I have just turned 39 and I have 2 children already (albeit with quite an age gap and to 2 fathers - eldest 17 and youngest 3). I cannot shake the feeling that I want a third. I don't know why, it's such a strong urge. Financially, we would manage as youngest would be in school by time the new child needed nursery so we'd not be paying 2 lots of nursery fees. Partner is on the fence about it. I'm about 70/30 in favour. Thoughts? Pros and cons? Is this madness? 😂