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ASOS “fair use returns policy”

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creepywoman · 25/08/2024 14:25

Did anyone else get this email from ASOS? Aibu to wonder whether they sent it to a select group of people?

I have the ASOS next day delivery service which has led to me ordering a lot from them. I’d say recently I’ve placed a few returns including a faulty item, so I wonder if I’ve flagged up.

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CovertPiggery · 19/09/2024 14:51

creepywoman · 18/09/2024 16:55

To be honest, it’s been nice not having access to my ASOS subscription anymore. Sometimes I would rush and buy an outfit the day before an outing, just because I can. And inevitably end up with something crap because ASOS’s website isn’t great and items are not as advertised.

@Thefarawaytree1 I’m reverting back to Zara for most things. I might try oh polly or inthestyle for a dress for an upcoming event.

Same here. It will save me lots of money!

PrimalLass · 19/09/2024 11:20

Sometimes the deals around Christmas are just too good to beat though.

creepywoman · 18/09/2024 16:55

To be honest, it’s been nice not having access to my ASOS subscription anymore. Sometimes I would rush and buy an outfit the day before an outing, just because I can. And inevitably end up with something crap because ASOS’s website isn’t great and items are not as advertised.

@Thefarawaytree1 I’m reverting back to Zara for most things. I might try oh polly or inthestyle for a dress for an upcoming event.

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Bobb1nR0bb1n · 18/09/2024 12:20

Sooo not shopping from ASOS, sounds like a nightmare. You can get most brands elsewhere with better and less complicated returns.

PrimalLass · 18/09/2024 11:46

Ah maybe that's it, as mine has run out and won't be renewed.

Thefarawaytree1 · 18/09/2024 11:27

PrimalLass · 18/09/2024 11:22

It's ridiculous that some people are £15 and some (me) are £40. I just won't order anything now.

From the email I received I think it implied mine is only £15 as I have currently have a delivery pass.

PrimalLass · 18/09/2024 11:22

It's ridiculous that some people are £15 and some (me) are £40. I just won't order anything now.

Thefarawaytree1 · 18/09/2024 11:14

I have received the email from Asos I will be charge a returns fee of £3.95 per order unless I keep £15+ from my order as I have a delivery pass.

I would say that 99.9% of my orders are for my student daughter. But do return lots of the items as their sizing is inconsistent, white tops on models are actually transparent IRL and quality is lacking.
I recently ordered her a crop top with thick shoulder straps and the armhole for the head was smaller than that for the arm and she couldn't even get it over her head as it wasn't elasticated! Purchased another one and it was the same.

Shame they are not gradually introducing a £2 returns fee as it wouldn't feel so bad.
I will not be buying from Asos going forward unless I KNOW we will keep the item so cosmetics etc Any suggestions for clothes shops please?

I would rather go into a store and try clothing on but it's all the same old New Look, Next etc and they don't hold much stock so you have to order on line anyway.

DriverMeCrazy · 07/09/2024 15:04

I’d much prefer to go into a bricks and mortar shop and try things on for size and see how they look. But the shops just don’t have the stock. I see stuff I like online, go to the actual shop and they don’t have my size, or don’t even have the item at all.
I ordered six tops online yesterday and intend to keep one when I have a chance to try them on.

Flaskfan · 07/09/2024 14:57

I just read the guardian article then checked my emails.
Then checked my order history.i order from asos roughly once or twice a year. Around a hundred quid. I have to order in multiple sizes and ranges (am I tall or not tall in that dress?) Because their sizing is random. I cba sending stuff back. Sell things that fit. Or give me all the precise measurements so I can check.

I'm pissed off that asos are lying their arses off about who they're sending emails to too.

PrimalLass · 07/09/2024 10:35

I think too much choice is what happened to Gap too. Their website was overwhelming.

DefiniteyMaybe · 06/09/2024 20:59

I think this from the Gruniad, nails it. The quality has gone right down. There is far too much choice, it’s overwhelming, I’d rather have less choice and more quality. I have some lovely clothes that I had for years from asos, the last thing I bought that is really good design , was a Summer dress in 2021. They have lost both their younger and older customers.

“‘Alongside the ongoing inflationary pressures, the retailer has seen its Gen Z customers shift towards more agile and affordable competitors like Shein, while its designs have become too youthful for the millennials that grew up with it,” she said.”

JustCleaningtheBBQ · 06/09/2024 16:18

It would help if they put the actual measurements of the clothes on the page too. I'm quite short and it's really difficult to know whether a top will be too long, so need to order a few similar looking things in the hope one will be the right length.

It's impossible to tell from the pictures and the size guides are meaningless. If i knew a top was 25 inches long, I'd know it would be too long for me. I guess it's just too much effort to do this though.

starsalignedforyou · 06/09/2024 15:42

The fact is their sizings are bonkers so we do need to return a lot.

Also on more that one occasion (my most recent return!) I received the wrong top in the wrong size.

It's also worth bearing in mind many people don't bother returning clothes that they don't like/don't suit them because they just can't be bothered, I have lots of friends like this... so ASOS do well from customers like this!

The high street where I live is dead, we have one Primark and a New Look and literally nowhere to buy anything nice, leaving online as the viable option, if ASOS focused more on quality over quantity then their returns rates would be lower.

I'll be cancelling my premium subscription too.

creepywoman · 06/09/2024 15:16

What is wrong with you? Why are you so angry about this? Is everything okay at home?

I don’t see how that is “taking the fucking piss” considering the law allows you to return 100%. Plus there’s people on the thread who have returned less and received the same email.

perhaps you should leave the thread as it’s seemingly raising your blood pressure.

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CovertPiggery · 06/09/2024 15:02

Not if only 30% of it matches the description/is the right size surely?

Their sizing is all over the place so you have to order more than one size/style to have half a chance of getting something that fits.

creepywoman · 06/09/2024 13:48

I’m not sure how to respond to this. If something arrives that looks nothing like it did online, are we just supposed to keep it? Distance selling regulations allow you to return items purchased online because you cannot inspect the goods like you can in person. If you think legal rights are just “taking the piss”, then there’s simply no hope for you.

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Pinkprescription · 06/09/2024 13:41

Ineffable23 · 26/08/2024 17:52

So if you live in loose styles only, maybe your advice, particularly in a relation to a retailer known for its wide range of outfits, including mainly fitted styles, might not apply?

If online only retailers only want people to buy baggy clothing and not return it someone can certainly try that as a business model but I wouldn't bet on the brand's longevity.

I totally understand what people mean - my bust and waist measurements are 3 sizes apart. Depending on the way a top is cut I can either look like I'm busting out of it or not. I can wear anything from a 12 to 16 or even an 18. I have broad shoulders as well for extra fun and games but if a top isn't fitted on the waist then I look 3 sizes bigger than I am.

I mainly buy in person or from about 3 brands that semi reliably fit me. But places like ASOS are online only so if they want customers to purchase from them then they have to come up with a way of supplying clothes that fit or enabling the return of clothes that don't. Preferably both!

@Ineffable23 This is me - and where you do you buy from?
In my case I have a narrow back so 30H a size 12-14 waist and size 16 hips and thighs. I can't wear trousers so I live in skirts and dresses but everything has to have a waist and I have to be careful with tops too.

None of my local towns within a 45 mile radius have many clothes shops - all are small with small ranges and few sizes. I can't actually "go shopping" to find clothes - that would mean going to London. Being disabled that's not a great option.

Online shopping has allowed me to find clothes that fit and that I want to wear. I don't think it's wrong to want to buy clothes you like and fit. I don't perceive that as a luxury.
I don't buy vast amounts and I have a good idea of what works - one brand I use makes me pay for returns, I don't mind that. I send back the first 2 dresses and then bought 4 over another 2 orders.

PrimalLass · 06/09/2024 13:15

But this is Mumsnet, so every poster who shops like this will have a big tragic backstory about how they literally have no alternative other than to buy a stack of plasticky clothes every few weeks.

Since 29 December I've ordered two pairs of birks for size - sent one back; two pairs of trainers for size - sent one back; two skirts for DD - kept both. I still got the £40 email.

anon2022anon · 06/09/2024 13:15

Anyone else feel like doing an order and return a day until October, or just me whos feeling petty? (JOKE!)

anon2022anon · 06/09/2024 13:11

@TrixieOlives might be easier if ASOS offered correct size guides and followed them consistently 🤷🏼‍♀️

mummabubs · 06/09/2024 13:09

I got the email saying I'm in the small group of people flagged as frequent returners so will need to keep £40 minimum for free returns. I used to have ASOS premium but not for a while. Like others here, I will own that when I used asos I returned 50% odd but that's because the quality was often terrible or didn't look like the photo or just didn't fit!!

Added to insult as I haven't ordered with asos in over 18 months! I've promptly deleted my account with them.

PrimalLass · 06/09/2024 13:08

anon2022anon · 06/09/2024 12:11

Me too, with a £40 keep rate.

And me. I hadn't renewed my subscription anyway. I've only ordered three times since Christmas and kept most of it. So I just won't bother now.

The things I bought were more expensive - like Birks and New Balance trainers. It's not unreasonable to buy two sizes of shoes at £65 each then send one back.

newfriend05 · 06/09/2024 13:02

I got one too , I return about 50% of what I order so took it as face valve and it don't include me

creepywoman · 06/09/2024 13:00

Spidey66 · 06/09/2024 12:57

I've not used ASOS but surely Internet clothing firms have to expect a large % of returns? If it was the high street you'd try the garments on and only if your happy with the fit and look do you buy it,. You can't do this online! Especially with the variety of sizing these days.

Especially with Asos. They have a quantity over quality approach. You’ll find 1000s of pairs of trousers for example so it’s hard to narrow it down, especially if you’re browsing on your phone. All the black trousers look the same for example. It’s not a curated collection.

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