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To ask where young families are moving to when leaving London?

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Yellowstickynote · 28/08/2024 10:57

DH and I live in SW London and absolutely love it. So much access to green spaces, wonderful bars & restaurants on our doorstep and so many friends in the area. Sadly, we own a 2 bed flat without lift access. We need more space, and heart is set on 3 house w/ garden, which is out of our budget if we remain in SW London.

We have Hybrid jobs (in office 1-2 days per week), so need good commuting links in to London (any London station is fine as can work from multiple offices). Most importantly, we want to move to a vibrant area which has plenty of things to do for young couples in their 30s, both with children and without. E.g. we love being near to green spaces and going to wine bars and restaurants. Some of the areas we’ve visited are lovely but so quiet and a much older crowd. We’d love to move somewhere that’s full of other young couples/families where we can make friends in the area.

Any recommendations welcome! Our budget isn’t the highest - don’t want to spend over 750k if we can help it.

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piscofrisco · 28/08/2024 12:59

Bishops stortford, ware, hertford

TheYearOfSmallThings · 28/08/2024 12:59

HundredMilesAnHour · 28/08/2024 12:32

I know quite a few young families who live in Walthamstow if you're willing to consider NE London rather than moving out. You can just about get a 3 bed house with garden in budget and then you're walking distance to the Victoria line.

For example:
www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/150127895#/?channel=RES_BUY

I live in Walthamstow and I love it but I also know west London where the OP currently lives and I don't think Walthamstow is the move the OP is looking for. If nothing else, the secondary school situation isn't great - my son is in Y4 and families are starting to move for that reason.

Seasmoke · 28/08/2024 12:59

Saschka · 28/08/2024 12:34

And in fact Raynes Park, Motspur Park, Worcester Park, New Malden. Maybe even Kingston.

I was going to say this! Also Purley and out from there- Riddlesdown etc??

WonderingAboutBabies · 28/08/2024 12:55

I'm going a bit further afield here. Here's two options, both of which I'd pick in a heartbeat.

1). Marlow, Buckinghamshire. Super beautiful town, lots of amenities, green space, river, countryside, wine bars, brunch spots etc. Requires a change of train but still under an hour to London.

2). Bath. Again, absolutely beautiful, lots of green space and amazing city centre. Good links to Bristol and Cornwall if that's your thing. Longer train but very frequent.

TheLette · 28/08/2024 12:41

Streatham is nearby - houses on my street are usually £750k for a 3 bed terrace. Not as fancy as Balham of course but lots of green space and there are nice enough places for coffee and food. Look at Streatham Common area. We are between Streatham and Streatham Common stations which is great for transport. Trains into Blackfriars take about 21 minutes from Streatham..The only thing I regret is that where we are is a bit of a black hole for secondary schools so will need to move at some point. If you look at Streatham Vale area you'd be able to buy for less and be in catchment of a good secondary. Excellent primary schools though, and loads of them.

ElsaLion · 28/08/2024 12:41

MidYearDiary · 28/08/2024 11:52

Our friends moved to Cambridge, Oxfordshire, Suffolk and Brighton. We moved to Leicestershire, which I don't recommend.

Why wouldn't you recommend Leicestershire? I'm from there, and moved back from London with my husband during COVID - couldn't be happier to be living in a nice place!

cr4postcode · 28/08/2024 12:41

You can definitely get something around Mitcham on that budget. We are 5 mins walk from station then 5 min train to balham. 20 min train to victoria. Plenty of young families around. Reputatuion isnt greatest and Mitcham town centre isnt that great either, but we are close enough to tooting/streatham etc it doenst matter, and never felt unsafe or anything.

Cornishclio · 28/08/2024 12:34

We left London altogether to the West Country 36 years ago as house prices were unaffordable even then in nice areas. Luckily my husband could get a transfer (engineer) and I didn't have problems getting work when our children were older. It is a global problem. Cities like New York, Vancouver, and capital European cities all are unaffordable for ordinary people

Saschka · 28/08/2024 12:34

Saschka · 28/08/2024 12:33

Right, but you will in Beckenham, Mitcham and Orpington.

And in fact Raynes Park, Motspur Park, Worcester Park, New Malden. Maybe even Kingston.

Saschka · 28/08/2024 12:33

Yellowstickynote · 28/08/2024 12:25

We are in Balham. We haven’t seen anything decent in the Balham/Tooting area in our budget unfortunately!

Right, but you will in Beckenham, Mitcham and Orpington.

HundredMilesAnHour · 28/08/2024 12:32

I know quite a few young families who live in Walthamstow if you're willing to consider NE London rather than moving out. You can just about get a 3 bed house with garden in budget and then you're walking distance to the Victoria line.

For example:
www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/150127895#/?channel=RES_BUY

Tinks1983 · 28/08/2024 12:30

Look Sutton/cheam/epsom way. Really good transport links, close to London, excellent schools and near to loads of parks etc l.
Also close to Kingston, Wimbledon etc

DialSquare · 28/08/2024 12:27

Leigh on Sea?

PleaseletitbeSpring · 28/08/2024 12:27

Faversham in Kent is just over an hour to St Pancras. Cafe culture, historic buildings and good schools. You can get a five bedroom detached for your budget.

Yellowstickynote · 28/08/2024 12:25

Peonies12 · 28/08/2024 12:09

So do I, and we spent just over half of that to get a 3-bed house with a garden.

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When was that?

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Yellowstickynote · 28/08/2024 12:25

foxglovesandharebells · 28/08/2024 12:08

I'd stay in London. Whereabouts in the SW are you at the moment? You can get a 3 bed house with garden and easy access to wine bars and green space etc within your budget if you look somewhere like Tooting. Plus you'll be much closer to your friends and not paying a fortune to commute.

We are in Balham. We haven’t seen anything decent in the Balham/Tooting area in our budget unfortunately!

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SmallBox · 28/08/2024 12:23

Lots of people I know have moved to Ramsgate, Margate and Broadstairs. Sandy beaches and a high speed train to London.

Bearbookagainandagain · 28/08/2024 12:14

It depends where you work if you need to commute to London.
There is a feature on Rightmove where you can set some condition like radius, proximity to train station to london, etc, and it tells you were you can live! I found it really useful when we were looking to move a few years ago.

Most people with families in my company have left Central London, and live in Brighton, Reading area (some as far as Oxford but that's only possible because we work in west London), Welwyn garden city is also quite popular...

Peonies12 · 28/08/2024 12:09

TeeBee · 28/08/2024 11:03

I live in one of the areas you mention and £750K isn't a massive budget to accommodate what the OP is looking for. However, you should be able to get something half decent for that OP.

So do I, and we spent just over half of that to get a 3-bed house with a garden.

foxglovesandharebells · 28/08/2024 12:08

I'd stay in London. Whereabouts in the SW are you at the moment? You can get a 3 bed house with garden and easy access to wine bars and green space etc within your budget if you look somewhere like Tooting. Plus you'll be much closer to your friends and not paying a fortune to commute.

smooshraspberry · 28/08/2024 11:57

Windsor?

Catza · 28/08/2024 11:56

Yellowstickynote · 28/08/2024 11:13

I really wish it wasn’t the case, but having looked at property prices in so many popular commuter towns we can get very little for our money!

You can definitely get a house in Worthing for far less than 750k. We lived there 5-6 years ago and it was where all the young Brighton families used to move. I imagine it has come a long way since then. We loved it. Lived 2 minutes walk from the beach and 7 minutes walk to East Worthing station and 15 minutes walk to Worthing "Proper". Train to London takes just under an hour.
40 min cycle to Brighton along the coastal path or 20 min train journey for a fiver.

MidYearDiary · 28/08/2024 11:52

Our friends moved to Cambridge, Oxfordshire, Suffolk and Brighton. We moved to Leicestershire, which I don't recommend.

Yellowstickynote · 28/08/2024 11:48

TheChosenTwo · 28/08/2024 11:41

Deal in Kent? I know a few families who moved out that way.
Not sure that budget will get you more than a terraced in a good location for the trains but it’s really pretty when I’ve visited.

Will take a look, thanks!

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TheChosenTwo · 28/08/2024 11:41

Deal in Kent? I know a few families who moved out that way.
Not sure that budget will get you more than a terraced in a good location for the trains but it’s really pretty when I’ve visited.

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