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For hating the new bottle tops

242 replies

hopsalong · 25/08/2024 21:29

What is going on?
Why were we not told that from now on we will never drink from a bottle without the half-cocked still-attached top spraying water/ milk/ juice all over our fronts?

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HungryLittleCrocodile · 26/08/2024 10:12

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 10:00

Thanks for your valuable input.

And thank you for yours. Your posts really are the highlights of this thread.

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Sirzy · 26/08/2024 10:10

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 10:09

You’re being really rude, I’ve tried to help and you’ve tried to throw insults veiled as concern. I’m out. Very unpleasant for you to try and use a ‘learning difficulty’ as an insult.

I don’t think you realise that your post came across as at best patronising and at worst quite ablist.

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 10:09

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 10:06

No I didn’t, I pointed out that they’re not accessible to people with arthrogrypsos. You then ignored essentially everything I wrote and decided you knew better than anyone else.

If you had used your reading comprehension skills you would be aware that someone with arthrogryposis wouldn’t be able to open the bottle, because aids do not work on the new lid types.

You’re being really rude, I’ve tried to help and you’ve tried to throw insults veiled as concern. I’m out. Very unpleasant for you to try and use a ‘learning difficulty’ as an insult.

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 10:06

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 10:03

I’m not implying that anybody is stupid. You complained that you aren’t able to hold the lid back. You shouldn’t be having to do this, the lid fixes back, and I was pointing this out. You can obviously get to the point where you can’t hold the lid back, or you wouldn’t know that you can’t hold it back.

No I didn’t, I pointed out that they’re not accessible to people with arthrogrypsos. You then ignored essentially everything I wrote and decided you knew better than anyone else.

If you had used your reading comprehension skills you would be aware that someone with arthrogryposis wouldn’t be able to open the bottle, because aids do not work on the new lid types.

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 10:04

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You clearly are. Read my previous post. People are trying to help you and you are being rude in return.

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 10:03

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 09:57

I know right, another day of people implying people with disabilities are the stupid ones, the irony.

I’m not implying that anybody is stupid. You complained that you aren’t able to hold the lid back. You shouldn’t be having to do this, the lid fixes back, and I was pointing this out. You can obviously get to the point where you can’t hold the lid back, or you wouldn’t know that you can’t hold it back.

Sirzy · 26/08/2024 10:02

Does anyone really believe that screw caps on the bottle are the answer to fixing the issues with the environment? It’s not even the tip of the tip of the iceberg but it’s another thing that makes life harder for those with disabilities without having any real impact on anything.

BookishBabe · 26/08/2024 10:02

I squeeze all the air out of a bottle and put the lid back on to stop the bottle expanding. It saves room in my recycling. I thought everyone did this.
I dont think I've ever lost a bottle lid, or recycled one without it firmly screwed onto the bottle.

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 10:01

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Ginmonkeyagain · 26/08/2024 10:01

My grandmother had severe arthritis from her 30s and had to use all manner of aids to help. I get it is very challenging. But I bet everyone complaining about this doesn't have a painful physical condition. They are just being arses and haven't taken a few seconds to work it out.

The flip top lids they have in France would be better for most people with dexterity issues as they require much less power and manual dexterity to open, you simply push up a flip lid up. I think it would be good if we adopted those.

LongLiveTheLego · 26/08/2024 10:00

cardibach · 25/08/2024 22:12

I’m not getting the ‘don’t screw back on’ comments from so many. Have ihad to redo the fastening a few times because it hasn’t quite gone straight? Yes. Is it obvious that this has happened? Also yes, with a quick glance. Did I sometimes fail to screw on old school tops in the same way? Yes again.

You are despite having being told missing the fact that some people have disabilities or other issues with their hands. Why can't you understand that , to quote your own words to understand not everyone has full use of their hands "is really not difficult ".

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 10:00

HungryLittleCrocodile · 26/08/2024 09:53

@ttcat37 · Today 09:36

Maybe ask your occupational therapist? The mechanism of popping the lid back doesn’t require much force, perhaps they can show you how to do it.

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Thanks for your valuable input.

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 09:59

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 09:52

Current devices to open bottle lids do not work on the new attached style lids to open them, never mind grip a small lid, move that lid 180°, put it perfectly on the bottle top and then close it.

Ok, so perhaps your OT is still the best person to speak to here

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 09:57

HungryLittleCrocodile · 26/08/2024 09:53

@ttcat37 · Today 09:36

Maybe ask your occupational therapist? The mechanism of popping the lid back doesn’t require much force, perhaps they can show you how to do it.

🙄

I know right, another day of people implying people with disabilities are the stupid ones, the irony.

HungryLittleCrocodile · 26/08/2024 09:55

Ginmonkeyagain · 26/08/2024 09:50

Just push the lid back away from you until they click, it's not hard.

Those reusing single use plastic bottles - don't. It's not good for.you. Buy a reusable plastic or metal bottle FGS.

In France recently we came across bottles that had little attached flip top lids rather than attached screw top, that seemed like a better idea.

🙄

Tell me you know fuck all about struggling with a painful physical condition, without telling me you know fuck all about struggling with a painful physical condition... Hmm

HungryLittleCrocodile · 26/08/2024 09:53

@ttcat37 · Today 09:36

Maybe ask your occupational therapist? The mechanism of popping the lid back doesn’t require much force, perhaps they can show you how to do it.

🙄

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 09:52

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 09:46

Presumably if they were able to open the old bottles then the method or tools used could be adapted to flip the cap back? I think the occupational therapist is best placed to show you

Current devices to open bottle lids do not work on the new attached style lids to open them, never mind grip a small lid, move that lid 180°, put it perfectly on the bottle top and then close it.

AngeloMysterioso · 26/08/2024 09:52

Here we are trying to save the planet with these bloody annoying bottle caps, and crappy paper straws, and meanwhile Justin Bieber’s wife is taking a private jet just to get her nails done.

Ginmonkeyagain · 26/08/2024 09:50

Just push the lid back away from you until they click, it's not hard.

Those reusing single use plastic bottles - don't. It's not good for.you. Buy a reusable plastic or metal bottle FGS.

In France recently we came across bottles that had little attached flip top lids rather than attached screw top, that seemed like a better idea.

Lilyno · 26/08/2024 09:48

I hate them too, always snap them off. But whole bottle goes in recycling. I even bring my recycling home if out and about.
I can remember when you had to remove the lid for recycling.

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 09:46

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 09:42

Someone with arthrogryposis wouldn’t be able to apply any force.

Presumably if they were able to open the old bottles then the method or tools used could be adapted to flip the cap back? I think the occupational therapist is best placed to show you

Rummly · 26/08/2024 09:45

I may be wrong about this, but as far as I can see the posters saying “you only have to snap the attached lid back into place” just mean “you have to make sure the thread of the lid is square against the thread on the bottle”. If so, that’s true, but it’s more difficult than squaring a loose lid because the attached lid is being put back on from the side, not from directly above. I often have to give attached lids one or two extra tries.

Frankly, it’s not the biggest imposition in modern life but it is very irritating.

Viewsaremyown · 26/08/2024 09:43

Watch this BBC explainer - maybe it’s annoying but for the volume of plastic waste that can never be put back in the proverbial bottle (excuse the pun) it is surely worth trying something new, right?

www.instagram.com/reel/C9rhfcZMRof/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Whatafustercluck · 26/08/2024 09:43

They're a bit annoying and will take getting used to, but a small price to pay for the environment. And actually, the upside is that you don't accidentally drop/ lose the lid. Both my children can be very clumsy, and often removed the old lids, lost them, left the drink open and then ended up spilling the drink. Far fewer accidents like that now!

I'm still not a fan of paper straws (hate the feel of them in my mouth initially and they just bend, break and go soggy). But again, I tolerate them because there's a much bigger picture out there than my mild inconvenience.

Simonjt · 26/08/2024 09:42

ttcat37 · 26/08/2024 09:36

Maybe ask your occupational therapist? The mechanism of popping the lid back doesn’t require much force, perhaps they can show you how to do it.

Someone with arthrogryposis wouldn’t be able to apply any force.