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SIL wants holiday updates

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Beachdays86 · 26/08/2024 20:45

We are currently away for 2 weeks with DD and enjoying some much needed quality family time together. DH has put a few photos on his family WhatsApp chat, but SIL is messaging every day asking for more photos and holiday updates. I have a strained relationship with her anyway after she has caused problems between myself and DH. I don’t go out of my way to contact her, but I’m getting fed up of the constant requests for holiday updates. She needs to know everything that’s going on and I have stopped her having access to me after she said a number of things to DD about me. AIBU to tell her to fuck off?!

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Beachdays86 · 26/08/2024 20:48

skippy67 · 26/08/2024 20:46

Or you could just not send any updates?

I never post anything on his family WhatsApp group and send things individually now to others as I’m literally done with her. I just get pissed off that she feels she has a right to have access to every thing we do.

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amipretnant · 26/08/2024 20:48

Annoying.

I would try block out all that and let your husband deal with it

cupcaske123 · 26/08/2024 20:47

Tell her that your phone is playing up and tell her to contact DH then block her.

Poppins21 · 26/08/2024 20:47

skippy67 · 26/08/2024 20:46

Or you could just not send any updates?

I think this is a better option

skippy67 · 26/08/2024 20:46

Or you could just not send any updates?

ExtraOnions · 26/08/2024 20:46

…just let DH deal with it.