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To be miffed about my filthy house

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constantlylactating · 29/08/2024 22:27

Bought a house with DH and 2x young DS (5 and 5 months), moved in last Friday. It was an older lady living here alone, the house was too much for her, and as such we expected to have to roll our sleeves up and do some serious cleaning.

On moving day we didn't get the keys until 4.45, so when we arrived we were shattered. The house was so filthy when we were moving our stuff in, I could have cried. It stank of dogs (still does a week on) and every room was caked in layers of filth and grime- the kitchen and bathroom were so bad, I wouldn't even take the baby in them.

She had also left several things in the house- a huge wardrobe full of clothes, huge old dresser, dirty old fridge, oven, cupboards full of plates and food, and a shed packed full of broken tools.

We ended up in a hotel that first night, and we booked a deep clean with a cleaning company for the next day. Cleaner arrived and was horrified at the state the house had been left in. It took her 4 hours just to do the bathroom- she unearthed piles of dirty razor blades tucked behind the sink.

We need another deep clean as she didn't get round to most of the house. We also need to book a skip to get rid of all her crap stuff.

We expected a certain level of work, but honestly this last week has been really hard going, and it's still nowhere near clean enough for us to unpack most of our stuff.

AIBU to have expected better, or is this just standard?

This is the second house we have bought, we didn't have any issues at all the first time around.

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Edingril · 29/08/2024 22:35

Well you but a place as it is when you inspect it, sure no ones things should be there other than what is on the report

But did you not do a final inspection before settlement?

I don't remember it mentioning anywhere a place has to be clean, sure it is nice for it to be but not sure legally you can do anything about it

constantlylactating · 29/08/2024 22:35

GRex · 29/08/2024 22:31

You need to charge for this, the seller can't leave possessions.

I'm not sure how you didn't notice the state of the house when you looked round though, to figure out it might be an issue? You'll need a decent answer to that if you want the solicitor to charge cleaning fees to the seller.

So a lot of the dirt/caked on grime is on the walls/floors, and she had so much stuff piled up everywhere, you honestly couldn't see.

And re the smell- we knew she had dogs, so expected something, I think everything just got uncovered/stirred up with them moving her stuff out.

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Tumbler2121 · 29/08/2024 22:33

Presumably it was like that when you looked at it? Also, did you get it really, really cheaply, an estate agent friend told me that a filthy house is the biggest bargain you'd ever get.

GRex · 29/08/2024 22:32

Take a lot of photos while you wait!

GRex · 29/08/2024 22:31

You need to charge for this, the seller can't leave possessions.

I'm not sure how you didn't notice the state of the house when you looked round though, to figure out it might be an issue? You'll need a decent answer to that if you want the solicitor to charge cleaning fees to the seller.

constantlylactating · 29/08/2024 22:30

DoreenonTill8 · 29/08/2024 22:29

Please say you have told your solicitor and she/her estate will be billed for the clean up!

I have, I emailed them last weekend but have heard nothing back!

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DoreenonTill8 · 29/08/2024 22:29

Please say you have told your solicitor and she/her estate will be billed for the clean up!

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