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Aibu to bin the date off now?

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ForOliveShaker · 30/08/2024 18:55

Been speaking to a guy for a couple of weeks. He’s alright looking, my type and to be fair, he rings me after work and we’ve had quite the laugh and joke. He’s make me laugh and we have really similar interests.

we were on the phone today and he randomly mid convo said “oh damn I just looked in my rear view mirror and the girl behind me is beautiful” mind you I’m pretty secure in myself to not feel majorly intimidated. However, I went silent on the phone and just said “yeah okay. Maybe I’ll have a rethink about tomorrow” he went “no I’m not ever gonna do anything. I think it’s okay to acknowledge others being pretty” so I said “yeah that’s fine. But again maybe I’m just interested anymore”

It’s a massive shame because we’d really got on so far but something about that just put me off. Shall I bin it or aibu?

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HealthyHopefulHappy · 30/08/2024 18:58

Hmm I also think he was negging you. What an idiot he is, best off out of it!

CucumberBagel · 30/08/2024 18:57

You'll get lots of cool wives and men defending it, but it was a weird thing to say. It's almost like he wanted to neg you. I'd bin him off.