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Please give me advice for managing work related stress

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Litlgreyrabbit · 21/08/2024 15:04

I’m not stressed to the point I need time off, but work is a constant source of stress / disquiet in the back of my mind.

I am in a well paid professional role. It involves dealing with difficult people and situations on an ongoing basis and realistically there is always a lot on my to-do list and problems of varying kinds that I need to be sorting or helping people with.

There is never, ever a moment where I can finish the working day with nothing left to do and everyone happy.

This weighs on my mind, not always consciously, but I just have this continuous nagging sensation that things are ‘not okay’.

I’m sure many people find themselves in similar roles - how do you manage? I really need some tips as I am 4 years into this job now and thought managing the stress wold get easier with experience, but it hasn’t really happened that way.

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VanGoghsDog · 21/08/2024 15:08

You just have to learn to leave it at the end of the day. My job is the same, and it does play on my mind, but essentially you do just have to try to learn to switch off. Write a to do list at the end of each day so you're ready for the next day and you've written down all your concerns so they are out of your head.

Going for a long walk or a swim at the end of the day helps. Having an active social life so you've got clear delineation.

If necessary, have some counselling or job coaching. Also, tell your boss so they can give you tips specific to your role.

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