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Is this the camping trip from hell.

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Redgreenfroggy · 27/08/2024 20:30

Just want to start by saying we camp 2 or 3 times a year and have loved it. Don’t know if we have been really lucky with campsites.
yep there has been the odd annoyance but on the whole great.

Arrived at a campsite yesterday and the family in the tent next door just seem to yell at each other all the time. If they are not yelling at each other they are yelling at the dog. The adults are constantly swearing at each other and the two little girls just seem to scream

To make it the 2 girls aged about 5 kept running in our tent laughing and running out again. At one point when DH and DS had bobbed to the campsite shop and I was looking for something in the car I looked back at the tent to see both girls coming out of our tent with one of my sons board games. I stopped them and said they should not take things that dont belong to them and to stop coming in our tent. All I got in return was them both sticking their tongue out at me.

When my DH came back he went over and had a word but they parents could not seem to grasp while we didn’t want their little darlings on our tent and said they would only be borrowing the board game.

Woke up this morning at 6 to the girls running around our tent screaming and shouting for my son to wake up. My son is 12 and wants nothing to do with them. Luckily it stared raining so they went back to their tent.

Later this afternoon came back to the campsite after a day out and not only has a new family pitched their tent right up next to ours so we could literally reach out and touch their tent from standing inside ours, they have pitched over were the car is meant to go.

all the tents are pitched so there is a tent and then a car on the right hand side but they have 2 cars and have just taken up their pitch and half of ours. I did point out this to them but I just got a shrug of the shoulders.

We did mention to the owners of the campsite this had happened and they did say they would have a word if we really wanted them too but could we just put our car by reception. We got the feeling they did not want any confrontation. So our car is now by reception. Not a huge deal but still a bit inconvenient.

i am now in our tent listening to an argument from the family next door. The kids screaming and the dog going bat shit barking. Plus the ones that are right up next to us the bloke keeps hacking at the time.
So you get that massive hack noise as if he is trying to bring something up. The women with him had a cackle laugh that would put Amanda Holden and Alisha Dixon to shame.

My DH has gone out to get ear plugs

OP posts:
PralinesandCream · 27/08/2024 22:11

Sounds awful. at least you only have one more night. If you saw him kick the dog hard, please at a minimum inform the rspca. That poor animal.

Barney16 · 27/08/2024 22:11

Husband occasionally suggests camping. My reply is why would I go on holiday to something more uncomfortable than my home. We haven't been camping...

cardibach · 27/08/2024 22:05

TheCompactPussycat · 27/08/2024 21:56

Well, if it was a question about whether you like camping or not, then yes it would be fine.

It's a bit odd when posters keep saying it when an OP has mentioned they enjoy camping though.

Fair point - except several of t(e things she says make this the trip from hell are unavoidable when you camp - hearing and interacting with people around you all the time, even at night, for eg. So I guess I’m answering ‘is this the camping trip from hell?’ with ‘yes, but they all are’.

Snugglemonkey · 27/08/2024 22:05

KatyaKabanova · 27/08/2024 20:44

This x 1,000,000.
Why on earth do people do it?

People do it because they want to have holidays and do not have a lot of money. People who are snide about it can usually afford to be, but many save money were they can for other things.

TheCompactPussycat · 27/08/2024 21:56

cardibach · 27/08/2024 21:46

Maybe the odd one…I genuinely don’t remember.
But even if someone did say it every time, that would be ok wouldn’t it?

Well, if it was a question about whether you like camping or not, then yes it would be fine.

It's a bit odd when posters keep saying it when an OP has mentioned they enjoy camping though.

Crumpleton · 27/08/2024 21:55

cheesecakewrestler · 27/08/2024 21:47

Surely one advantage of camping is that your lodgings are totally portable and you could’ve solved this in an hour?

Problem is if you've paid upfront as you have to in many sites its a bit unfair if you're not the one causing problems but have to move off.

It's the camp site owner/management that need to put a stop to this type of behaviour and ask those doing the shouting to be considerate or leave then maybe they'll think twice infuture.

CableCar · 27/08/2024 21:55

Iheartmysmart · 27/08/2024 20:37

Sounds like a crappy campsite. All the ones I’ve been to in the past have a strictly enforced distance between tents which is vital in case of fire. I’d ask for a refund and go home personally.

This. The fire thing is shocking in particular as I thought it was standard for campsites to have a gap of a certain amount between tents for health and safety.

The worst campsite we went to had the men in the tent nextdoor weeing around their tent on the pitch in broad daylight ... Vile... people adjacent smoking weed and playing loud music... It was horrific and I am never ever going back. It was a second visit though - our first visit had been brilliant!! It definitely depends who you pitch next to.

Garlicnaan · 27/08/2024 21:55

ThinWomansBrain · 27/08/2024 21:21

By definition. camping of any variety is hell
Your current hell sounds like it is in even deeper depths of hell.
(I did camp in India once, and there were waiters offering me hot toddys, someone offering to put a water bottle in my bed and my tent had its own loo and shower, that was OK).

I've had two mostly lovely camping trips this year. It's a different, outdoorsy experience we just can't get in a hotel or Airbnb (within our budget anyway!)

The best places as a pp says are small, cleverly planned campsites. Less likely to attract twats like this and you don't get people crammed in.

At one of the places I stayed this year I couldn't even see another tent from ours!

I've had much worse experiences in hotels than I ever have in camping!

Crumpleton · 27/08/2024 21:50

Also OP do leave an honest review.
Although we no longer camp tent wise we do occasionally camper van and have always been fortunate that reviews I've read have been pretty much bang on so it does help others.

CitronellaDeVille · 27/08/2024 21:48

TheCompactPussycat · 27/08/2024 21:41

Perhaps it's someone else I'm thinking of in which case, my apologies. 😊
I could have sworn you've been on previous camping threads I've been on.

There’s always someone queuing up on threads asking ‘what do I need for camping ‘ to deliver the hilarious and highly original joke ‘a hotel’.

It’s bad enough when it’s a thread on the Camping board… but I suppose this is AIBU.

Haroldwilson · 27/08/2024 21:47

We had something like this a while ago. Now I'm super fussy about sites. Really basic ones weed or the twats, or ones with self enclosed bays.

cheesecakewrestler · 27/08/2024 21:47

Surely one advantage of camping is that your lodgings are totally portable and you could’ve solved this in an hour?

cardibach · 27/08/2024 21:47

CitronellaDeVille · 27/08/2024 21:44

@cardibach how is this helpful or relevant in response to an OP who in general loves camping, goes two or three times a year and usually loves it?

Some of us love camping. Whatever YOU think of it many many people love the whole process and vibe of sleeping outdoors etc.

Because it’s suggesting a way to have a less crap time. You’re under canvas. You have no escape form the people around you and their noise.

cardibach · 27/08/2024 21:46

TheCompactPussycat · 27/08/2024 21:41

Perhaps it's someone else I'm thinking of in which case, my apologies. 😊
I could have sworn you've been on previous camping threads I've been on.

Maybe the odd one…I genuinely don’t remember.
But even if someone did say it every time, that would be ok wouldn’t it?

MustyDooDah · 27/08/2024 21:45

Please leave an honest review of the site.

We camp and we rank the site management highly when selecting where to stay. We stayed in one place BECAUSE it had negative reviews about management being too strict (according to the group who wanted to play music and let their children play football after 10pm).

TheYearOfSmallThings · 27/08/2024 21:44

Every single part of that sounds awful.

CitronellaDeVille · 27/08/2024 21:44

cardibach · 27/08/2024 20:32

Camping is shit. It’s even shitter with bad neighbours, but in a hotel they’d be less of an issue , so it boils back down to camping being shit.

@cardibach how is this helpful or relevant in response to an OP who in general loves camping, goes two or three times a year and usually loves it?

Some of us love camping. Whatever YOU think of it many many people love the whole process and vibe of sleeping outdoors etc.

Rewis · 27/08/2024 21:43

Sorry op, sounds miserable. I mainly do wild camping so no neighbours. But yeah, tell the owners why you're leaving and try to get a refund since they're not enforcing their own rules. Also get a tent lock. And report the assholes.

ClockwiseHoneysuckle · 27/08/2024 21:43

SaltAndVinegar2 · 27/08/2024 21:27

Staying in a building means being indoors a lot more, generally. It probably depends on your budget but shuffling round a cramped caravan or a typical dated dingy UK holiday cottage are not better than a green field with views of the sea or mountains. Staying in a building is just more difficult to organise with groups of friends, there are always issues with bedroom allocation and needing to find somewhere the right size for all the people.

I'm only 48 and have no problems getting up off the floor! A 10 cm self inflating mattress is definitely the most comfortable thing I've ever slept on. It does take up about a quarter of the car boot but it's worth it.

I don't mind walking to the toilet in the day - at night just pee behind the car.

What's so great about being outdoors just because there isn't enough room in the tent? When I'm on holiday renting a cottage, I spend plenty of time outdoors, whether it's going out and about in the local area or sitting in the garden. But when it's raining, a house beats a tent every time.

Why assume that every holiday involves some mega planning operation with loads of friends to fit into the right rooms? Most people are happy just to go with their partners and families.

As for claiming that the "typical" UK holiday cottage is dated and dingy, you clearly haven't been in one lately. The last cottage we stayed in was really comfortable, had loads of room, a garden, fully up to date fittings, and free access to a swimming pool, all for around £450 for two for a week.

Crumpleton · 27/08/2024 21:42

We used to camp when our DC were younger, wasn't some of my best holidays but they loved it.

As for some people saying camping is shit, maybe, but in my experience of most times be it camping, places, where people live or whatever 99% of the time its actually the people that are shit.and make it shit for every one around them

You could be in a 5* hotel, the most beautiful place with scenery to die for, live in a million pound house but if those around you are inconsiderate and uncouth then you really are bolloxed.

No consultation to you OP but hopefully their neighbours where they live are having a wonderful break from them..

TitsInAbsentia · 27/08/2024 21:42

Your next camping holiday you need wind breaks (mark your territory, stop the CFers encroaching on your space) and hmm...a tazer?

TheCompactPussycat · 27/08/2024 21:41

cardibach · 27/08/2024 21:34

Eh? I don’t remember being on any before. I mostly do politics.

Perhaps it's someone else I'm thinking of in which case, my apologies. 😊
I could have sworn you've been on previous camping threads I've been on.

Scentedjasmin · 27/08/2024 21:38

I actually would call social services and the RSPCA. Make a note of the pitch number and dates and give them their car registration numbers and the campsite owners details. You could also record any abusive language on your phone.

CitronellaDeVille · 27/08/2024 21:37

Ugh, how awful.

I love camping but am extremely fussy about sites.

I only go to the big open back-to-basics sites with loads and loads of space between pitches. I also choose sites that do not allow any amplified music, which weeds loads of people out, and scour review sites and photographs.

Sorry you have had such a grim experience OP.

How the hell does any child / parent think it is ok to run on to anyone else’s pitch, let alone into a tent!

ClockwiseHoneysuckle · 27/08/2024 21:35

When the children ran into your son's tent this morning and woke you, I hope you shouted at them to get the hell out and stay out? I suspect that if you scare them enough they'll stay away.

However, being next to neighbour hawking his lungs up would have me packing up and demanding a new pitch, or else going home.