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To feel seriously overwhelmed by the task in front of me?

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CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 14:49

My house needs a thorough deep clean. There's not much clutter. I got everyone to have a tidy before they left and now I need to clean. It's getting me down how dirty it is.

Where on earth do I begin? Bought a new mop and bucket (we haven't had a workable one for ages 🫣 and have just spot - cleaned)

The landlord is replacing our downstairs carpets soon and so I want to repaint through downstairs but I can't when it's this filthy.

Tips appreciated.

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JaneJeffer · 01/09/2024 15:06

Do you have a garden kneeler knocking around? Well done on all your hard work 👏

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 01/09/2024 13:30

I need some knee pads! My knees this morning are sore 😭

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TeenLifeMum · 31/08/2024 22:13

SummerSplashing · 31/08/2024 16:07

@TeenLifeMum

yrs very wasteful and totally unnecessary.

But hands and appropriate for someone struggling with mh issues. Quite frankly, when you’re struggling, you do whatever you need to to achieve anything.

BirdFeederFun · 31/08/2024 22:03

I've not managed very much at all today. But with a rest day and reading your thread I'm properly motivated for tomorrow. I rarely get free space like this so I'm on it 😁😁

Swimmingatdusk · 31/08/2024 21:02

That’s great! Well done!

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 20:46

Well, I've managed 2/3 of the kitchen in 3 hours.

I decided to do top to bottom in sections so that I could see a whole section of kitchen completely clean and clear.

I am feeling so much better already.

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JaneJeffer · 31/08/2024 20:42

It's mighty stuff @CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets Grin

BertieBotts · 31/08/2024 20:37

@FloordrobeIsGoingToGetME

Why does ChatGPT always have to spit out such an incredibly overwhelmingly enormous list 😂Is it just me that feels more overwhelmed after reading something like that than before starting??

OP - my tip would be to go and watch some videos by Aurikateriina or similar on youtube. She cleans some seriously filthy houses and she has some excellent cleaning tips which aren't bizarre - she uses a small selection of products and suggests alternatives if you don't have them. I can't be bothered faffing around with toothpaste and hairspray and all the other things - just simple ordinary stuff that is probably already in my cleaning cupboard. (I don't mind buying a wonder product like the sugar soap sounds like!) Also, after you've watched a few videos you see the process is basically the same every time - remove debris/rubbish, soak with some kind of hot water and detergent combination. Sometimes leave to soak (love her cling film tip for this). Scrub and/or scrape. Wipe clean. It's very soothing and repetitive.

Personally, I wouldn't bother cleaning tops of cupboards, or underneath appliances. Nobody ever looks there. Focus on the bits you'll actually see, then it won't be so overwhelming.

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 16:36

JaneJeffer · 31/08/2024 15:30

Yes or you can get it in powder form and mix with water which I prefer

Mate, Wtf is this well kept secret! I knew I'd seem some somewhere and raided DH shed. It's bringing stuff off that I thought was so deeply ingrained it would never come out!

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Newname71 · 31/08/2024 16:34

Do you have a family member or friend who could help you?
My mum is my go to for help for this kind of thing. When left to my own devices I don’t get much done, my mum motivates me to keep going!

Gogogo12345 · 31/08/2024 16:34

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:08

My nan used to say go from top to bottom? Are we talking ceiling to floor here?

Yeah as any dust etc from ceilings, light-headed or high shelves will go to the floor. So you don't want to have cleaned that first only to have to do it again after

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 16:34

AShortName · 31/08/2024 16:13

Get your boys to clean up after themselves. Every single time.

I do 😊

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Curlygirl06 · 31/08/2024 16:32

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:13

Bathrooms not too bad, it get done almost daily (boys peeing everywhere 😔 it's getting better)

I'm thinking kitchen as this is the room that upsets me the most.

Help me break down the steps please.

I'm thinking;

  1. Everything off the top of the cabinets.
  2. Scrub down and put back
  3. Cobwebs
  4. Everything out the cabinets
  5. Wipe and put back
  6. Tiles, window, sink and surfaces
  7. Machines scrub down and underneath (I want to move these but do I need to u plumb the washing machine or anything)
  8. Washing up
  9. Floors sweep and mop
10. Fridge chuck out and clean

When you do the tops of the cupboards, line them with newspaper or something. Next time you clean up there you ony have to change the paper!

AShortName · 31/08/2024 16:13

Get your boys to clean up after themselves. Every single time.

parrotonmyshoulder · 31/08/2024 16:10

You need ‘goblin tools’.

SummerSplashing · 31/08/2024 16:09

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:26

How acceptable is it to throw out your oven and just buy a new one eventually? 😂

🤣🤣🤣🤣

we live in the SE, so everything is expensive. But oven cleaning is still reasonably cheap & makes a huge difference to have it done properly.

SummerSplashing · 31/08/2024 16:07

TeenLifeMum · 31/08/2024 15:20

Quite wasteful but get some wipes. Sugar soap wipes if really filthy. On room at a time.

@TeenLifeMum

yrs very wasteful and totally unnecessary.

JaneJeffer · 31/08/2024 15:30

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:22

Yes or you can get it in powder form and mix with water which I prefer

RaspberryBeretxx · 31/08/2024 15:29

Start with the kitchen and do the most “visible” jobs first to motivate you. I’d go…

First, washing up - dry, put away and clean sink with something that smells nice.

Second - wipe counters, table etc.

Thirdly, empty bin

at this point it should look ok ish already so move on to…

Then, wipe down tops of cupboards.

Next, give counter tops another run over if needed.

Now, sweep and mop floor. I’ve seen people use a wet sweeping brush to give the floor a good scrub with hot water and cleaner of some sort before mopping as a soft mop is often not abrasive enough to really clean.

Listening to music should help and set a timer too. Work out a treat once you’ve done the kitchen.

Save the other jobs for another day and do one or two per day.

BirdFeederFun · 31/08/2024 15:29

I decided I need to clean my whole house. I have a fatigue condition but also want it done...

And I'm still in bed cos I'm overwhelmed...

JaneJeffer · 31/08/2024 15:29

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:26

How acceptable is it to throw out your oven and just buy a new one eventually? 😂

Preferable to cleaning it Grin

NameChangedToDisguiseEmbarrassment · 31/08/2024 15:27

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:20

Any tips on cleaning metal slatted blinds?

Flash fluffy duster on a handle thing. Other brands are available! Gets between the slats perfectly.

You can also get reusable microfibre versions.

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:26

How acceptable is it to throw out your oven and just buy a new one eventually? 😂

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FloordrobeIsGoingToGetME · 31/08/2024 15:22

I asked ChatGPT to give instructions for throughly cleaning your kitchen, OP.

Here's what it said!

Tackling a kitchen that hasn't been cleaned in a while can feel overwhelming, but breaking it down into manageable steps will make the task much more achievable. Here's a professional step-by-step guide to help you thoroughly clean your kitchen.

Step 1: Preparation and Gathering Supplies

Before you start, gather all the necessary cleaning supplies:

  • Trash bags
  • Recycling bags/bins
  • Dish soap
  • All-purpose cleaner
  • Glass cleaner
  • Degreaser
  • Disinfectant spray
  • Baking soda
  • Vinegar
  • Microfiber cloths/rags
  • Sponges/scrub brushes
  • A bucket
  • Mop and floor cleaner
  • Vacuum or broom and dustpan
  • Rubber gloves

Step 2: Declutter the Counters and Surfaces

  1. *Remove All Items:* Start by clearing off your countertops. Remove everything, including small appliances, dishes, and other items. Place them on a table or another counter.
  1. *Sort Through Items:* As you remove items, sort them into three categories: Keep, Toss, Donate/Sell. This includes old or expired food, broken utensils, and things you no longer use.
  1. *Dispose of Trash:* Immediately throw away any trash and recycling. If you have food waste, remove it from the kitchen to avoid any lingering odors.
  1. *Put Away Non-Kitchen Items:* If you find items that don’t belong in the kitchen, put them in a box or basket to be relocated later.

Step 3: Clean the Sink and Dishes

  1. *Wash All Dishes:* If there are dirty dishes, wash them now. If you have a dishwasher, load it and start the cycle. Hand wash any items that are too delicate or large.
  1. *Clean the Sink:* Sprinkle baking soda in the sink and scrub with a sponge. Rinse thoroughly, then use a bit of dish soap to clean the faucet and handles. Wipe down with a microfiber cloth.
  1. *Disinfect the Sink:* After cleaning, spray the sink with a disinfectant and let it sit for a few minutes before rinsing.

Step 4: Clean Cabinets, Drawers, and Shelves

  1. *Empty Cabinets and Drawers:* Start with one section at a time. Empty out all items from your cabinets, drawers, and shelves.
  1. *Wipe Down Interiors:* Use a damp cloth with an all-purpose cleaner to wipe down the inside of each cabinet, drawer, and shelf. Pay extra attention to corners and any sticky spots.
  1. *Organize and Replace Items:* As you return items to their places, consider reorganizing for better functionality. Discard anything expired or that you no longer need.
  1. *Clean Exterior Surfaces:* Wipe down the exterior of cabinets and drawers, paying special attention to handles, where grime tends to build up.

Step 5: Clean Appliances

  1. *Refrigerator:*
- *Empty It:* Remove all items from the fridge. - *Dispose of Old Food:* Check expiration dates and toss anything that’s expired or questionable. - *Wipe Down Shelves and Drawers:* Remove shelves and drawers if possible and wash them in the sink with warm, soapy water. Wipe down the interior with an all-purpose cleaner or a mixture of vinegar and water. - Replace Items: Organize the items as you put them back.
  1. *Oven/Stove:*
- *Clean the Oven:* Use an oven cleaner or a homemade paste of baking soda and water. Apply to the interior and let it sit for 20 minutes before scrubbing and wiping it clean. - *Clean the Stovetop:* If your stovetop has grates, remove and soak them in hot soapy water. Clean the surface with a degreaser, paying attention to any burnt-on spots. Wipe down with a clean cloth.
  1. *Microwave:*
- *Wipe Down Inside:* Heat a bowl of water with a slice of lemon or a splash of vinegar for 3-5 minutes in the microwave. This will loosen grime. Wipe down the interior with a cloth. - *Clean the Exterior:* Wipe the outside with an all-purpose cleaner.
  1. *Small Appliances:* Wipe down the exteriors of your toaster, coffee maker, and other small appliances with a damp cloth. Clean the interior if needed, like removing crumbs from the toaster.

Step 6: Clean Countertops and Backsplash

  1. *Wipe Down Countertops:* Use a suitable cleaner for your countertop material (granite, laminate, etc.). Pay special attention to corners and edges.
  1. *Clean the Backsplash:* Use a mild cleaner or degreaser to wipe down the backsplash, especially if it’s tiled or near the stove, where grease may accumulate.

Step 7: Clean the Floors

  1. *Sweep/Vacuum:* Start by sweeping or vacuuming the entire floor to remove crumbs and debris. Don’t forget to get under appliances and cabinets.
  1. *Mop:* Fill a bucket with warm water and a suitable floor cleaner. Mop the floor, starting from the farthest corner and working your way out of the kitchen. Allow it to dry completely.

Step 8: Final Touches

  1. *Wipe Down Light Fixtures and Switches:* Dust and wipe down any light fixtures, switches, and electrical outlets with a damp cloth.
  1. *Clean Windows and Glass:* Use a glass cleaner or a mixture of vinegar and water to clean any windows, glass doors, or mirrors in the kitchen.
  1. *Take Out Trash:* Ensure all trash and recycling are removed from the kitchen.
  1. *Replace Items:* Return small appliances and items to the countertops in an organized manner. Try to keep counters as clear as possible to maintain a tidy look.

Step 9: Step Back and Enjoy

Finally, take a moment to admire your hard work! Maintaining this cleanliness will be easier now that you’ve done the heavy lifting. Consider setting up a regular cleaning schedule to keep the kitchen in good shape.

Bonus Tips for Maintaining Cleanliness

  • *Daily:* Wipe down counters, wash dishes, and clean the sink.
  • *Weekly:* Clean appliances and mop the floor.
  • *Monthly:* Deep clean cabinets, drawers, and the fridge.

By breaking the task into these steps, you'll be able to manage the process more easily and see progress as you go, making it less overwhelming and more rewarding.

CaptainCabinetsTrappedInCabinets · 31/08/2024 15:22

This stuff?

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