

It’s been on my mind ever since, although I’ve tried to forget it. I thought about leaving a four pack of Heinz on her doorstep but not sure she’d take them with the kindess they were intended.

Should I just go no contact or low contact?

OP posts:
the80sweregreat · 02/09/2024 08:29

I prefer the branston ones compared to Heinz these days as the sugar / salt has been reduced a lot and they just don't taste the same anymore.

usernother · 02/09/2024 08:29

Limth · 02/09/2024 08:16

Is this meant to be funny?

It is funny!

the80sweregreat · 02/09/2024 08:27

Karou · 02/09/2024 08:26

It’s a bring your own beans BYOB situation

😂

Karou · 02/09/2024 08:26

It’s a bring your own beans BYOB situation

alwaysmovingforwards · 02/09/2024 08:26

Changingplace · 02/09/2024 08:24

I think so, but lacking in humour.

3/10 OP must try harder.

3/10 is very incredibly generous of you imo.

MagentaRavioli · 02/09/2024 08:25

I prefer the Duchy organic beans. Heinz are too pale and gloopy.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 02/09/2024 08:25

Tesco own brand here 🫣

Changingplace · 02/09/2024 08:24

Limth · 02/09/2024 08:16

Is this meant to be funny?

I think so, but lacking in humour.

3/10 OP must try harder.

Woahtherehoney · 02/09/2024 08:24

I’m guessing this is a wind up. But every one knows most branded beans are rubbish, Heinz and Branston included. Aldi or Tesco own brand are the way to go.

lemonpepperlady · 02/09/2024 08:24

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PeriIsKickingMyButt · 02/09/2024 08:23

I know you're trying to be funny but it's really not

AuntieMaud · 02/09/2024 08:22

Thank god you didn't drop by at breakfast time and see a box of cheatabix. Less than half the price of Wheatabix!

Keep calm op and try not to let these things spoil a good friendship. 😋

Limth · 02/09/2024 08:16

Is this meant to be funny?

the80sweregreat · 02/09/2024 08:16

A Reverse ? Or just a wind up !
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AgnesX · 02/09/2024 08:16

YANBU, Heinz beans are awful.

Leave her Branston.

PS don't go LC, she's to be pitied.

Hrtbrkn · 02/09/2024 08:15

🤨

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