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Paying Cleaner 52 Weeks Per Year

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roses2 · 19/08/2024 09:57

I have a cleaner who works very hard, hasn't taken a holiday in two years and I pay her every single week even when I go on holiday (she still comes to the house & cleans whilst I am away). To be honest I don't really need cleaning when I am on holiday but she said she relies on the income so I give her extra tasks and she does them. It's 5 hours per week.

Now she has taken a holiday at the same time as me and she wants to send her sister to clean the day I am back from holiday. I've asked to take a break but she says her sister would like the income. I've said my house isn't dirty since I've been away and doesn't need a clean but now I have a guilt trip from her about the money.

I don't really want a clean. I'm happy to honour my arrangement with her to clean every single week but I don't think it's fair on me that I don't need a clean and she's passed on the cleaning to someone else whilst she takes holiday.

Do other people who have cleaners pay them 52 weeks per year? Surely it's normal to take a break a handful of times per year?

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Catza · 19/08/2024 10:06

I only pay for what I need. My partner is self-employed and he would not expect someone to pay him to do unnecessary tasks out of charity. It's not your responsibility, really. Although I do appreciate it can feel like it is if you have a long-standing relationship with someone. Paying her sister is just taking a piss. It's a guilt-free no from me.

HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 19/08/2024 10:00

I don't think you have a responsibility for her sister's income or to let someone you don't know clean while your normal cleaner is away.

I agree you should pay for the weeks you are away but she is available to do it.

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OrangeSlices998 · 19/08/2024 09:58

My cleaner takes holiday through the year and we just don’t pay for the weeks she doesn’t come. I appreciate she/the sister may need the income but that’s not on you. If you don’t need/want the clean then say no and be clear when the next regular clean would be on her return.

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