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To wonder why the young people don't enjoy drinking alcohol

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OptimismvsRealism · 01/09/2024 15:58

I mean I know some people have always not really liked it but why as a generation do they feel differently about it?

(Come to mind because I've decided to go sober for a few weeks and it's NO FUN and I want to know their secret).

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Mere1 · 02/09/2024 19:47

Health care and fear of excess the reason they shun alcohol? As a generation they are the most overweight. Clearly health concerns are not their reasons!

pollymere · 02/09/2024 19:46

Mine likes a branded Rum and Full Fat Coke. But hates the taste of wine or beer (as well as tea and coffee actually). It seemed crazy to push alcohol or caffeine on them as they grew up and they don't see the point of having to grow to like something that isn't good for you anyway.

I think I grew up in a generation that went out and had boring evenings which alcohol made slightly less boring. There was an expectation to do so. I think Lockdown got rid of that expectation. People on here have commented how boring it is when you don't drink. If you're having alcohol to try and numb the boredom, why are you there anyway?!

AnnieSnap · 02/09/2024 19:12

Alcohol is a poison to the body, even in small amounts. It’s associated, not only with liver disease, but also various cancers including breast cancer, not to mention the awful costs to so many aspects of society. I drink very little. Just occasionally (usually only on holiday) a glass of something (one).

For many young people, as others have said, they have seen their parents generation overdoing it and the consequences of that. Many prefer weed, which is considerably less damaging than alcohol. Even heavier drugs that can cause big problems e.g. cocaine, are much less damaging than alcohol.

1dayatatime · 02/09/2024 18:55

Because drinking alcohol in pubs and clubs is so expensive and drinking alcohol at home is just sad.

OonaStubbs · 02/09/2024 18:44

You don't need to go out to pubs and clubs to meet prospective partners.

Plus I think young men are worried about consent issues when around young women who have been drinking.

There's a lot of factors.

Thegreatestgroaner · 02/09/2024 18:37

I agree. My 2 ds (24 & 21) & my dd (16) hate alcohol. They can’t understand why people drink. Their friends also don’t drink. They play on the os5 a lot at night, go gym or play football, so don’t have to go out to bars/pubs to see or chat with friends like I had to when I was there age. I think sm and gaming has change the way our young people live.

Askingforafriendtoday · 02/09/2024 18:33

GreatMistakes · 01/09/2024 16:00

Bad memories of drunk adults or prefer clean living and health

This

MayNov · 02/09/2024 18:32

Because alcohol is more expensive than other street drugs and less fun.

OptimismvsRealism · 02/09/2024 18:29

I am surprised that the supposedly most ethical generation are out buying the most unethical drug in such numbers!

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EllieRosesMammy · 02/09/2024 18:25

Because they all take drugs now 🤣

I remember when I was in college/university and the odd one or two people in our group would take drugs. The rest of us all drank but wouldn't touch drugs (with the exception of the occasional bit of weed). Now it seems that a lot of young people have done drugs, especially things like coke and pills, my younger cousins talk about it so casually that it's shocking 😅

Elseaknows · 02/09/2024 18:19

I've had a friend (young) die from alcohol addiction. My (half) brother is a raging alcoholic and so is his mother. I don't enjoy the taste or cost. I already get chronic headaches (iih) so I don't drink. I'm fun without the stuff.
I don't criticise those who do drink alcohol in moderation.
My DM and her husband are big drinkers. (They work hard, party hard.) That's their lifestyle. I'm happy in my bubble, with my young family.
Saying those who are teetotal are boring is harsh. If you need to consume alcohol to relax or have fun you have a problem.

KittyBeebee · 02/09/2024 18:18

I have never liked alcohol, I pretended to when I was young, just to fit in, but the truth is I never liked the taste of anything alcoholic. I have nothing whatsoever against it, DH is a bit of a single malt connoisseur and I buy him a bottle every birthday/Christmas so quite happy for others to imbibe, I just stick to soft drinks.
Now coffee and tea.... mmmmmm

RM2013 · 02/09/2024 18:18

Neither myself or DH are big drinkers. Maybe will have a drink once or twice a week. Eldest 19 DS is very into fitness and doesn’t really like the taste. Will have the occasional drink but rarely. Youngest 17 will sometimes have a drink at a house party but not overly bothered

OptimismvsRealism · 02/09/2024 18:14

I think a lot of Brits don't have the off switch TBF

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OptimismvsRealism · 02/09/2024 18:13

Balloonhearts · 02/09/2024 18:08

It tastes rank, its expensive, you act like an idiot and get a banging headache the next day. I resent spending my far too little money on a drink I don't even enjoy and makes me act like a moron.

I mean fair for you but these things are not universally true!

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sunsetsandboardwalks · 02/09/2024 18:11

But I do find abstinence culture really boring. The lack of sex that young people are having is also quite damaging I think.

I find it interesting how so many people associate sex and alcohol with fun, and think that any other way of life is automatically boring or dull.

Balloonhearts · 02/09/2024 18:08

It tastes rank, its expensive, you act like an idiot and get a banging headache the next day. I resent spending my far too little money on a drink I don't even enjoy and makes me act like a moron.

OptimismvsRealism · 02/09/2024 18:05

LostittoBostik · 02/09/2024 17:49

I'm with you @OptimismvsRealism - I really enjoy a drink. But I must admit I've lost my tolerance in my 40s. I have to eat LOADS to be able to drink now. Such a shame.

But I do find abstinence culture really boring. The lack of sex that young people are having is also quite damaging I think.

Agreed. They don't seem to seize the day any more.

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JerryHasSprungAgain · 02/09/2024 17:49

Costs the earth today, which is probably why - if you watched Boozed up Britain - groups of young people would get tanked up at home before going out. Now, it might be easier just not to drink - cost of taxis, having to have a designated driver etc
I remember a pint of Flowers costing 60p. The cheapest I could get a glass of wine for now would be in Wetherspoons for about £5-£6.

LostittoBostik · 02/09/2024 17:49

I'm with you @OptimismvsRealism - I really enjoy a drink. But I must admit I've lost my tolerance in my 40s. I have to eat LOADS to be able to drink now. Such a shame.

But I do find abstinence culture really boring. The lack of sex that young people are having is also quite damaging I think.

Judecb · 02/09/2024 17:43

For the most part, they drink less than our generation because it's too expensive and they are better educated as to the potentially dangerous health side effects.

NeedToChangeName · 02/09/2024 13:57

OonaStubbs · 01/09/2024 23:17

Alcohol should be banned or at least heavily restricted. You certainly shouldn't be able to buy it in supermarkets like regular groceries.

In Norway and Sweden, you can only buy alcohol in special shops, with limited opening hours. I think it's a great idea. You can still buy what you like, but it does encourage you to stop and think twice as it involves a special trip

Crushed23 · 02/09/2024 11:53

ObliviousCoalmine · 02/09/2024 09:12

Because it's easier to get hold of weed, ketamine and mdma.

I’m surprised at the number of posters who deny/disagree with the above.

I’m in my 30s and I’ve been going out for over 15 years. The shift towards drugs is VERY noticeable. When a single pint is £8 and a pill (the high from which lasts all night) costs £10, it’s not difficult to see why.

gannett · 02/09/2024 09:22

Pumpkinz · 01/09/2024 18:28

Drugs. Lots of young people now taking psychedelics (mdma, lsd, mushrooms) etc and either staying home watching the walls warp or going out and loving on everyone. No hangover the next day and much cheaper than buying drinks all night.

So much cheaper. Booze is ridiculously expensive in pubs and bars these days. If a large glass of wine had cost nine quid in the '00s I doubt I'd have drunk a quarter as much as I did. Drugs cost pretty much the same as they did back then and are much easier to get hold of these days.

Will never forget the first time I just did mdma on a night out with no booze. The lack of hangover the next day was astonishing.

ObliviousCoalmine · 02/09/2024 09:12

Because it's easier to get hold of weed, ketamine and mdma.

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