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Going out for extra snacks during the film and ‘stealing’ seats

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ViewFromMySeat · 23/08/2024 19:16

AIBU to think it’s wrong to get extra food during the film? Is it the norm now?

I’ve recently been taking full advantage of the £4.99 seats! I went with a friend I haven’t seen in years recently. She went out to get extra snacks twice during the film.

She isn’t the only one though. I’ve been 3 times now, and seen different people doing this. Popping out during the film, excusing themselves around other people trying to watch the film, and coming back with more food.

The next AIBU - The film was okay, should’ve been an 18 I think but was down as a 15. She agreed. Then asked how much the seats were so she could transfer me the cash

I said not to worry, they were just £4.99 each. Less than £10 for us both!

She said I was really wrong for taking those. I was a bit confused and asked her to explain. She said it’s better manners to leave those seats for students or those really struggling to get in —I am a carer so hardly rolling around in £50 notes—

I just shrugged and left it at that but thought it was a bit odd

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honeylulu · 24/08/2024 15:25

"Extra snacks" implies she already had some snacks at the start. So three lots of snacks in about 2 hours??? Is she obese?

I don't understand why someone will pay to see a film and get up and down and miss chunks of it, except for urgent toilet trips. It's also annoying for those around you.

As for "stealing" cheap seats, what a pillock. If they are there for anyone to buy its not stealing anything.

ViewFromMySeat · 24/08/2024 15:13

PerkyMintDeer · 24/08/2024 14:11

Deadpool?

It Ends With Us?

(Guessing as both are 15s, with violence and "adult themes" in parts)

It was Longlegs 🦵

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PerkyMintDeer · 24/08/2024 14:11

BloodyWolves · 24/08/2024 14:06

Am I the only person who doesn’t care about the snack/seats scenario and just wants to know what OP saw…?

Deadpool?

It Ends With Us?

(Guessing as both are 15s, with violence and "adult themes" in parts)

Berlinlover · 24/08/2024 14:09

I stopped going to the cinema because of all the noisy eating going on around me.

BloodyWolves · 24/08/2024 14:06

Am I the only person who doesn’t care about the snack/seats scenario and just wants to know what OP saw…?

TheGoogleMum · 24/08/2024 14:03

How is it stealing seats if they're the ones you've booked? I'd pay for the cheaper ones too as long as I was happy enough with them! Not sure what she's on about with that one. As for getting more snacks I think it's not ideal but not exactly rude. Unless it was a bad movie I wouldn't want to miss it to get more snacks.

JaydeeeeP · 24/08/2024 13:58

ViewFromMySeat · 24/08/2024 13:56

Surely it’s more weird to bother everyone else so you can go and buy more food?

I have never ever been slightly bothered about what anyone else at the cinema is doing. Does it bother you when they need a piss too?

skib · 24/08/2024 13:57

I wonder if people are nipping out during the film to see if the food queue has died down rather than going back for seconds

ViewFromMySeat · 24/08/2024 13:56

JaydeeeeP · 24/08/2024 10:43

I think you're being weird about the snacks and she's being weird about the seats.

Surely it’s more weird to bother everyone else so you can go and buy more food?

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JaydeeeeP · 24/08/2024 10:43

I think you're being weird about the snacks and she's being weird about the seats.

YOYOK · 24/08/2024 09:25

Cinemas make their money from food and drink. If it was restricted or stopped completely, the cinemas would possibly go bust so there wouldn’t be a film to see at all.

Lincslady53 · 24/08/2024 09:18

Get yourself a Meerkat movies discount and you get 2 seats for the price if 1 on Tues and Weds. Cheaper than staying at home.

MushMonster · 24/08/2024 08:46

@EsmeSusanOgg as we all do with little ones.
I would get to the cinema, get the tickets and snacks, take them straight to the toilets, then to the corresponding room.
Trying to avoid getting up during the film.
But, of course, with little ones you never can be sure.
This was a full grown woman, not going to the toilet, but for snacks! Snacks!

EsmeSusanOgg · 24/08/2024 08:41

MushMonster · 24/08/2024 08:37

You do not get up during a film in a cinema at least you seriously need the toilet, you are seriously ill or need to go home because you are about to die.
No way anyone should just be popping out for snacks!

We take aisle seats when going with kiddo (aged 6) because he may need a loo break. Though we're obviously going to see family films, so littles going in and out for a quick pee are fairly standard.

Seems weird to pop out for more snacks!

EsmeSusanOgg · 24/08/2024 08:40

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 23/08/2024 19:19

I find it quite distracting when people wander across my field of vision during the film tbh. I get that if it's a toilet trip it can't be helped. But bring the amount of snacks you need, surely?

I'm not sure which cinema does 4.99 seats or who they're for, but if you're eligible, why not buy them?
They're clearly making plenty of money from the two of you if your friend makes multiple trips for snacks.

Our local Vue has rows of £4.99 seats. They're open to everyone. They'd rather a fuller screening than charging more.

MushMonster · 24/08/2024 08:38

About the cheaper seats, well done to you for taking them! I think cinemas will soon be a thing of the past.

MushMonster · 24/08/2024 08:37

You do not get up during a film in a cinema at least you seriously need the toilet, you are seriously ill or need to go home because you are about to die.
No way anyone should just be popping out for snacks!

Jennyathemall · 24/08/2024 08:33

Cinemas are losing business and barely surviving as more and more people chose to stay home and watch streaming services. The £4.99 seats are to incentivise people back into the cinema. They are for anyone and everyone and cinemas are not targeting people on low incomes. They are desperate for anyone to fill the seats.

Newname71 · 23/08/2024 23:34

First come first served on the cheap seats!
The best experience I’ve ever had at the cinema was in Cineworld. Took DS and at the time he was really struggling with his mental health. He had a massive panic attack and we had to leave. On our way out a member of staff asked if everything was ok. I explained what had happened. They , straight away escorted us to the access box and we got to watch the film, just the 2 of us in a private room. That persons kindness meant so much to me at such a bleak time.

GHSP · 23/08/2024 22:58

Getting up for more snacks doesn’t sound great. I mean how much sustenance do you need to have to spend 2-3 hours sitting down on a comfortable seat?

easylikeasundaymorn · 23/08/2024 22:51

giadaros · 23/08/2024 21:31

I've never understood why the UK doesn't have intermissions. Every other country I have been to the cinema, has this. You can go to the toilet and get some snacks without missing any of the film.

I don't know if it still does but the commodore in Aberystwyth used to always have intermission and sell snacks out of a little hatch. Also you couldn't book tickets online, you had to queue up (often sold out before you go to the front if it was a new/popular film), and people used to get dressed up and cheer etc at big films like James Bond or whatever. This was less than 10 years ago, not in the 1950s...but tbf there's not that much to do in Aber!

OP your friend is a bit mad, and if she's worried about taking advantage of poorer people she shouldn't have let you pay for her seat!

Technically there's nothing wrong with going up and getting more food, and, having worked in a cinema, food and drink is where cinemas make nearly all of their profit, so people doing so are keeping it in business and essentially keeping your £4.99 seats the price they are. But personally I think it's a bit sad that people can't go 2hrs without needing that much food!

Clafoutie · 23/08/2024 22:33

BatshitCrazyWoman · 23/08/2024 20:28

Gosh £9.99 are the cheapest seats at my local Vue, but not for all films. Usually £10.99 or £11.99. £4.99 is a bargain, and if they were available at that price, why wouldn't you?

I don't tend to eat in the cinema ...

I was at an Odeon the other weekend, and so many people got up and went out, often more than once. That never used to happen, I don't think. One guy was using his phone torch to navigate his way out, during the film. Several times. Some people are just inconsiderate.

Agree, and so many people on their phones throughout, scrolling, messaging, whatever it is they are doing! It is actually quite hard to focus on the film now. It used to be that you felt people’s main reason for being there was to actually watch the film, but now that seems to be competing with eating, talking, scrolling, etc. 🙄

AbraAbraCadabra · 23/08/2024 22:20

KreedKafer · 23/08/2024 19:20

Your friend doesn’t seem to have the first clue about how a trip to the cinema works.

Don’t keep going to get snacks mid-film. Do book whichever seats you want.

She’s a twat.

This. 100%

You aren't at home. You shouldn't get up from your seat during a film unless unavoidable. And if course you book any seats that are available to you. People have no idea how to behave in public since Covid.

Hopebridge · 23/08/2024 22:04

I often find in children's films kids going to the toilet which is normal and to be expected. I haven't noticed the getting snacks issue other than someone getting a drink before.

Toastedpickle · 23/08/2024 22:00

ViewFromMySeat · 23/08/2024 19:28

Wow that’s really good! I’ve always found the cinema to be more expensive in the past, it seems to have got cheaper?

The majority of the seats in the film I saw were about £15, £20 and £40 (those ones recline)

No way are there £40 cinema tickets at a Vue!

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