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If your dc did BTECs, do you say they have A levels?

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Milsonophonia · 26/08/2024 19:07

My nephew did a BTEC in Media and a BTEC in Music production. He passed them all, which is fab. But my BIL keeps telling everyone he got 4 x A levels. My dd got 3 x A levels and I'm starting to feel a bit fed up with him saying dn got 4 x A levels. We were at a bbq yesterday and someone was congratulating dd and he interrupted and said well, dn got 4 A levels!

I think he may have got the equivalent of 4 A levels, so a great achievement whatever, but its beginning to annoy me. I know I'm being petty. But ds1 did BTECs a few years ago and did really well in them and ended up at uni but I am pretty sure I always told people he'd done BTECS!

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Jumpingthruhoops · 27/08/2024 12:22

JustPaySomeone · 27/08/2024 12:09

Are you really ‘confused’? You may not agree with OP’s view but ‘confused’? I think not.

Well yes, I am. I'm confused as to why she's irritated. Surely she would just be pleased with her DN's achievements?

JustPaySomeone · 27/08/2024 12:22

Foxesandsquirrels · 27/08/2024 07:56

What uni is that? Even Oxford takes btecs and most medical schools...

That’s interesting. Which medical schools accept BTEC for direct entry?

JustPaySomeone · 27/08/2024 12:09

Jumpingthruhoops · 26/08/2024 20:01

I'm confused. If you're pleased for your DN why does it matter?

Are you really ‘confused’? You may not agree with OP’s view but ‘confused’? I think not.

bruffin · 27/08/2024 11:32

Milsonophonia · 27/08/2024 11:22

Ds did a level 3 extended BTEC which was equivalent in points to 3 A levels and dd did 3 x A levels.

They were both hard for different reasons. I'd say the BTEC was a lot of admin from day one. The A levels were deeper and a huge amount of revision required. Overall there's no doubt in my mind that A levels are harder, but BTECS are a fab choice for those who prefer a mix of coursework and exams.

My DD went on to do a Occupational therapy degree and found the BTEC students were better prepared because of the various placements they had to do.

Milsonophonia · 27/08/2024 11:22

Ds did a level 3 extended BTEC which was equivalent in points to 3 A levels and dd did 3 x A levels.

They were both hard for different reasons. I'd say the BTEC was a lot of admin from day one. The A levels were deeper and a huge amount of revision required. Overall there's no doubt in my mind that A levels are harder, but BTECS are a fab choice for those who prefer a mix of coursework and exams.

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Tidesoftime · 27/08/2024 11:19

I cannot find my original post

I did

2 years doing A Levels

2 years doing BTEC

Degree

I found the teaching at A Level to be poor
However, the extra curricular activities were excellent

I found the teaching at BTEC to be much more engaging & I enjoyed the course much more than A Levels

That was my experience

I was pleased to have passed my exams & I have had to show my original certificates at job interviews

cassgate · 27/08/2024 11:03

My Ds is doing a BTEC extended diploma in an engineering subject. It is not easy. Some of the maths and physics involved is A level. I am not sure how many units he has studied this year but it is at least 10 if not more. 2 of the units were exam based, the rest project or course work based. He submitted 4 assignments between Easter and May half term alone while also revising for an exam which was 2 papers. He had an exam in January as well. He finished with a distinction this year overall. He already knows that next year will be harder.

angeldelite · 27/08/2024 10:51

Milsonophonia · 27/08/2024 10:40

I also went to a crappy poly and did well in life but one of my biggest regrets is that I didn't go to a better university. I was easily intelligent enough but had a disruptive chaotic home life so just applied somewhere to get away.

I went to a prestigious university but had a terrible time due to (what I now know to be) ADHD.

As you’ve done well in life, don’t worry about the university you went to, as pp says. Who knows, you may have had a tough time at a different one.

angeldelite · 27/08/2024 10:49

JaketheVaulter · 26/08/2024 19:24

My child did a mixture and the snobbery was unreal - BTECs suited his way of learning but I almost trained him not to mention them as he then got looked down on and horrible things said to him by friends and family.

The fact that you can't just let everyone be happy with their own achievements is part of the issue here.

OP’s son did BTECs, and did well in them.

ComtesseDeSpair · 27/08/2024 10:45

Milsonophonia · 27/08/2024 10:40

I also went to a crappy poly and did well in life but one of my biggest regrets is that I didn't go to a better university. I was easily intelligent enough but had a disruptive chaotic home life so just applied somewhere to get away.

The reality is that heaps of people who don’t go to prestigious universities, don’t not because they are unintelligent, but because of a whole range of life circumstances which conspire to hamper their choices and chances. I tend to think of graduates from top universities as not necessarily the cleverest and the brightest, but often those who had the smoothest rides to get there. A degree is a means to an end: if you’ve got your life sorted and successful, you took the right route there, poly or not.

Milsonophonia · 27/08/2024 10:40

Firenzeflower · 27/08/2024 09:06

My cousin got her degree from Bath and I went to a dodgy poly. At every opportunity she would make sure everyone knew my degree was deeply inferior to her darling daughters.

The moral of the story is that I earn triple what my darling cousin earns and live in a house four times the size. Not that I care but for a loser with a crappy degree I did quite well.

I also went to a crappy poly and did well in life but one of my biggest regrets is that I didn't go to a better university. I was easily intelligent enough but had a disruptive chaotic home life so just applied somewhere to get away.

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Blondiie · 27/08/2024 09:52

It’s a weird thing to say about someone. I think dd would be a bit pissed off if I said she had done a-levels because it sounds like I don’t want to tell people, she actually did a BTEC, and if there was a follow up question “what subjects did you do” and she’s only done one (L3 extended diploma so only one subject) then she would look a bit shady I think.
People are weird though. One of my uncles put up a FB post last week about my cousins GCSEs “v proud of dc achieving all 8/9 in her GCSEs” - accompanied by a picture of her holding her results with her 3x7s clearly displayed. She’s done amazingly well (3x7, 4x8, 2x9) but if she reads that she will think her dad is ashamed of her 7s despite them being excellent grades.

Zanatdy · 27/08/2024 09:42

It is annoying and they aren’t really comparable, but just let it go over your head.

bruffin · 27/08/2024 09:15

I did a BTEC Deploma through work back in the 80s that was equivelent to 2 Alevels but always call it a BTEC

My DD did Health and Social care BTEC , she got 3 Distinctions stars which are the same UCAS points as 3 x A*.She went on to get a First from Cardiff.

Needmorelego · 27/08/2024 09:12

@Titanicpopcornsweets explain what though?
"My child is doing A-levels"
"My child is doing a btec"
What explanation does that need - other than maybe an answer to the follow up question of "oh...what subjects?"

Titanicpopcornsweets · 27/08/2024 09:09

Titanicpopcornsweets · 27/08/2024 09:05

I know what you mean op.

But I would just ignore. One thing I have realised in life is that a lot of people are completely full of shit when it comes to their children's achievements.

I see it so often.

Nearly everyone's kid 'could gave gone to grammar school' but they just didn't want to, despite having not taken the year 11+

They're always bored at school because the teachers aren't pushing them enough. In reality the kid is just badly behaved.

I know quite a few people who claim their dc are doing a-levels when they are doing BTEC.

I do agree though that people are snobby and dismissive of BTECs.

So that could be why people just say A levels because it's easier than trying to explain.

Education79 · 27/08/2024 09:07

DramaLlamaBangBang · 27/08/2024 08:59

I don't know why this route has disappeared or is not as popular. I suspect its something to do with certainty of funding for 3 years as opposed to 1, then 2 then 3. But when students come out of University with not only eye watering debt but they have usurous levels if interest heaped on top these can't be promoted.

Certainty of funding is one part, crowd mentality another, plus universities offering degree "top up" for HND, making HND seem less of a final qualification for work - and resulting in students thinking might as well go to uni all the way through.

Also the decline in employers, many of my students went on to work in manufacturing industry as engineers, particularly Massey Ferguson who were nearby - sadly all long gone.

Firenzeflower · 27/08/2024 09:06

My cousin got her degree from Bath and I went to a dodgy poly. At every opportunity she would make sure everyone knew my degree was deeply inferior to her darling daughters.

The moral of the story is that I earn triple what my darling cousin earns and live in a house four times the size. Not that I care but for a loser with a crappy degree I did quite well.

Titanicpopcornsweets · 27/08/2024 09:05

I know what you mean op.

But I would just ignore. One thing I have realised in life is that a lot of people are completely full of shit when it comes to their children's achievements.

I see it so often.

Nearly everyone's kid 'could gave gone to grammar school' but they just didn't want to, despite having not taken the year 11+

They're always bored at school because the teachers aren't pushing them enough. In reality the kid is just badly behaved.

I know quite a few people who claim their dc are doing a-levels when they are doing BTEC.

caringcarer · 27/08/2024 09:05

My DS with learning disabilities is doing an extended Sports BTEC. We are delighted he has found something he can do. If he completes it he will have 3 x BTEC's.There is no way on this planet he could do an single A level. If people ask us what he is doing at college we say Sports BTECs. We are proud he is doing them. My elder DS and DD have A levels. They are completely different with different pressures. A levels are all exams but BTECs have pressure from never ending coursework assignments. As soon as two are handed in the next two are set.

Needmorelego · 27/08/2024 09:01

@Beth216 they're not always easier. That's a snobby thing to say.

Beekeepingmum · 27/08/2024 09:00

As other's have said it the issue more is the trying to upstage. If DN had achieved 4 A* levels it still would be annoying for your BIL to be jumping in to "reduce" your daughters achievement.

Don't focus on whether or not A-levels are "better" than BTECHs they are different.

DramaLlamaBangBang · 27/08/2024 08:59

Education79 · 27/08/2024 08:50

They have become a way into university, but that was not their intention. There is a whole separate BTEC tree to climb, all the way up to a degree level diploma if you want.

The idea was (and is) to progress from ND to HND, which is in of itself a final qualification giving you access to work.

I did GCSE, back in the 90's, then ND and HND before starting work as a junior lecturer on the 1st Diploma (GCSE level) courses and studying for a Cert Ed, gaining QTS, becoming a lecturer, then course leader of HND before moving over to be a head of department in a secondary school.

I still have no degree to my name, nor would I want one, nothing wrong with them, but I'm a passionate believer in the BTEC route, and that it is complete in of itself.

I don't know why this route has disappeared or is not as popular. I suspect its something to do with certainty of funding for 3 years as opposed to 1, then 2 then 3. But when students come out of University with not only eye watering debt but they have usurous levels if interest heaped on top these can't be promoted.

Beth216 · 27/08/2024 08:57

Everyone knows BTECs are less academic, and so easier than A-levels. You should have just made a confused face and said 'Oh I thought she did BTECs'.

Tmpnmc86 · 27/08/2024 08:53

Ds just gained his btec. It was the format that best suited his chosen subject. In many ways it could have been easier to study for A levels as he could have just got his head down in his books and got on with it.

Some of the btec meant working in groups, managing different personalities, expectations and skill levels, while being graded as an individual. As a perfectionist he found this stressful and we had lots of conversations about how it was a good thing for him to be doing collaborative work now as it would provide him with additional soft skills. On a practical level, he often had to work to a short time span in front of a room full of strangers doing something quite technical. Having done the physical work, he then had to write it up to demonstrate his understanding, explain his process and justify his decision making. I was surprised at how academic his btec was and when trying to shoehorn something that's creative, practical and technical into academic writing it can feel a bit of a strange hotchpotch to the kids who wonder why they're having to write about it when they've already done the work!

I'm proud of him. He had to work consistently across 2 years for his grades. He didn't let any of his projects come back without the grade he wanted. I don't think he'd have obtained those grades of he hadn't lived and breathed the subject outside of college too. His choice of btec vs A levels didn't close any doors to the universities he wanted to attend, including a place at a RG university without interview. His work has already featured in some university projects though.

It's not A level, it's very different and in his case was the better option in arming him to the teeth with skills.
It was a big plus that he didn't have the anxious wait for results as he knew his grade by the end of term subject to modulation so he knew his uni choices were confirmed.

It's hard to guage whether it's not understanding, a bit of one upmanship, or feeling your nephew was left in the shadows. It sounds like your daughter has done incredibly well and I hope that's she feels very proud of what she has achieved. My children and their cousins all have very spiky ability profiles - absolutely smashing it in some things and really struggling quite worryingly in others. So we celebrate then as individuals and try not to compare.