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To ask if you’re a higher earner, what do you outsource to give you more time?

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butterpears · 01/09/2024 08:59

I have the opportunity to take on more consultancy work, which is quite lucrative as I am in a very specific field. I have done a smaller amount of this in the past. If I do it I will realistically need to outsource as much as possible to free up time. The costs of this would be more than worth it in terms of what I can earn.

My thoughts so far are to get a cleaner (we had one in the past but not recently), get my hair blowdried once a week (I have difficult hair that takes ages). My DH does most of the cooking and food shopping, I do most of the laundry and life admin. I’m struggling to think of more that I could outsource because I tend to have a fairly frugal mindset.

What do you outsource if you can use the freed up time to bring in more money?

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SallySilly · 02/09/2024 14:01

We have a cleaner and a gardener. If I could find someone local to take on ironing I would. Online food shopping and a gousto delivery every week which takes care of meal planning.

mrssunshinexxx · 02/09/2024 13:57

Cleaner

Abigtodistofchores · 01/09/2024 21:27

Recommend buying a robot hoover
You can also turn it on via your mobile phone remotely

Arraminta · 01/09/2024 21:22

God, we outsource as much as humanly possible. So.....

Cleaner
Gardener
Mobile car valet
Eat out most days and Marks & Spencer's convenience food for when we don't
Window cleaner (does inside too)
Local handyman for DIY jobs
Private GP services

Money doesn't ever buy happiness but it does buy you a massive amount of convenience.

tunainatin · 01/09/2024 21:10

I was going to say maybe cleaner/housekeeper for more hours or even several times a week to keep everything running smoothly and take care of laundry, ironing and some of the daily tasks.

Sandytoesandcrabs · 01/09/2024 21:04

Sorry I didn’t say I pay my friend! £15ph and she comes 2 x a week while her parents have the children and if any problems with childcare etc I don’t mind.

NeedToChangeName · 01/09/2024 20:23

probster · 01/09/2024 13:42

the friend who does your laundry, admin and cleaning… do you socialise with her? go out for coffees?

genuinely curious as i can’t imagine a friend doing all this for me

i have a cleaner and i like her very much
i have known her for more than a decade
but a “friend” ? no

I agree

daisychain01 · 01/09/2024 20:17

CagneyAndLazy · 01/09/2024 09:27

What do you mean by "life admin", exactly?

The reason I ask is that often there are things you can do to automate bill paying, prescriptions, insurances, etc., if that's the sort of thing you're getting tied up with.

I was going to say exactly this, thank you @CagneyAndLazy

we hardly do life admin because we've automated so much of our bill payments via online banking. Council Tax, utilities, car tax, insurance (do a market scan once a year which doesn't take much time), credit cards (pay off in full each month), which just leave food to buy each week,

SunQueen24 · 01/09/2024 20:08

Cleaner every week. Mine changes sheets and irons too.
Online shop, sometimes food boxes.

dontcryformeargentina · 01/09/2024 20:06

probster · 01/09/2024 09:07

no children?

😂too late....

PuzzledParrott · 01/09/2024 16:35

Cleaner once a week. We sometimes send the ironing out if it piles up. We have a gardener come in a few times a year. A lot of handyman / bigger DIY type jobs.

Ethylred · 01/09/2024 16:31

Sex.

CagneyAndLazy · 01/09/2024 16:23

SecondFavouriteDinosaur · 01/09/2024 13:48

Posting about it disparagingly multiple times is, though.

To be honest, once people start listing things like "insurance" and "booking school parents' evening" as 'life admin' it does become laughable bollocks because they're talking about things that take a few minutes once (or so) per year. That's why people sometimes roll their eyes at 'life admin'.

(OP listed extensive accountancy stuff under life admin which is totally different level of admin and obviously much more time consuming than 10 mins looking for car insurance every 12 months.)

Amba1998 · 01/09/2024 16:07

Cleaner, dog walker, ironing, food shop delivery, hello fresh or the like / healthy food prep companies

TooMuchOfNothingIsJustAsTough · 01/09/2024 16:04

I don't think there's much else left besides what everyone has said.

The basic things to outsource are cleaning, shopping, gardening, oddjobs around the house (DIY, pool maintenance, etc), cooking, PA for errands and other life admin, driver or taxis. That's most things covered. It's really not rocket science.

Look at what you need to do and hire someone to do it - it could be as and when needed or on retainer basis.

Muchtoomuchtodo · 01/09/2024 15:19

If I could afford a cleaner who would also change the beds and stay as long as needed to clear the ironing pile each week I would definitely do it. If they’d do name labels and sew badges on Scout uniform that would be fabulous!

A gardener - again flexible hours so just a mow of the lawn most weeks but other seasonal jobs as and when needed including hedge trimming and planting some fruit and veg

Car cleaning on a regular basis

personal shopper

obviously in your line of work an accountant to help with the tax returns.

I have none of these and am unlikely to ever be able to afford them either.

we do have our shopping delivered and that’s great in terms of meal planning and reducing waste while saving time.

thecatsthecats · 01/09/2024 15:15

Oh, and I'd hire in staff to help me do things that I could do but find difficult. E.g. my cat was asthmatic and had to be taught to use an inhaler, so I could have paid a catsitter to come and teach her.

Or hire a childminder or babysitter purely to push the pram 2h. Or to teach the baby to take a bottle the way they do in nursery.

Basically things I CAN do with patience but they can do with ease.

thecatsthecats · 01/09/2024 15:13

My wishlist is:

Cleaner 3h PW
Housekeeper 2h PW (3 days after cleaner to do light touch up plus laundry, batch cooking and ironing etc)
Gardener 2h per fortnight
PA 2h per fortnight (one of those semi-virtual ones who can get authorised to do bill switching etc)
Handyman 2h per month

Flatulence · 01/09/2024 14:57

Highish earner now, but when I was earning a lot more and working away a lot I did the following:

Upped the hours I paid for cleaning, so that they could also change beds, do a bit more of the deeper cleaning on rotation (e.g. dusting on top of picture frames and wardrobes, cleaning windows, cleaning under the sofa etc.) and do a little ironing too (mostly bed linen).

Sent some laundry out - mostly work wear, such as shirts. The local dry cleaners would collect, launder, iron and return at a time that worked for us.

Gardening. I don't have a large garden so I really only needed the hedges and a bit of weeding/tidying/pruning. Think it was a monthly visit, but perhaps it was fortnightly.

Exterior house maintenance. I'm pretty handy and enjoy DIY but I just didn't have the time or the inclination to do the jobs I didn't enjoy. So a couple of times a year I had a maintenance person come and do outside jobs such as clearing the gutters, pressure washing the patio and paths, repainting lintels etc. Saved me time at the weekends.

Groceries: shopped online and arranged delivery. Ditto for milk, juice, eggs etc. from the local milkman. Got subscriptions for wine, cat food, and cleaning products.

Car washing and vaccing. Again, I'd usually do this myself (I do it myself now!) but I'd get mt car washed and vacced once a fortnight.

Beauty treatments: mani, pedi, brows, lashes, waxing. Basically allowed me to look put together without a lot of effort. I also find treatments relaxing so it was a a great way to wind down.

Cat sitting: if I knew no one would be home til very late (or at home at all) I have a wonderful cat sitter who'd pop in to feed the cats and clean their trays etc.

Remember that highly paid jobs can be stressful and involve stupid hours so some of this is as much about self care as it is caring for your home. Outsourcing some of this work was invaluable as it allowed me to spend my limited free time doing things I enjoyed rather than the things I don't. It's a privilege, and everyone is different, but just prioritise outsourcing the jobs you enjoy the least and/or which are the most time consuming.

butterpears · 01/09/2024 14:44

In terms of clothes shopping, I definitely spend time shopping around for the right peice, trawling through sales etc, again a throwback to not having much money. Maybe I do need therapy! But I’m coming to realise that frugal living only takes you so far and it makes more sense for me to take on more consultancy and focus on earning more, which may also require me to spend more. So paying a cleaner, for ironing, buying the clothes I want at full price in one go, paying a bit more to just have things delivered etc. I am really seeing how much I need to change how I think about these things.

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Oldfatandfrumpy · 01/09/2024 14:43

BellyPork · 01/09/2024 13:01

A PA (needs to be physically present) to take care of the humdrum of admin and household management.

Not necessarily, a quick google shows a number of businesses that provide the service virtually

probster · 01/09/2024 14:40

Bignanna · 01/09/2024 14:18

They’re called husbands!

i use my kettler window cleaning machine and it’s amazing!!

DarlingCoffee · 01/09/2024 14:37

I use a personal shopper for clothes shopping - Circle of style - and they are on WhatsApp which makes it super easy

butterpears · 01/09/2024 14:29

Ponoka7 · 01/09/2024 14:24

If you earn more than what you'd pay people to do cleaning/decorating/gardening that it makes sense to get people in. Even if you earn similar to decorators, unless you are really good, get them in. You are providing work. The two older retired men, who I call, the gardeners, rely on the £100 a week extra they pull in, it's only April to October, but it means they heat their homes over winter and have a good Christmas.

That’s a really good point about creating work for people and a great example where they can not worry about heating bills from your gardening work. Our previous cleaner left because she got a job and gave up cleaning but at the time it did feel like money well spent.

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Ozanj · 01/09/2024 14:25

Cleaning.

I wanted to outsource laundry and ironing but as it’s just the 3 of us it’s just as much faff sorting it as it is doing it myself so DH does it.

We eat out regularly at least once a week.

DH does the garden/bins/physical work like deep cleaning. I do the cooking/bed and bath times/ other life admin.