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TealSapphire · 25/08/2024 09:29

I googled the 'Isla' mentioned upthread, and I have to say I'd fully support them receiving 'bottom surgery' to allow them to properly transition. Someone start a gofundme.

Surf2Live · 24/08/2024 21:13

GustyFinknottle · 24/08/2024 13:19

I am increasingly wondering, what is it exactly about women getting together without any men around that is so very challenging for these men?

Now, I understand the need for AGP men like this man to transgress womens boundaries for his pleasure.

We have an AGP transwoman in this area who, as early as 15 years ago, insisted on joining every single women-only organisation in this area. WI, Women's Centre, Lesbian network, Older Feminist Network, women's counselling group, older women's exercise classes, women's park run, the women's branch of the two political parties, mum's group for new mothers, the women's committee of a couple of unions, lesbian walking group and camping group and every lesbian disco or club night... He was really aggressive and angry and managed to push his way in because no one really understood what was going on or how they could stop him. He was in AGP heaven: validated and with some women, at least, telling him how stunning and brave he was. Of course, the groups and organisations he'd barged his way into tended to fold and disappear not long after he arrived. One man managed to drive all the women-only or lesbian-only events underground — where unfortunately they are invisible and unknown to many women who might want to be involved.

my god, that's horrific!

they may be few in number, but they are huge in damage they cause

I had heard about grass roots community women's sports groups folding and ceasing to exist after men barged in, but this, this is a whole new level of disgusting

redalex261 · 24/08/2024 18:36

LilyBartsHatShop · 24/08/2024 02:04

It's Yogyakarta that Australia has imported wholesale.
Some good I can see coming out of all this is that the international community is forced to acknowledge that the Yogyakarta principles are thoroughly incompatible with CEDAW.
I hope Reem Asalem is given lots of air time.

Australia copied CEDAW pretty much in it’s entirety as the basis for their sex based rights legislation - CEDAW was drawn up internationally (in the 1970s I think?). Julia Guillard fucked it up in around 2012 or 2013 when she changed the word sex to gender in the legislation. Effectively making it like Yogyakarta I suppose. At least it will peak Australians - I know looks shouldn’t matter but Roxanne Tickle generates such disbelief cognitive dissonance when referred to as “woman” it’s sure to.

Even the way this court outcome is being reported makes me gnash my teeth - one Australian newscast referred to “transitioning to be female” however the reporter seemed outraged. There was also no mention of the lack of impartiality with the “friend of the court” (meaning advisor on the intricacy of sex discrimination law) funding and supporting one of the parties.

Sigh.

GustyFinknottle · 24/08/2024 17:35

Yes, someone was telling me the other day that barely any universities have Feminist Societies any more, and those that do admit men. There is nowhere, even the loos, in the nearest university to me, where a woman can go certain that she won't find a man.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/08/2024 17:20

"One man managed to drive all the women-only or lesbian-only events underground — where unfortunately they are invisible and unknown to many women who might want to be involved".

That's the tragedy. I recall a young woman university student posting on here many years ago talking about how all the lesbian groups at her university were disappearing due to men claiming to be women taking them over.

Women only spaces exist for good reasons. As I stated upthread, no women anywhere in the world have campaigned for men to be present when we're undressed, naked, vulnerable or sleeping. It's just another example of male dominance.

GustyFinknottle · 24/08/2024 13:19

I am increasingly wondering, what is it exactly about women getting together without any men around that is so very challenging for these men?

Now, I understand the need for AGP men like this man to transgress womens boundaries for his pleasure.

We have an AGP transwoman in this area who, as early as 15 years ago, insisted on joining every single women-only organisation in this area. WI, Women's Centre, Lesbian network, Older Feminist Network, women's counselling group, older women's exercise classes, women's park run, the women's branch of the two political parties, mum's group for new mothers, the women's committee of a couple of unions, lesbian walking group and camping group and every lesbian disco or club night... He was really aggressive and angry and managed to push his way in because no one really understood what was going on or how they could stop him. He was in AGP heaven: validated and with some women, at least, telling him how stunning and brave he was. Of course, the groups and organisations he'd barged his way into tended to fold and disappear not long after he arrived. One man managed to drive all the women-only or lesbian-only events underground — where unfortunately they are invisible and unknown to many women who might want to be involved.

Vic6 · 24/08/2024 13:08

Startrekkeruniverse · 23/08/2024 14:07

Where are his fucking make suppprters? Surrounded by his brainwashed followers!

They’ll wake up one day…..

Vic6 · 24/08/2024 11:36

Helleofabore · 23/08/2024 15:49

Here is one of the latest videos featuring Helen Joyce where she goes through the many arguments we see supporting the belief that male people can be women.

Such a great interview, thanks for sharing!

SensibleSigma · 24/08/2024 11:03

Surf2Live · 24/08/2024 10:52

I am increasingly wondering, what is it exactly about women getting together without any men around that is so very challenging for these men?

Now, I understand the need for AGP men like this man to transgress womens boundaries for his pleasure.

But he's being cheered on by so many men, he has such support. Those men do not seem to want women to be able to congregate together and speak together without the presence of any males. I think that they see it as potentially dangerous?

This is why I love MN so much. I love reading what you all have to say and I've found a great depth of intelligent analysis on current issues here. There are men here, but MNetters don't often let them derail conversations.

They do like a monitor. Can’t be having those wimmen speaking freely, now.

Surf2Live · 24/08/2024 10:52

I am increasingly wondering, what is it exactly about women getting together without any men around that is so very challenging for these men?

Now, I understand the need for AGP men like this man to transgress womens boundaries for his pleasure.

But he's being cheered on by so many men, he has such support. Those men do not seem to want women to be able to congregate together and speak together without the presence of any males. I think that they see it as potentially dangerous?

This is why I love MN so much. I love reading what you all have to say and I've found a great depth of intelligent analysis on current issues here. There are men here, but MNetters don't often let them derail conversations.

Helleofabore · 24/08/2024 10:03

LilyBartsHatShop · 24/08/2024 02:04

It's Yogyakarta that Australia has imported wholesale.
Some good I can see coming out of all this is that the international community is forced to acknowledge that the Yogyakarta principles are thoroughly incompatible with CEDAW.
I hope Reem Asalem is given lots of air time.

I too hope that this will put the brakes on other countries adopting a similar style of law. And I think it will be used to apply pressure so that those who have made laws that would allow no single sex spaces will make changes.

Helleofabore · 24/08/2024 09:56

RufustheFactualReindeer · 24/08/2024 08:26

I think their previous name was Tess

omg i just got this!

Me too!!! 😁

FOJN · 24/08/2024 09:56

SensibleSigma · 24/08/2024 07:57

Holding steady at 8% as the numbers go up- that’s 89 people .

Interesting that’s about 4 times the percentage of trans people, if remember correctly. So each trans person has about 3 cheerleaders backing them up.

It's also worth remembering that MN is designated a "hotbed of transphobia" and the TRA's monitor threads here for evidence of our "hateful" attitude so it's quite reassuring that 8% is the best they can manage when they've no doubt issued a clarion call on SM.

LittleCharlotte · 24/08/2024 09:51

MrsMumster · 23/08/2024 23:59

Spiders.

What does this mean?

ineedtogwtoutbeforeitatoohot · 24/08/2024 08:33

Going by the previous post I have just read and the one before that then yes it definitely has

RufustheFactualReindeer · 24/08/2024 08:26

I think their previous name was Tess

omg i just got this!

SensibleSigma · 24/08/2024 07:57

Holding steady at 8% as the numbers go up- that’s 89 people .

Interesting that’s about 4 times the percentage of trans people, if remember correctly. So each trans person has about 3 cheerleaders backing them up.

borntobequiet · 24/08/2024 07:43

That picture posted on the BBC article showing a grim looking bloke - RT - surrounded by what appear to be female acolytes is disturbing on a number of levels.

I hope it enlightens many people who may not have been aware of what a nonsense it all is.

Zita60 · 24/08/2024 06:42

RentySpenty · 23/08/2024 14:32

Roxxie Tickle. Really? 🤨

His real name is Jason Tickle, apparently. He chose the name Roxanne when he decided he was really a laydee but someone on Twitter thought he should have chosen the name Tess.

x.com/moleatthedoor/status/1826790172601585746

LilyBartsHatShop · 24/08/2024 02:04

redalex261 · 23/08/2024 16:41

Sadly this was expected and is unsurprising, because of CEDAW, which Australia imported into law wholesale this is definitely important internationally.

Sal Grover has said all along she will appeal this to rhe higher court.

Unbelievably Roxane Tickle was funded and supported to the tune of AUS$50k by the Australian Human Rights Sex Discrimination Commissioner who also appointed themselves as a “friend of the court” meaning they advised court. Hardly unbiased.

Fucking unbelievable.

It's Yogyakarta that Australia has imported wholesale.
Some good I can see coming out of all this is that the international community is forced to acknowledge that the Yogyakarta principles are thoroughly incompatible with CEDAW.
I hope Reem Asalem is given lots of air time.

SiobhanSharpe · 24/08/2024 01:49

reesewithoutaspoon · 23/08/2024 18:00

I think their previous name was Tess

😂

blubberyboo · 24/08/2024 00:27

It’s disgusting but not surprising for Australia

The women’s revolution is coming

YellowAsteroid · 24/08/2024 00:24

Thanks for that Magdalen Berns video@Lovelyview Its great to remember her- what’s loss to us all her death was.

MrsMumster · 23/08/2024 23:59

Spiders.

Lovelyview · 23/08/2024 23:46

Bit of a derail but at times like these I find solace in watching Magdalen Berns destroy Alex Drummond.