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BrokenChristmasLight · 30/08/2024 07:04

Put up their CHRISTMAS TREE!

I heard them arguing last night when getting ready for bed and only half heartedly paid attention that it had something to do with a light being broken. We both had our windows open but the discussion was pretty loud and they only live across the road. However, at no point did I even remotely consider that they were talking about Christmas lights. I shut the curtains, went to bed and when I woke up this morning I'm met with a fully decorated Christmas tree standing full view in the front window!

So do they win some sort of prize it's still the bloody summer holidays or has someone else beaten them to it?

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Funkyslippers · 30/08/2024 08:50

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 30/08/2024 07:47

Your DM was correct - Christmas Eve to 6th January is Christmas. We never put decorations up before about the 22nd December when I was child. I still don't put any up until mid-month. Don't understand the 'put the decs up in November, rip them down on Boxing Day' brigade, when Christmas doesn't actually start until 24th December.

Anyway. Would love to know the thinking behind the OP's neighbour's decision!

Technically though the 12 days of Christmas are 25 Dec - 5 Jan. Though after Boxing Day people start asking "did you have a nice Christmas?"🤣

BrokenChristmasLight · 30/08/2024 08:49

HeartandSeoul · 30/08/2024 08:45

This must be a reverse 😁😉!

Oh heck no. There's absolutely no way I'm having this speculated on the thread and not shutting down that nonsense. 😆 I can categorically say I have no tree up and if MNHQ want a virtual house tour to confirm that I'm happy to oblige. 😅

Mine goes up in December along with all the other rational people. 😆

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Mammma91 · 30/08/2024 08:49

Wow. Mine is up for 3 weeks max, even at that I’m constantly hoovering! Absolutely no chance. We’ve still got Halloween to go yet!

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 30/08/2024 08:48

Clarinet1 · 30/08/2024 07:33

My late DM frowned on putting decorations up before Christmas Eve! And they came down on January 6th.

A fine woman. I'm very much of her mind. My husband would be delighted if we didn't bothere at all, but he is the spiritual heir to Scrooge.

Auburngal · 30/08/2024 08:47

I personally say that Xmas crap in shops in August makes Christmas a let down IMHO. Plus working in retail doesn't help

Been to several countries in mainland Europe in Oct and saw very little or none at all in their shops.

If other countries can have little Xmas crap in Oct, why can't we?

Another thing that winds me up with Xmas are shops, including mine who play the same tired 40 songs to death. This is torture for the staff who try to zone it out, making us more tired. Then customers say "doesn't this music drive you mad?" Then I bloody hear it for the next hour.

No other time of year are so few songs played to death. Even going to a charity shop and look at a Xmas CD released 30 years ago and look at the listings of a 'new' one online. The only difference is Destiny's Child song has been replaced a certain paedo's Xmas song.

Even shoppers don't want the Xmas music. Retailers say it boosts the mood. No that theory died off many years ago.

What I don't get is the toy shop The Entertainer. CEO is a devout Christian so their shops are closed on Sundays, even the Sunday before Christmas. Yet they play Xmas music from 2nd week in Oct. As my friend went to visit The Entertainer about 11th Oct to buy something for her nephew's birthday a few days later. Heard Noddy shouting "IT'S CHRISTMAS!!!". My friend said NO ITS NOT.

Funkyslippers · 30/08/2024 08:47

Stopthatknocking · 30/08/2024 07:25

Dd has a mid August birthday.
Summer party in the garden planned, water pistols, paddling pools, bbq, etc

Woke up to grey skies and torrential rain.
Quite the opposite of summer.

So, a rethink was needed

Quick text to guests parents, up into the loft and got the decs down, and it became a full on xmas party instead!

Blimey what a palaver. She could have had, like, a birthday party?

LookItsMeAgain · 30/08/2024 08:46

Supermarkets are already selling the large tubs of Heroes, Celebrations and Roses...so Christmas must only be around the corner. 🎅

worryworrysuperscurry · 30/08/2024 08:46

That tree will be so dusty by December! I thought I'd seen the earliest one when I drove past a house a couple of years ago that had theirs up at the end of September. I did tut loudly when I saw Christmas chocolates in Sainsbury's last week though...

Sethera · 30/08/2024 08:45

Our local garden centre has set up its Christmas Grotto - wasn't open last weekend but looked ready to go!

BrigadierEtienneGerard · 30/08/2024 08:45

We have a friend who has to work over Xmas. They have their office Xmas party in July and the local pub puts up an Xmas tree for them.

HeartandSeoul · 30/08/2024 08:45

This must be a reverse 😁😉!

justasking111 · 30/08/2024 08:45

IamnotSethRogan · 30/08/2024 07:07

That is insane. Perhaps, giving them thr benefit of the doubt, they have put it up to take some sort of Christmas card photo.

My influencer friend had to do this last year for a company. Was so funny to see.

FoxtrotOscarKindaDay · 30/08/2024 08:44

School holidays ended here couple of weeks ago, as soon as the kids were back at school there was Christmas stock in the seasonal aisle in Morrisons, the mince pies aren't even making it datewise to October.

I'm sure there will be Christmas trees up shortly too.

Commercial Christmas comes quicker every year.

LookItsMeAgain · 30/08/2024 08:43

In fairness, last Christmas (don't sing it...don't go there) my mother was quite unwell...actually knocking on heaven's door (again....please don't sing it) so we put up her tree early - say late November.
Well, we kept the tree up past Christmas, and then I found some decorations to put on the tree for Easter (felt Easter Eggs and bunny rabbits and carrots and such like) and she had an Easter tree.

If someone is unwell, sometimes having Christmas early or having the tree up but dressing it for Hallowe'en or whatever might bring them some happiness.

I'm all for this type of simple enjoyment.

BrokenChristmasLight · 30/08/2024 08:42

I appreciate lots of people might do this for unwell family etc but as I said they seem in fine health and they don't have any young children, just one child who is old enough to live alone who has no kids and has not lived there since we moved in years ago.

They also really don't strike me as photo Christmas card people but I suppose you can never really know for sure 😃.

I'll keep my eyes peeled for any visiting Aussies or distant relatives though and maybe it will be taken down again in a few days.

Either way if it were me I wouldn't be putting it in full view of the front window. You never know what your nosy neighbours might do, they might start an online discussion about my weird behaviour heaven forbid. 😅

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Cural · 30/08/2024 08:40

Mince pies in Tesco yesterday, told DH he couldn't have them until September.

Sunday it is then!

DoIWantTo · 30/08/2024 08:38

We once put our Christmas tree up in November, we were sick of it by Christmas Day. Can’t imagine having it up since August!

permanently · 30/08/2024 08:37

Racy December photoshoot for the annual personalised family calendar? Grandchildren beware.

theleafandnotthetree · 30/08/2024 08:36

readysteadynono · 30/08/2024 08:30

My parents put up Christmas tree and lights in the summer when my brother was going to be posted oversees over Dec and we had an early Christmas with presents and Turkey so he could be there for it. Maybe something like that?

But your explanation or any of the others re terminal illnesses etc explain the OUTDOOR decorations surely. Knock yourself out inside with decorations, turkey etc but it is deeply odd and bound to arouse comment when outside for the world to see and the neighbours to annoy.

Blueybanditbingochilli · 30/08/2024 08:36

Send them a Christmas card

Hollietree · 30/08/2024 08:35

Ok sorry I’ve been that crazy person once! My brother and his family live in Australia and we only see each other every few years. When our kids were all bit younger they had planned to come to us for Christmas 2020……. But obviously it was cancelled. When they finally were able to visit us in June 2022 the kids were all saying what a shame it was we missed Christmas together, that the cousins had never had a Christmas Day together etc.

So June 25th was Christmas Day at our house! I put up the tree, full on decorated one room in our house as a Christmas wonderland. I cooked a full Christmas dinner, the kids left out stockings for Santa and he came out just for us in June 😉 It was brilliant and the kids loved it.

Could they be doing something like that? Might go down again in a few days.

readysteadynono · 30/08/2024 08:30

My parents put up Christmas tree and lights in the summer when my brother was going to be posted oversees over Dec and we had an early Christmas with presents and Turkey so he could be there for it. Maybe something like that?

geoger · 30/08/2024 08:28

That’s hilarious! I wonder why they’ve done that - please ask them OP. In our house the tree goes up second week of December and comes down January 2nd.
Btw: Costco has got loads of Christmas and Halloween stuff already

Commonsense22 · 30/08/2024 08:28

I know many people brought Christmas forward to celebrate with a family member whi had a terminal illness, often someone quite young. I wouldn't judge.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 30/08/2024 08:27

We walked past a block of students flats yesterday and there was a large Christmas tree in the foyer. I couldn't believe it and was bristling with indignation until DS pointed out the "for sale" sign beside it! 🤣

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