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To ask what's your stupidity tax?

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autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 07:04

Stupidity tax - something you have done that's ended up costing you financially or emotionally.

I'll go first.

I'm in the house one Friday night with dh and the kids. Eldest has a friend over who I offer to drive home. Can't find the car keys anywhere. I nip out to the car (I have form for leaving the car unlocked) discover that not only is the car unlocked but the keys are in the ignition switch on (as in lights and radio should be on but engine is not running). Probably been like that around five hours so the battery is completely dead.
Dh cannot revive the dead battery so end up paying ££ To increase our emergency cover to include home start and £££ for a new battery.
All in all a pretty expensive mistake. This sort of thing happen to anyone else?

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whereimfrom · 31/08/2024 16:54

DogDaysNeverEnd · 31/08/2024 09:03

Putting the wrong car reg into parking app, so not only paying for parking (albeit for friend's car that was not there) but also having to pay the £25 fine for not having paid for parking for the car actually in the car park. It's a relatively small amount but insanely frustrating stupidity tax!

I've done this. In my defence it was my 1st day back from maternity leave & I was frazzled 😂

autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:52

Wigtopia · 31/08/2024 09:03

Not ordering the bag of dog food online in time because I forgot about the bank holiday Monday. She wouldn’t have had enough so I had to buy an extra bag from the local shop which is more pricey per kg (online I get a 12kg bag delivered, but the shop only stocks 2kg bags).

the bit that makes it more annoying is that it’s not even the first time I’ve done it!

We order dog food online and and at least 3 times I've thought I paid and after a few days waiting for delivery discover I haven't! Cue paying £6 for next day delivery and a trip to the shop to spend £12 on a 2kg bag

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autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:49

Conniebygaslight · 31/08/2024 08:25

We were upgrading our sofa, DH worked with a guy, just starting out so offered him our old one FOC. Young guy very appreciative and said yes. Young guy lived 40 miles from us, had no transport. We borrowed a friends van, paid for petrol, drove and delivered the sofa. We then bought the van owner a bottle of nice wine for allowing us to borrow said van. Young guy, didn’t lift a finger or pay a penny towards anything and wasn’t remotely inconvenienced. Just sat happily on his freshly cleaned sofa. 🙈🙈🤣

A good deed at least !

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autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:48

Heatherbell1978 · 31/08/2024 07:56

I'm liking this thread. Not sure it's quite the same but now that I've discovered Vinted for buying kids clothes, I can safely say I've wasted hundreds, thousands maybe on clothes and kid stuff (especially baby) that I could have just bought second hand. I was swept along on the wave of shiny new things for far too long...

Same!

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autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:46

Spookypoo · 31/08/2024 07:20

I’m definitely a higher rate stupidity tax payer…

Recently had a very satisfying day decluttering the house with multiple trips to the tip. I hadn’t looked at my phone all day and couldn’t find it in the evening so asked my DH to do a ‘locate my’ on his phone - phone was in a massive, stinking skip at the tip with no way of getting it out. My previous phone had been put in the washing machine.

OP yes also been there with the car and dead battery. We camped in a beautiful remote spot in Scotland and had the car doors open to give some light. Next day flat battery and no reception.

Oh god that's awful

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80smonster · 31/08/2024 09:28

My husband.

marmaladian · 31/08/2024 09:28

Letting my DP who is a classic "champagne lifestyle" but in his case zero income, almost 20 years now and I'm broke.

Auburngal · 31/08/2024 09:25

weddingcaketopper · 31/08/2024 07:32

DH somehow managed to chuck our 'main car' spare car key in the tip last year! No idea why he had the key or how it ended up there... he was driving our older car which we use for tip runs. Bought air tags for our keys after this incident

A family friend decided to take the old washer or fridge to the tip as refused to pay £20 for the old one taken away by the retailer and £25 for bulky waste from the council.

On unloading the item at the tip, he damaged the boot lock. Cost to repair that - £120.

NotSmallButFunSize · 31/08/2024 09:25

Saying over and over "we must get breakdown cover" and not, then getting a puncture and having to pay nearly £200 on emergency call out to patch it and then also buy new tires.

Was so pissed off with myself

CharSiu · 31/08/2024 09:25

We lost the car keys to our hire car in Spain. We had to pay £50 but as this was 1998 it was a lot more back then. We paid on credit card but it was still the machines with paper that you signed. They never ever cashed in that piece of paper assumed they lost it so they paid stupidity tax on our stupidity tax.

DadJoke · 31/08/2024 09:25

Couldn’t find my passport before a holiday. Had to book an overnight trip to get a new emergency passport - cost a fortune. When I got back, found the old passport tucked into the side pocket of the carry on luggage.

Oreosandwich · 31/08/2024 09:24

Buying food every 1 or 2 days from Co-op instead of meal planning and doing a big shop from Aldi or Lidl.

Auburngal · 31/08/2024 09:19

When my ex and I went on holiday one of us booked and paid for the flights and one paid for hotels.

I booked the hotel for Prague and I was working and he had a day off. He booked the flights and forwarded the email. He booked for Paris!!! As the drop down menu Paris is before Prague as listed alphabetically. Texted him that he's a muppet for booking Paris, not Prague.

Got home and couldn't book the flight to Prague as fully booked. Changed it to 2 days later. That was about £160 more for admin and that the flights (both ways) two days later were more expensive. Tried to rebook the hotel and full on the last two days. So ended up with a hotel that cost about another £20 more a night. Could have booked cheaper hotels but they were well out of the city centre. Don't want to be wasting 45 mins going into central Prague and back each time.

So our bargain break to Prague cost us another £240, about two thirds more than if he bloody checked which flight he originally booked.

MrsMoastyToasty · 31/08/2024 09:15

Driving the last few yards of the bus lane. I wasn't driving a bus...

SummerSplashing · 31/08/2024 09:05

I would 'spill' but I appear to have put them all in the ' move on' folder🤣🤣

some advantages to menopause brain fog I suppose.

I had to start charging our Fleet drivers for incorrect fuel refilling. It was costing us a fortune & I hope it would focus their attention!! The vehicles had stickers on the fuel doors/flaps and the fuel caps, all vehicles took the same fuel. They got the first accident/mistake free, but had to pay after that. It helped, but didn't entirely stop it.

MyDogsPaws · 31/08/2024 09:04

i live in fear of filling my car with the wrong fuel, I often drive several different vehicles a week for work and have to refuel them all so I’m really strict about always reading the label in the fuel cap and matching it to the fuel nozzle every time I refuel any car, even my own!

last year I lost my keys while I was out but luckily had my spare key in my car and had left it unlocked also luckily no one had stolen my car 🤦‍♀️ I then lost my spare key THE SAME DAY. Fortunately my car was at home when I lost the spare key somewhere in my village. I was self employed at the time and couldn’t work for 3 days until someone found my original keys in a puddle in the woods and handed them into the police station where I collected them. Trying to explain to all my customers why I couldn’t come to work for 3 days was embarrassing and if cost me a fortune in missed work!

DogDaysNeverEnd · 31/08/2024 09:03

Putting the wrong car reg into parking app, so not only paying for parking (albeit for friend's car that was not there) but also having to pay the £25 fine for not having paid for parking for the car actually in the car park. It's a relatively small amount but insanely frustrating stupidity tax!

Wigtopia · 31/08/2024 09:03

Not ordering the bag of dog food online in time because I forgot about the bank holiday Monday. She wouldn’t have had enough so I had to buy an extra bag from the local shop which is more pricey per kg (online I get a 12kg bag delivered, but the shop only stocks 2kg bags).

the bit that makes it more annoying is that it’s not even the first time I’ve done it!

Naddd · 31/08/2024 09:03

SpringleDingle · 31/08/2024 08:12

On a recent holiday I mixed up the train tickets and we got on an earlier train by accident. My original tickets were non transferable so ended up paying the enormous on the day price (£220) for new tickets. It was pretty gutting!

Could you not have gotten off at the next stop and used the old tickets n paid the fare for the wrong train up to then?

thekrakenhasgone · 31/08/2024 09:00

Constantly buying too much fruit and veg at the weekly shop and always throwing half of it out. I never learn. I can never get it right despite meal planning efforts. I blame the family of teens constantly making last minute changes to their plans!

GreenPoppy · 31/08/2024 08:55

Buying stuff on Vinted that is badly fitting, or more worn out than I could really tell from the pics. I wouldn't have bought any of it if I had seen it first-hand.

Repeatedly buying glasses that don't suit me. It's such a high-value exercise that I do so rarely, that each mistake is a very expensive one.

Blueybanditbingochilli · 31/08/2024 08:53

Signing up to Fabletics

Gatehouse77 · 31/08/2024 08:50

Booked flights to the wrong airport so had to hire a car a week before we needed it and do the 4 hour drive there and back.

Didn’t know you needed a visa for visiting Australia (thought it was only work visas because that’s all I’d heard anyone discussing) until trying to check in and couldn’t get one sorted in time so missed the flight. And then didn’t think to reuse the return flight so bought completely new tickets…premium economy 😤

weddingcaketopper · 31/08/2024 08:49

Icannotremembermyusername · 31/08/2024 08:38

Coming home from Maldives we had a separate flight booked from Dubai as we thought we would stop off for a few days. When we went to check in, we were told it was the day before and we had missed it! (In the days before internet check in) I had got confused with the overnight dates as it was a night flight. Very expensive to get back to UK! I am super careful now!!

I did this (though not as dramatic). Booked a taxi home from a night flight the day before I actually landed. Cue one v confused taxi driver at the airport when I was in Miami. Had to pay him twice £80 (obviously), plus he was my neighbor 😂

The more posts on this thread the more I'm realising how much stupidity tax I've paid!!

Icannotremembermyusername · 31/08/2024 08:38

Coming home from Maldives we had a separate flight booked from Dubai as we thought we would stop off for a few days. When we went to check in, we were told it was the day before and we had missed it! (In the days before internet check in) I had got confused with the overnight dates as it was a night flight. Very expensive to get back to UK! I am super careful now!!

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