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Itsitnee · 31/08/2024 19:21

In the pub with DP and dd (3). We had said we would nip in to get her a quick meal on the way back home as it was getting late to cook when back. At the table we chose her a kids meal and I said I think I will have a kids pizza. Dp very clearly sighed and looked exasperated. I did not react well to this and asked what his problem was. He said he was surprised I was saying I wanted food as we had said we would just take dd in for her meal. I said clearly he was sighing because he didn’t want to spend money and he said it wasn’t that it was the change in plan he didn’t like.

for context money isn’t (or shouldn’t be) a concern as we earn well over 100k between us and the meal in question was 7 pounds.

he is saying he shouldn’t have sighed but was just confused as to what was going on. AIBU to be so pissed off at this reaction to me literally just saying I was going to order a kids pizza? I don’t get why that warrants a sigh?

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Itsitnee · 31/08/2024 19:26

It wasn’t a mild sigh, he was visibly annoyed that I had suggested I have a pizza

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GoldOnyx · 31/08/2024 19:23

Maybe it was genuinely that he didn’t like the change of plan and that irritated him. I don’t know.

Rumplestrumpet · 31/08/2024 19:23

I don't get it - is there a back story? You're angry that your husband sighed?