I need to know the general consensus and popular opinion. After a destination wedding with just family I am having a wedding reception at home. They know we have already had our wedding - this is just a party and won't include cake cutting/first dance etc. There will be photo booth, buffet and DJ etc.
Am I being unreasonable to think I don't need to wear my wedding dress? It is lovely - but I feel too formal in it (and that's the reason I didn't want a big wedding!).
You are being unreasonable: People expect to see you in the dress, you don't need to feel self-conscious or too formal.
You are not being unreasonable: People won't expect to see the dress/won't care.