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To not actually believe this story? Nursery incident

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West102 · 20/08/2024 04:05

My cousins 3 year old DD has suffered a broken leg a few days ago. Apparently this happened whilst at nursery. Nursery report that she ran really fast into a table. Aibu to not believe this at all? I can’t imagine running and banging her leg into a table would result in a fracture? They have chosen to the believe the nursery’s version of events but to me it doesn’t seem likely

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AgileGreenSeal · 20/08/2024 17:00

One of mine (many, many years ago) stepped awkwardly off a sofa and gave himself an extremely unusual spiral fracture to the arm - the sort associated with abuse. Strange things do happen. 🤷🏼‍♀️

West102 · 20/08/2024 16:56

I know it's not but I'm glad I posted so I am now aware it's something that can happen. as even her mum and dad were in shock that it's happened like this.

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WickieRoy · 20/08/2024 16:54

I know a GP who didn't realise for at least 24 hours that his toddler had broken his leg. But again OP, nothing to do with you.

SecondFavouriteDinosaur · 20/08/2024 16:44

I didn’t call an ambulance for my daughter when she broke her leg either, I took her to A&E. In fact I only took her about 4 hours after she did it, because I thought she’d walk it off and be fine. It’s so hard to tell with children. Also I’m sure at 3 she’d prefer to be with her mum than in the back of an ambulance.

West102 · 20/08/2024 16:41

Thanks everyone. Just never knew something like that can cause broken leg but good to be proven wrong. There's been some other general concerns about the nursery so I was worried this was a cover up. Found out that it is her tibia and fibula broken. The nursery did not ring an ambulance though. They rang my cousin to come and get her to take her

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Seashor · 20/08/2024 13:31

My son stepped off a log and broke his leg so I believe it.

itsgettingweird · 20/08/2024 13:26

My cousin broke her arm doing a backwards walkover.

She didn't even fall. Just literally did it and then was screaming in pain.

Some of us stayed with her (in the middle of a random field 😂) while other went to get adults. They were telling her not to be so dramatic she hadn't even fallen over.

But it's was a complete break.

And yet I was thrown from a horse and lands on one arm. Suspected broken collarbone and elbow. Nope - just (a lot!) of swelling and bruising. I was actually quite disappointed after such a dramatic event 😂😂😂 (I was peak teen drama stage)

itsgettingweird · 20/08/2024 13:20

I remember being called as first aider at school to a child who apparently was stood fairly still and dropped to sitting on the floor. He said his foot hurt. I'd been told on the quiet beforehand they thought he may be playing on it as there was no obvious reason it should.

I went over and checked him over. I said I wanted an ambulance as concerned he'd broken his leg. Also to call parents.

Everyone thought I'd drunk the kool aid.

His leg was broken in 2 places!

There was the tiniest dip in the grass and just his foot twisting into it whilst stood fairly motionless was enough.

It does happen.

Summertimer · 20/08/2024 13:16

It’s weird to disbelieve it.

StMarieforme · 20/08/2024 13:14

My DD15 banged her arm on a half pipe- she wasn't resting or anything, not much more than a knock. Serious spiral fracture that nearly paralysed a nerve, so yes, it can happen!

LIZS · 20/08/2024 12:18

An i pact and awkward fall could do it

Ponoka7 · 20/08/2024 12:17

I'd forgotten about green stick fractures. There were lots around when children were allowed to play out more. I agree that the doctor would write a report on if the explanation was plausible. It will have to be officially noted by the nursery, statements taken etc.

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 20/08/2024 12:13

itsgettingweird · 20/08/2024 08:59

Puggy

I stand corrected and you are right.

You learn something new everyday!

Here's a picture from google of types (which I knew) but they indeed are all called bone fractures.

Hopefully the picture helps someone else learn like I just did!

You're welcome 😄 to be honest I have this irrational irritation about it because I once worked with someone who thought "fracture" meant hairline fracture, and "broken" meant something much worse, and she absolutely snarled at me "it's not broken, it's only fractured" when I half-jokingly asked if the doctor she had seen at A&E was a real doctor, and if he had understood the physical nature of her job when he said she was fine to keep working with a broken ... let's say leg for reasons of not outing myself 😬

(Turns out it was a lie anyway because she was blaming another colleague for her injury and was trying to make her feel guilty by pretending the injury was worse than it was and I was annoying her by asking too many questions and now if anyone on here worked in the same place they know who I am, or the bullying colleague is because it was an absolute classic of hers 😂)

Lovethat · 20/08/2024 12:04

My friends dd broke her foot jumping off the second to last step on my stairs.

Thiswayorthatway · 20/08/2024 11:57

Trumpetoftheswan2 · 20/08/2024 05:31

My two year old fractured his leg turning round in the garden. I was standing next to him.

Mine did as well. Bones are softer at that age.

BobbyBiscuits · 20/08/2024 11:54

The strength of the human body at running speed is quite astonishing. Imagine an adult running as fast as they could and hitting a hard object. A fracture wouldn't seem unlikely at all. It's like a sports injury. Which is the most common reason for fractures in people under 50 apart from RTA/ fall from height.
So I'd totally believe it.

lugeanjaam · 20/08/2024 11:49

My 1 year old daughter caused a buckle fracture on her tibia tripping over while she was learning to walk. Her dad and I witnessed it and neither of us got up straight away as it looked like such an innocent fall, her cry told us that something wasn't right though. I never would have believed it if I didn't see it myself.
So yes it's possible.

NeedToChangeName · 20/08/2024 11:15

My DS broke his leg at nursery. Staff weren't sure what had happened. Dr at A&E reassured me it was easily done at that age and no need for me to be concerned about the nursery's care

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/08/2024 11:09

Anon9898 · 20/08/2024 09:28

My son had an accident at school. Teacher checked his leg and foot very thoroughly and no problem. Had a limp. So thought twisted ankle. Came home was in pain a and e said buckle fracture. As he was walking on it depends what type of fracture it is. My advice would be to ask for further investigation partly for yourself and partly so it doesn't happen again to another child

It's not the OP's child it's her cousin's. So it's not her business,

zingally · 20/08/2024 11:08

A friends reception-aged child broke his wrist and the heel of his foot falling off a very low piece of equipment at school. Literally 18 inches high. These things happen.

DublinBlowIn · 20/08/2024 10:39

My DD had the most horrific broken arm from running into a fence.

KreedKafer · 20/08/2024 10:38

My niece broke her leg just running around the house with her brother.

Toddler's bones are much softer and bendier than adults' bones. It would be perfectly possible for a toddler to get a 'green stick' type fracture, where the bone bends and partially breaks like when you try to snap a fresh stick in half, by falling, tripping or running into something.

I would also add that hospitals are typically very vigilant about broken bones in small children (my brother and his wife got asked A LOT of questions when my niece broke her leg) and there's no way the staff in A&E would have accepted the explanation if it wasn't completely plausible.

EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness · 20/08/2024 09:49

My then 3 year old got a really bad break from a very low fall, I saw it happen. He wouldn't stop screaming so we took him straight to hospital, thought he might have a green stick fracture at most. never expected a really bad break and multiple weeks in hosptisl. Hospital was worried something else was going on like brittle bones to get such a bad break from such a small fall, but there wasnt any reason for it. Sometimes you just get unlucky with the way they fall or exactly where the force hits. So yes I think their explanation is believable. One slight silver lining at this age breaks heal very well.

GlennCloseButNoCigar · 20/08/2024 09:41

I missed one step on some stairs once and stumbled. Ended up with spiral fractures to the tibia and fibula. In casts and boots for nine months, it happens!

GourmetLettuceMix · 20/08/2024 09:40

My friend's toddler tripped on the carpeted living room floor and broke his leg.

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