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Ask your recommendation for a pillow?

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Pillowtalkme · 26/08/2024 21:02

Suffering from terrible neck pain, which I suspect caused headaches as well
I would like to invest in a good pillow but it’s such a minefield.

anyone has any good experiences with any particular brands?

please recommend a good pillow. I’m desperate!

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Ilovemyshed · 27/08/2024 18:42

WildWildWestCoast · 26/08/2024 22:16

I'm another fan of a wool pillow. Supportive and not too hard. Mine was from Woolroom and I got one that you can add/remove the filling, so that it suits me perfectly.

Absolutely these.

BobandRobertaSmith · 27/08/2024 18:41

RosesAndHellebores · 26/08/2024 22:17

I suffer neck and back pain. A physio once told me feather/down were best. I am very satisfied with M&S Feather and down (duck I think) and they aren't too expensive.

This ^

I was advised by a consultant that down/feather pillows are best as they mould to fit you.

MimiGC · 27/08/2024 17:11

Where can you get Premier Inn pillows?

Beginningless · 27/08/2024 16:45

Mine is a Levitex one. The owner has various videos on socials about proper alignment. I love it so much, back pain reduced and happily it has stopped me snoring!!

Teaslethistlepink · 27/08/2024 14:42

tpmumtobe · 27/08/2024 00:00

You need a water pillow: https://amzn.eu/d/9q6481v

Total game changer for my TMJ and neck pain. Recommended by my dentist.

I have this. I take it with me anywhere I stay overnight and rarely wake up with the neck pain headache now.
I did wonder how durable it would be but I have had it some years with no issues and my chiropractor approved

Phloopey · 27/08/2024 12:34

The premier inn ones are worth a go. Not expensive and did the trick for me. I can't do feathers.

Like PP I think it's about the interaction with the mattress too. The right height of pillow depending on how far you sink into your mattress.

Verv · 27/08/2024 12:24

Tempur comfort original standard pillow was a life changer for me. No more bad neck on waking.

LittleRedYarny · 27/08/2024 12:17

I used to get neck pain and headaches as a side sleeper, spent a fortune on osteopath treatments that would fix the problem for a little while then it would reoccur. Then I bought a latex pillow from The Wool Room and haven’t looked back since.

Backtothe90ties · 27/08/2024 11:50

friskybivalves · 26/08/2024 23:00

I also suffer from neck pain and persistent migraines for which I am medicated. I have been through every single type of pillow in the known and unknown galaxies - ranging from the firmest Tempur to the softest goosedown and the most sustainable wool. Have spent £000s and been in despair.

The solution for me has been the Original Groove Pillow. www.groovepillows.co.uk/products/easy-sleeper?variant=31726559723606&nbt=nb%3Aadwords%3Ax%3A17132666306%3A%3A&nb_adtype=pla&nb_kwd=&nb_ti=&nb_mi=142534107&nb_pc=online&nb_pi=SE00101&nb_ppi=&nb_placement=&nb_si={sourceid}&nb_li_ms=&nb_lp_ms=&nb_fii=&nb_ap=&nb_mt=&utm_source=google&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=17132666306&utm_content=&utm_term=&gadid=&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwz7C2BhDkARIsAA_SZKaIAfUzN1QEhUxKeN7V8AW6tU9mbxswVRdB4tPHRz8piO5ErKdBoYQaAnyPEALw_wcB

I recently went away without it - disastrously, WTF was I thinking?? - and was gibbering at the prospect of coming back home to my.own bed. Would never previously have thought either my neck or head could have borne the pressure of a firmish pillow but this one supports in the right places without pressing in where it hurts.

Worth a go and I'll buy it off you if you hate it! I need another!

Another vote for the groove pillow. Still suffering from my holiday away from it too!

Definitelynotme2022 · 27/08/2024 11:29

Snowwhitedove · 27/08/2024 09:23

I also have neck problems and have recently discovered the solution to be a good quality feather/down pillow that I can ‘arrange’ around my neck.

I have chronic pain from two bulging discs and cervical stenosis, and I do the same. Good quality, soft and pliable, feather/down pillows. Soft enough to squish up under my neck for support.

I'm currently using John Lewis ones, expensive but last me a long time:
www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-natural-collection-hungarian-goose-down-kingsize-pillow-soft-medium/p3729551

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 27/08/2024 11:15

fatandhappyxxx · 27/08/2024 08:36

Loaf pillows are amazing

But avoid the crusty loaves, they really are quite uncomfortable. Chose a soft crust loaf with a high glycemic index as that can make one sleepy.

Makingchocolatecake · 27/08/2024 10:52

Tempur. Expensive but don't lose the poofiness.

friskybivalves · 27/08/2024 09:42

#Team GROOVE

I was also going to add that my wonderful neurologist, whom I love quite a lot for prescribing me the monthly game changing migraine injections, was a leetle bit condescending about my search for the perfect pillow. He basically said that my sleep was buggered and pillows wouldn't make a difference and I should save my money as nothing would help. But the groove did help and continues to help. When the injections are wearing off I can go longer without pain.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 27/08/2024 09:33

Watching. I’m really suffering with my neck at the moment. I’ve read good things about the Groove pillows.

Snowwhitedove · 27/08/2024 09:23

I also have neck problems and have recently discovered the solution to be a good quality feather/down pillow that I can ‘arrange’ around my neck.

volteface · 27/08/2024 09:23

Wool pillow. Heaven. The ones filled with little fluffy balls of wool. Easy to add or remove the stuffing to adjust . They manage to be soft, supportive and bouncy but not too much.

this is mine and I love it https://www.greenfibres.com/organic-wool-pillow-quilted they sell a bag of wool stuffing too.

fatandhappyxxx · 27/08/2024 08:36

Loaf pillows are amazing

Puddypuds · 27/08/2024 08:36

Nothing fancy here. I always found Premier inn pillows really comfy when we were away. Have tried lord knows how many expensive options. Bought some about six months ago and haven't looked back.

youllneverknow · 27/08/2024 08:29

I also recommend the Groove pillows. I have had issues with my neck for years and this has made such a difference me. I take it with me whenever I go away in the UK

HotHotChilli · 27/08/2024 04:49

I was also going to recommend Groove pillows as mentioned by @friskybivalves . After an injury I was suffering from terrible neck/shoulder pain and headaches and this really did help.

I also spent a crazy amount on trying out different pillows but this was the only one I got any form of sleep with. But leave them out for 24 hours to get rid of the initial packing smell.

But I do love a feather pillow but sadly cannot use anymore.

rosalynd34 · 27/08/2024 03:22

I have struggled with back and neck issues and went through a LOT of pillows. I can give recommendations but honestly, none of them fully helped because after going through so many pillows that I could start a shop, I realised the bigger issue was the mattress.

Ive always preferred a medium or even a softer mattress, hate the feel of a firmer one. But we stayed somewhere with a firm mattress and I suddenly realised that it helped my back.

I also realised the pillow I now need on my firm mattress is completely different.

So its worth considering both your pillow and your mattress.

Peasnbeans · 27/08/2024 02:09

These - were recommended on here and I miss it on holiday! No more fighting it trying to bouffe it up. There's different kinds, but basically choose Box Pillow style.
Slumberdown Box Edge Pillow 1 Pack - Firm Support Side Sleeper Pillow for Neck and Shoulder Pain Relief - 100% Soft Cotton, Supportive, Hypoallergenic, UK Standard Size (38cm x 64cm) amzn.eu/d/9j4MF4o

Foostit · 27/08/2024 01:41

Silentnight orthopaedic pillows have made a huge difference to my neck pain and headaches.

Oopstoo · 27/08/2024 01:38

Frazzled2108 · 26/08/2024 21:43

I bought a Putnam pillow for neck pain which was recommended by my osteopath. I've found it really good.

I second Putnam love them so much we take in holiday with us