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To not actually believe this story? Nursery incident

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West102 · 20/08/2024 04:05

My cousins 3 year old DD has suffered a broken leg a few days ago. Apparently this happened whilst at nursery. Nursery report that she ran really fast into a table. Aibu to not believe this at all? I can’t imagine running and banging her leg into a table would result in a fracture? They have chosen to the believe the nursery’s version of events but to me it doesn’t seem likely

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riceuten · 23/08/2024 17:08

littleoldme3 · 23/08/2024 06:14

@riceuten Oh wow! I honestly had no idea this would even be allowed. I have to give so many different consent forms to allow for my son’s nursery just to send pics of him via an app etc!
I don’t think I’d be comfortable with webcams at all!

Nor are the staff, to be honest

littleoldme3 · 23/08/2024 06:14

riceuten · 21/08/2024 19:16

Yes, for these particular nurseries. Not unusual in this part of London.

@riceuten Oh wow! I honestly had no idea this would even be allowed. I have to give so many different consent forms to allow for my son’s nursery just to send pics of him via an app etc!
I don’t think I’d be comfortable with webcams at all!

NannaKaren · 21/08/2024 23:50

In the realms of possibility - I tripped and whacked my shoulder against our wall unit which resulted in a fracture - the local hospital CF disagreed and said I’d sprained it and gave me exercises to do - never known such pain😡
Hope little one is ok.

Jeannie88 · 21/08/2024 21:44

A friend broke her ankle while standing up from a chair as it twisted the wrong way so yes I can believe this. However if you have doubts you can ask for witnesses, possible cctv. Accidents do happen, a lot, with kids, always worth questioning of course. Xx

West102 · 21/08/2024 21:16

OhcantthInkofaname · 21/08/2024 20:45

Which leg bone are you talking about? The tibia and fibula are lower leg bones and the femur the thigh bone. What type of fracture was it?

Both tibia and fibula

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OhcantthInkofaname · 21/08/2024 20:45

Which leg bone are you talking about? The tibia and fibula are lower leg bones and the femur the thigh bone. What type of fracture was it?

Realitysucks · 21/08/2024 20:18

My 4 year old has just fractured his elbow coming down a very small bouncy castle slide! Didn’t even look like a bad or hard landing but broke his arm!

PeepDeBeaul · 21/08/2024 19:34

Broke my arm in two places aged nearly 4 running along a landing a tripped. Didn't hit anything other than a carpetted floor...sometimes it's not about the fall it's about not sticking the landing!

Got a mate who tripped running two weeks ago, just a trip. He's waiting on surgery as we speak. He really didn't stick the landing

PerkyMintDeer · 21/08/2024 19:21

It could be true.

My Dad shattered his ankle, needing pins,
plates and three months in a cast, walking down ONE step coming out the off-licence (sober). He landed really heavily on a flat foot and it just went.

I dislocated my big toe walking into a table.

It's all about angles and bone strength. Must be a nightmare owning/working in a nursery as accidents genuinely do happen.

Lessstressedhemum · 21/08/2024 19:16

When my ds2 was 3, he broke his ankle getting out of bed. Didn't jump, fall out, just stood on it in a funny way and broke it.

riceuten · 21/08/2024 19:16

littleoldme3 · 21/08/2024 19:12

@riceuten they had webcams in the nursery?!?! Is this normal?! 😳

Yes, for these particular nurseries. Not unusual in this part of London.

HamHook · 21/08/2024 19:16

West102 · 20/08/2024 16:41

Thanks everyone. Just never knew something like that can cause broken leg but good to be proven wrong. There's been some other general concerns about the nursery so I was worried this was a cover up. Found out that it is her tibia and fibula broken. The nursery did not ring an ambulance though. They rang my cousin to come and get her to take her

You haven't been proven wrong OP. You've just heard alot of anecdotal evidence about how sometimes fractures in children can occur easily.

For all the stories you read here there are millions more of children who have had - on the face of it - horrific accidents and walked away completely unscathed.

The injury is 100% worthy of follow up and checking of CCTV. A good nursery would be allowing you in to watch the footage, given that the injury resulted in a fracture. In fact a good nursery with nothing to hide would be begging you to come in and see.

AgathaSultana · 21/08/2024 19:14

My brother broke both arms falling off a swing so I think it's actually quite easy to break a bone when young

littleoldme3 · 21/08/2024 19:12

riceuten · 21/08/2024 17:55

It concerns me that almost every accident at a nursery, school, or childminder is automatically the fault of the establishment and staff, and NEVER, EVER the child concerned. I had a work colleague who worked as a nursery nurse and gave up when every bruise and cut was subject to the Spanish Inquisition, and when they introduced webcams, Mums would be calling when their child fell asking why the staff didn’t prevent it?

@riceuten they had webcams in the nursery?!?! Is this normal?! 😳

laraitopbanana · 21/08/2024 19:12

Hi op,

it is very plausible actually but I think it is great that you feel like doublechecking :) lucky cousins.

🌺

moonshinepoursthroughmywindow · 21/08/2024 19:09

To the person who said there is a difference between broken and fractured - this is a very common misconception but it is wrong. Fractured means broken to any degree, from cracked to broken right through to shattered. They are all fractures. The technical name for a hairline crack is a hairline fracture but that doesn't mean fracture = crack.

Look at the definition on this site and especially the diagram of "types of bone fractures" further down the page.

For what it's worth, I have heard of people breaking or cracking bones in circumstances even less dramatic than what happened to the OP's relative, so I believe it.

FluffyBenji23 · 21/08/2024 18:54

My sister in law broke her leg really badly climbing out of skinny jeans! The smallest incident can cause a fracture.

Mumoftwochildrenand6furkids · 21/08/2024 18:27

Not sure as an few years back my mums Labrador puppy jumped up me, I fell only onto grass and ended up with an broken knee cap so breaks and fractures can happen quite easy.

riceuten · 21/08/2024 17:55

West102 · 20/08/2024 04:05

My cousins 3 year old DD has suffered a broken leg a few days ago. Apparently this happened whilst at nursery. Nursery report that she ran really fast into a table. Aibu to not believe this at all? I can’t imagine running and banging her leg into a table would result in a fracture? They have chosen to the believe the nursery’s version of events but to me it doesn’t seem likely

It concerns me that almost every accident at a nursery, school, or childminder is automatically the fault of the establishment and staff, and NEVER, EVER the child concerned. I had a work colleague who worked as a nursery nurse and gave up when every bruise and cut was subject to the Spanish Inquisition, and when they introduced webcams, Mums would be calling when their child fell asking why the staff didn’t prevent it?

Tiswa · 21/08/2024 10:48

I didn’t call an ambulance when DS broke his leg (sounds a very similar fracture actually - someone landed on him on a trampoline) took him in the car

he didn’t need any attention prior to getting to hospital at all

SlowRunner06 · 20/08/2024 19:03

West102 · 20/08/2024 16:41

Thanks everyone. Just never knew something like that can cause broken leg but good to be proven wrong. There's been some other general concerns about the nursery so I was worried this was a cover up. Found out that it is her tibia and fibula broken. The nursery did not ring an ambulance though. They rang my cousin to come and get her to take her

It isn't an emergency though unless the bone was sticking out. Correct protocol to call the parents first - who could've insisted on an ambulance.

itsgettingweird · 20/08/2024 19:01

That reminds me of another story.

Me and my friend had been out for a few beers in a beer garden. Walking home with her dog and she went over in her ankle and was wearing boots.

We walked the rest of the way home chatting and arranged to meet for dog walk in the morning and stop for breakfast and coffee.

Went to hers the next day and she didn't answer door. Her dog was barking. I called her phone. She couldn't walk and her ankle was really swollen.
I managed to get in through her open back window. Got her some ice and walked her dog.

When I got back she was an awful colour and her leg felt no better so got another friend and we practically carried her to the car.

She had fractured her ankle.

I still wind her up 15 years later that beer is clearly the best painkiller around!

thejadefish · 20/08/2024 18:24

DN aged about 1, maybe 18 months was sat on the bottom step of the stairs, somehow fell off & fractured her arm. A woman I used to work with managed to sustain a spiral fracture of her leg just by getting out of the car (the very high heels she was wearing may have contributed to it I don't know, she was a passenger btw not the driver). It's surprisingly easy to do. I admit if hadn't known people who had suffered fractures in such unexpected ways I'd question it too but as it is, yes I can believe it!

alrightluv · 20/08/2024 17:08

Ds1 broke his arm at soft play.

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