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Threads that have stayed with you

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Cinnamonkie · 27/08/2024 22:25

What threads have you seen on here that have lodged themselves into your brain?

For me it's the lady who was gifted a periscope by her dh which was completely random and hilarious.

Also the lady who upset a crow and never came back! Assumed she and her dog were eaten by the crows.

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GrumpyMiddleAgedCow · 27/08/2024 23:51

The lady who fostered the baby born addicted as the most devastating/inspirational

and Sistine Chapel as the most WTF

Lndnmummy · 27/08/2024 23:50

Teenyweenytinytrees · 27/08/2024 23:50

A lady posted about how ridiculous a school WhatsApp group had got and how OTT the other school Mums were, the other Mums happened upon the thread and there was a showdown. I was hooked. It got deleted.

Gutted to have missed it

salsamad · 27/08/2024 23:50

I too loved Somervilles threads. Sadly widowed with young children after being in a loving marriage. She was braving dating again and we all went along for the ride as she dated and fell in love again. I believe later threads updated that they went on to have a baby together.

Teenyweenytinytrees · 27/08/2024 23:50

A lady posted about how ridiculous a school WhatsApp group had got and how OTT the other school Mums were, the other Mums happened upon the thread and there was a showdown. I was hooked. It got deleted.

Lndnmummy · 27/08/2024 23:48

Pamela
A few years ago a lady posted about her dp spending xmas with his ex rather than with her when she was 38wks pregnant. The thread continued, she had her baby and not long after it transpired her partner had slept with the ex and got her pregnant too. The OP got piled on no end and the usual keyboard warriors dug out some posts from years ago where the OP had had SS involvement. For some reason this thread stuck with me, perhaps as she lived around the corner so I could picture her with her baby in winter waiting for the bus etc. I still think of her now years later and hope she is ok.

My own thread from years ago when my ds had meningitis and night after night loyal mnrs held my hand virtually through the nights of dispair. I will never forget the kindness and compassion shown.

On the uglier side of MN there was a woman who was
so indignant that she had been called a Karen by some black teenagers in the park. It transpired that she had shouted at an autistic little black girl for jumping in a puddle next to her and had splashed the OP's dog. As she was berating the little girl, the girls dad had intervened (he was tending to his other you g child, who had fallen) hence he was a few minutes behind the puddle jumping girl. OP then goes on to have a shouting match at the dad who she felt was 'ever so intimidating'. It was so clear through her post, how entitled she felt and how indignant she was. She had no regard or remorse for making a disabled little girl scared and upset. And she had nothing but support from most posters. It showed a very ugly side to
MN. It broke my heart.

whosthefoolnow · 27/08/2024 23:46

DietCokeExtraIce · 27/08/2024 22:40

Pamela, still think about that one especially when having a "bad day" which is never actually that bad in the grand scheme of things.

Unfortunately it nearly derailed towards the end but that aside it was heartbreaking.

I was going to say Pamela. She was unreal. I think if her husband and son. I hope they're ok.

Ichangedmynameonce · 27/08/2024 23:46

The one about what we did for our PFBs.....I still laugh remembering the woman who squirted Johnsons Baby Shampoo into her own eyes, to check it wouldn't sting her PFBs eyes 😄

Cural · 27/08/2024 23:46

TrickyTreeLou, chutney man.

Bluebellsinthewind · 27/08/2024 23:45

I remember the crow one, I never trust crows now. The woo thread with the guy at the Disco still gives me the shivers years later.

Can't remember the thread, but someone had asked for ideas for things to do with kids. Mumsnetters gave great suggestions including museums etc. Someone replied saying something like kids shouldn't be taken to places like museums etc as they are boring and not for kids. I found that reply really sad and think of it often. Kids are missing out on education, culture and new experiences because a adult has deemed it boring for them.

AMillionPeopleCheering · 27/08/2024 23:45

When Somerville found love again after her bereavement. That was a wonderful thread.

ThisMammaCat · 27/08/2024 23:44

There was a lady in her early 40's who was pregnant with her first baby by a lover who was not committed and who didn't want the child. She was able to go it alone and really wanted the baby but complied with his wishes and terminated. She was so sad and was clinging to some hope that the termination had actually failed. It hadn't. The man was living his carefree life and she was dealing with that grief. I think about her often and hope she found some peace.

SussexLass87 · 27/08/2024 23:44

A lady with Saz in her username...she thought that her husband was falling in love with his colleague. It was so sad and her dignity about it was just astounding.

I think it was a couple of years ago now, but I still think about her sometimes and hope she's found happiness.

whosthefoolnow · 27/08/2024 23:43

SillyMooMoos · 27/08/2024 22:33

Lady who was fostering a preemie baby who was born addicted to drugs. Really humbling thread.

Oh that woman was outstanding. She passed away from cancer in the end. What a loss to the world.

Blinkingbonkers · 27/08/2024 23:41

Pamela was relatively recent - I think of her too. TQ, for whom the mumsnet gin bottle emoji was created, is also missed…. Along with Cat Theif Keith and her most infamous of threads. I would like to know that Onnit is ok (& her dipshit ex got his comeuppance somehow🤞).

Marnieloves · 27/08/2024 23:40

HyggeTygge · 27/08/2024 23:29

Ahhh I need to read this, it sounds excellent!

Another one - the lady who got dumped by text with a "don't reply to this" - so she didn't. A long while later the dickhead came crawling back while she continued to ignore him.
Edit - this was RunningInTheRain as per the previous post!

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I came on the say about the ‘RunningInTheRain’ poster. I think about her whenever any of my friends get dumped - she behaved with so much dignity and her ex ended up kicking himself and trying to come crawling back. Ha! I hope she’s happy these days, what a star.

Neveranynamesleft · 27/08/2024 23:40

The bloke that clapped his hands and skipped about in an elephantine manner as he was going to be a grandad. The kids had absolutely nothing but to say he was pleased and couldn't wait was an understatement. The thread still gets updated.

echt · 27/08/2024 23:39

The one where a woman posted whose husband kept the garage locked and never allowed her in it. The OP stoutly resisted all the sensible suggestions made by MNers and then went away.
Probably a troll but there you go.

BunfightBetty · 27/08/2024 23:39

The one where the DH ate the fat balls that had been made for the birds, thinking they were a tasty homemade snack. Cried laughing at that one.

Squr · 27/08/2024 23:38

A thread a few years ago about hygiene where a poster said that the soapy water that ran off her stomach in the shower was sufficient to clean her genitals. I see her post regularly now and cannot unthink the thoughts I had

Bunny44 · 27/08/2024 23:34

aLittleWhiteHorse · 27/08/2024 23:24

SillyMooMoos · Today 22:33
Lady who was fostering a preemie baby who was born addicted to drugs. Really humbling thread.

i don’t think I’ll ever forget this one 💔

Is there a link to that one?

OldCrocks · 27/08/2024 23:33

Education79 · 27/08/2024 23:32

Maybe I'm a year out, this lady was Scottish but lived in NI and was a beautician.

She came over as a really lovely person - it was very heart wrenching.

Ah, not the same, thank goodness. Not sure I could bear to read about it all unfolding in real time.

Education79 · 27/08/2024 23:32

OldCrocks · 27/08/2024 23:30

Omg, I actually know someone called Pamela who died of bile duct cancer, though it was the year before last, not last year. Perhaps I should take a look for the thread.

Maybe I'm a year out, this lady was Scottish but lived in NI and was a beautician.

She came over as a really lovely person - it was very heart wrenching.

StillSeekingResponsibleAdult · 27/08/2024 23:32

@Cinnamonkie I remember the stolen woods, as the same poster was also on the pregnant after miscarriage thread I was on. I still think of her often and hope things are better for her now.

HeadacheEarthquake · 27/08/2024 23:31

100% the embarrassing things you did as a child thread

It makes my gut ache laughing

OldCrocks · 27/08/2024 23:30

Education79 · 27/08/2024 23:26

If you google Mumset Pamela they are all there, it went on from May to August last year and charts a very brave ladies journey with bile duct cancer, from diagnosis to her sad death only in her mid 40's.

They are a harrowing read, so be warned.

At the same time concurrently on that bastion of free speech that is Reddit there was a load of armchair detectives convinced it was all a scam - which sadly it wasn't.

Pamela fell silent the last few weeks, no updates, and this was of course when she was too ill to post. Then her husband came on (he had posted occasionally for her) and gave the sad news she had passed away, thanked everyone etc. bizarrely this very believable thread was a hoax, she had in fact died, but the dates didn't match up and her poor husband had to come on and confirm matters.

Meanwhile the armchair detectives on Reddit unearthed the details of her funeral and her husbands business, it all correlated, and was a true family tragedy played out on our screens.

Omg, I actually know someone called Pamela who died of bile duct cancer, though it was the year before last, not last year. Perhaps I should take a look for the thread.