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To think we should all boycott John Lewis until they respect their female employees

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Lovelyview · 29/08/2024 17:26

https://grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/resignation-letter-from-a-john-lewis

This is a letter from a female employee of John Lewis's Cheadle branch. John Lewis told its female employees that they have to share toilets and locker rooms with trans identifying men. The employee says this is having a terrible effect especially on colleagues who have experienced trauma relating to men or who have religious reasons to not want to share a space with someone who is the opposite sex.

Resignation letter from a John Lewis Partner

The John Lewis Partnership is abusing its female staff and customers

https://grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/resignation-letter-from-a-john-lewis

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SophiaJ8 · 29/08/2024 18:33

I already boycott them as they use Royal Mail for deliveries and they’re never left, but happy to additionally boycott for this too

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 29/08/2024 18:33

Katemax82 · 29/08/2024 18:24

You would think religious rights Trump trans rights?

It's going to be an interesting battle when it happens, and I think it it will happen eventually as the Muslims I know are very against mixed sex spaces and particularly by deception.

You could even say making all your facilities mixed sex without informing anyone is pretty Islamophobic (and discriminating against other religions too). Especially since having clearly labeled third spaces would be so easy and would accommodate everyone (well except those for whom the point is to get access to unconsenting women and children but as we know this never happens).

GailBlancheViola · 29/08/2024 18:33

Kath85 · 29/08/2024 18:28

Nope, not bothered by this at all!

How nice of you to be so supportive of those female employees, so very, very kind.

Missmarple87 · 29/08/2024 18:32

The number of women on this thread who DGAF about the safety and dignity of other women just because they don't know them?! Who needs the patriarchy when you have women like that, eh?

Elbone · 29/08/2024 18:31

Katemax82 · 29/08/2024 18:24

You would think religious rights Trump trans rights?

When two groups shave opposing wants:

  1. women having access to female-only spaces

  2. men having access to female-only spaces

What makes group one so easy to dismiss and group two so easy to prioritise?

Chersfrozenface · 29/08/2024 18:30

At least 5 years ago JL said customers should use whichever changing room they feel comfortable with.

So men can use the women's changing rooms, meaning that I, a woman, don't feel comfortable with them.

JL doesn't cater for me so I don't shop there.

DeclutteringNewbie · 29/08/2024 18:30

Katemax82 · 29/08/2024 18:24

You would think religious rights Trump trans rights?

They’re a protected characteristic.

As is sex.

Women are entitled to single sex spaces. Men, whatever they believe they are, are not entitled to access them. That’s the actual law. Stonewall may wish otherwise but it’s only a matter of time before that house of cards falls.

GailBlancheViola · 29/08/2024 18:30

I'll join you in your boycott and letter writing OP. I am sick and tired of how women and girls wants and needs are so easily dismissed and disregarded in favour of males.

The fact no female employee was even asked about this and it was just imposed on them says it all about who wields the power and exposes the misogyny and patriarchal control at the heart of this. There is zero respect or consideration for women.

keeptalkinghappytalk · 29/08/2024 18:30

John Lewis falling victim to absurd American gender ideology that lets men ( married, with willies, etc) claim they are women, dress up as women and enter women s spaces. You re letting a lot of women down here, JL. Don t knowingly undersell us.

hairbearbunches · 29/08/2024 18:29

Just because safe space on religious grounds intersects with the trans issue doesn't now make that right. Women being banned from male spaces in religion is misogyny as well. Having their own safe space comes from that, nothing else.

Lovelyview · 29/08/2024 18:29

Katemax82 · 29/08/2024 18:24

You would think religious rights Trump trans rights?

I think sex based rights are important for women's privacy and safety. Some women have a religious belief that means they don't want to share a space with men, some women have trauma which means they don't want to share a space with men and some women simply do not want to share spaces like toilets and changing rooms with men and they should absolutely have that right.

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DeclutteringNewbie · 29/08/2024 18:28

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Have you missed the tribunal case where NHS workers are taking their employer to court for this (illegal) policy?

Elbone · 29/08/2024 18:28

Yep. Happily.

Kath85 · 29/08/2024 18:28

Nope, not bothered by this at all!

Katemax82 · 29/08/2024 18:24

You would think religious rights Trump trans rights?

WomensRightsRenegade · 29/08/2024 18:23

violetsparkle · 29/08/2024 17:54

Whilst I understand you are upset about this, John Lewis is a major employer and retailer. If they have to close it will be devastating for the retail environment. We've lost debehams. I don't know how long house of Fraser is going to last, bhs - gone.

In which case they shouldn’t be shafting their main customer base - by pandering to those with shafts.

How utterly miserable that so many WOMEN on Mumsnet who would be self-flagellating with barbed wire if John Lewis were discriminating against black people have no issue with this grotesque discrimination against women and girls.

Misogyny really is the oldest and deepest hatred.

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Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 29/08/2024 18:22

WomensRightsRenegade · 29/08/2024 18:21

They all let men into women’s toilets? Trying to imagine the epic privilege in being able to be nonchalant about this.

Would fit right in Afghanistan with that attitude! Completely fine with women being excluded from public spaces - exactly like the Taliban.

Hectorscalling · 29/08/2024 18:22

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How would you even go about that?

How do you choose to not financially support the NHS?

ButterCrackers · 29/08/2024 18:21

Sidebeforeself · 29/08/2024 17:52

The writing on is on the wall for this company anyway..might survive online but I think we’ll see all stores close in the next few years.

Agree. It used to be a good shop but not anymore. Women will work and shop elsewhere.

WomensRightsRenegade · 29/08/2024 18:21

DadJoke · 29/08/2024 18:13

John Lewis, like every single other major high street retailer does not ban trans women from women’s loos. You will have to boycott every single one of them. Good luck with that.

They all let men into women’s toilets? Trying to imagine the epic privilege in being able to be nonchalant about this.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 29/08/2024 18:20

DadJoke · 29/08/2024 18:15

You will need to abandon the high street and every single public service, too, because not a single one excludes trans women from women’s loos.

Fine with me, plenty of local independent retailers have single sex spaces and run by sex realists with a grasp of child safety, because I chat with them about it. More expensive but I can afford it. The MRAs deserve to fail. And public services will be sued back into single sex provision pretty soon, contributing to crowd funders will speed that up.

BanksysSprayCan · 29/08/2024 18:19

That’s discriminatory against women. They should take it up with their union.

I don’t use John Lewis much anyway, but will boycott and write to the CEO. Does this policy also apply to their Waitrose stores?

babyzoomer · 29/08/2024 18:18

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Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 29/08/2024 18:16

With this sort of crappy attitude to their main customer base they deserve to fail. They'll be replaced by another business in the same space - hopefully one that has a better approach to women's rights, their female employees and child safeguarding, and by doing so do better at giving the customer what they want.