DH is going on a trip next week with his mates who he sees very rarely but has known for 25 years. He's mid 40s.
He has always kept himself trim but in the build up to this trip, he's become obsessed.
He worked out this morning (when meant to be looking after kids), then he just skipped kids bedtime to go swimming but the pool was closed, so now he's doing another workout (while I have a glass of wine and dinner alone)
He has become v concerned with looking good for his trip. I know you will say its women but he seems so uninterested in other women, he always has. He never flirts. He's one of those men who hero worship his bloke friends.
I just find it unattractive. And a bit worrying. He isn't interested in anything other than himself. I just suggested we could spend evening together instead of him doing a 2nd workout of the day at 9.40pm but he got really shitty saying "most wives would be happy their husband wants to stay in shape"
Is that true? Should I put a sock in it?