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Really weird stuff people do that makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.

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PrimitivePerson · 18/08/2024 17:12

Someone I know puts hotel TV remotes in plastic bags before using them, because she once heard a standup comedian talking about men wanking on them while watching porn.

WTAF?

What weird things do people you know do that make absolutely no sense at all? Anything as odd as that?

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Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 25/08/2024 16:19

Lovesabadboy · 25/08/2024 16:12

It is also handy for still being able to throw any dregs/leftover tea/water/juice etc down the side of the bowl if you have forgotten to do so before filling the sink with hot soapy water.
(We have another smaller sink so not important for us, but I washed up at my daughter's place recently and faced that issue).
I have always used a washing up bowl and it feels very odd not to!

Yes, I only have a single sink and can tip away dregs down the side if I need to. Usually I've thrown them outside on the garden (or given them to the dog to lick up, but don't tell some of the germphobics on here that my dog licks the plates before I wash up or I might be lynched or something).

Lovesabadboy · 25/08/2024 16:12

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 18/08/2024 18:55

I think it comes from the times when people had one tank of hot water to do for the whole day. They (like I do now, because I wash up in a kettle of hot water) didn't have limitless hot running water to wash dishes. Hot water was (is!) expensive, and washing dishes under running hot water is a luxury.

It is also handy for still being able to throw any dregs/leftover tea/water/juice etc down the side of the bowl if you have forgotten to do so before filling the sink with hot soapy water.
(We have another smaller sink so not important for us, but I washed up at my daughter's place recently and faced that issue).
I have always used a washing up bowl and it feels very odd not to!

Gwenhwyfar · 25/08/2024 16:04

CombatLingerie · 18/08/2024 21:34

I have just realised that I must be very weird! I have never drunk ‘squash’. Obviously I know shops sell it 😂 but I didn’t realise quite so many people drink it until I read this thread. I probably drink too much tea to fit in another liquid!

It's for kids.
I now live in a country that doesn't even have squash.

Gwenhwyfar · 25/08/2024 16:03

mrlistersgelfbride · 18/08/2024 21:15

I always remember my grandad put a small piece of wire in the top of the opening of washing up liquid so he could make sure he put only 3 drips in each to save on washing up liquid.

Even my dad who is massively petty and a penny pincher said it's not worth doing to save about £3 a year 😂

I'm lolling at this!

Gwenhwyfar · 25/08/2024 16:00

Cantrushart · 18/08/2024 20:48

In addition to the reasons already given:
-better for pouring liquids down the sink while you are washing up (more relevant in the days when people didn't have separate half or second sinks).
-can reuse the water on the garden more easily.
-water stays hotter in a plastic bowl than in metal or enamel sink.

Loads of people still don't have a double sink!

Gwenhwyfar · 25/08/2024 15:55

JaneJeffer · 18/08/2024 19:46

As Michael McIntyre says we trust the fridge

Well it's just that if you switch the fridge and freezer off your food will go bad so no choice really.

godmum56 · 25/08/2024 15:54

I don't see either as weird. I live alone so if I am doing something or in a situation where I prefer not to answer the door then I don't...and as @Gwenhwyfar says, if I don't know the number it will be spam or someone trying to get me to have a smart meter.

Gwenhwyfar · 25/08/2024 15:50

blueshoes · 18/08/2024 18:57

Not answering doorbells. Not answering phones if they cannot recognise the number and proud to tell everyone about it.

A number I don't recognise will be spam.

godmum56 · 25/08/2024 15:46

BernardBlacksBreakfastWine · 25/08/2024 14:32

I think I’m more surprised not by people putting or not putting milk in scrambled eggs but by people being wildly shocked that anyone does it differently! All this “I’ve never, ever in my life heard of anyone adding milk!!” Really?? Where have you been?

oh I know folk who add milk, also those who don't. I prefer not to.

godmum56 · 25/08/2024 15:45

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 25/08/2024 15:37

The sieving the eggs before cooking them is weird. Sorry, but if you get white bits in the cooked egg you're not cooking it properly.

the bits are called chalazae and are cords that hold the yolk in the middle of the egg. I fish them out with a bit of egg shell before I cook the egg. https://www.sites.ext.vt.edu/virtualfarm/poultry/poultry_eggparts.html#:~:text=In%20a%20fresh%20egg%2C%20we,the%20center%20of%20the%20egg.

The Parts of the Egg

https://www.sites.ext.vt.edu/virtualfarm/poultry/poultry_eggparts.html#:~:text=In%20a%20fresh%20egg%2C%20we,the%20center%20of%20the%20egg.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 25/08/2024 15:37

The sieving the eggs before cooking them is weird. Sorry, but if you get white bits in the cooked egg you're not cooking it properly.

BernardBlacksBreakfastWine · 25/08/2024 14:32

I think I’m more surprised not by people putting or not putting milk in scrambled eggs but by people being wildly shocked that anyone does it differently! All this “I’ve never, ever in my life heard of anyone adding milk!!” Really?? Where have you been?

godmum56 · 25/08/2024 14:16

Bodeganights · 25/08/2024 12:50

Oh God, I could not be bothered. Ever. Mine only come out from under the counter when they are broken and I need a new one. Not even when I move house do they come out.
I have a friend who has all those and the fridge and her cooker on wheels. She pulls everything out every week to clean behind.

I guess if something had died behind an electrical item, I'd pull it out to clean then. But otherwise, nope, not bothered.

For all those who's scrambled eggs involve no milk, you are eating omelette.

no I am not, its in small pieces in a creamy binding "sauce", not a whole item with a set exterior and a baveuse interior.

godmum56 · 25/08/2024 14:14

fliptopbin · 21/08/2024 00:14

It dawned on me a few months sgo that the only reason that I peel mushrooms is because its the way I learned to cook!

Mushrooms that come clean enough to just cook are a relatively (well to me, I am 70) new thing. Mushrooms used to come with actual compost on and needed washing or peeling if you didn't want a gobful of grit or earth. Actually its only about a month ago that I bought mushrooms in waitrose that had growing medium on which needed removing before they were cooked, but I think that was an oversight and not usual. Washing does tend to make mushrooms soggy and the usual advice to "wipe with damp cloth or a kitchen towel" is a real faff, so you used to generally peel.

Bodeganights · 25/08/2024 12:50

fliptopbin · 18/08/2024 22:42

My MOL pulls out the washing machine and dishwasher grom under the kitchen counter to unplug them each night, pushes them back, then does the same in reverse each morning.

Oh God, I could not be bothered. Ever. Mine only come out from under the counter when they are broken and I need a new one. Not even when I move house do they come out.
I have a friend who has all those and the fridge and her cooker on wheels. She pulls everything out every week to clean behind.

I guess if something had died behind an electrical item, I'd pull it out to clean then. But otherwise, nope, not bothered.

For all those who's scrambled eggs involve no milk, you are eating omelette.

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 25/08/2024 11:24

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 25/08/2024 10:37

I can’t see that it’s odd not to do a weekly shop. I hardly ever do now (older with more time) so will walk 15 or 25 minutes to a supermarket to get enough for the next 2-3 days - and get the bus back - it’s a steepish uphill walk back. I only take the car if I know I’m going to have a lot of heavy shopping, which is not often now.

She doesn’t even go to the supermarket for her twice weekly shopping, she orders online for delivery. She then gets her husband to buy the salad on the other day she has it as part of a main meal.

She was one of those people who put her shopping into “quarantine” for at least 3 days during Covid and also her post; she even bought some American wash thing for her fruit and vegetables!!

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 25/08/2024 10:37

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 25/08/2024 03:24

I have a friend who eats sandwiches with a knife and fork - at home, even when she’s made it herself. She also never buys the components of a salad and makes one herself, she buys tubs of prepared salad at least 3 times a week. Lastly, she doesn’t do a weekly shop but will only buy for the next 3-4 days so has 2 supermarket deliveries a week. She isn’t rural or a long way from the nearest supermarket, it’s less than 5 minutes walk from her house; nor does she have issues with storage such as no freezer, quite the opposite, it’s permanently almost empty.

I can’t see that it’s odd not to do a weekly shop. I hardly ever do now (older with more time) so will walk 15 or 25 minutes to a supermarket to get enough for the next 2-3 days - and get the bus back - it’s a steepish uphill walk back. I only take the car if I know I’m going to have a lot of heavy shopping, which is not often now.

mikado1 · 25/08/2024 10:35

Crispynoodle · 24/08/2024 00:01

That is bloody genius! I hate the white stringy bits 🤮 and usually spend ages picking them out!

I don't get any white stringy bits ever and am v confused by this.

My dH adds milk to make it 'silkier' but not me.

AndyandTerrysMum · 25/08/2024 09:01

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 25/08/2024 03:24

I have a friend who eats sandwiches with a knife and fork - at home, even when she’s made it herself. She also never buys the components of a salad and makes one herself, she buys tubs of prepared salad at least 3 times a week. Lastly, she doesn’t do a weekly shop but will only buy for the next 3-4 days so has 2 supermarket deliveries a week. She isn’t rural or a long way from the nearest supermarket, it’s less than 5 minutes walk from her house; nor does she have issues with storage such as no freezer, quite the opposite, it’s permanently almost empty.

Oh my dad does that- goes to the supermarket 5/6 times a week.

He grew up very poor, where feeding everyone was a stress.

He said his goal in life when he was young was to be able to walk into a food shop and buy anything and everything he fancied eating without any worry.

So even though he made it there decades ago, it still makes him happy to do it.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 25/08/2024 07:55

redalex261 · 18/08/2024 17:35

I pass scrambled egg mix through a sieve before cooking it so there’s no white flecky bits in the finished product. (bleurgh!) Been told by everyone this is very weird.

My Dm used to do similar - getting all the ‘bits’ out of any egg before using. She was very squeamish, and didn’t like ‘eggy’ eggs anyway 😂 - though we never did find out exactly what made any egg ‘eggy’.

TorroFerney · 25/08/2024 07:48

PerkyMintDeer · 19/08/2024 08:42

Anyone who has ever done, or lived with someone who has done, a food hygiene course will know that you aren't supposed to dry your hands on a tea towel that's used for clean dishes. That's pretty grim in my opinion.

But you are drying clean hands, the same hands that will touch the dishes. So to extrapolate out you shouldn’t touch dishes with your hands.

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 25/08/2024 03:24

I have a friend who eats sandwiches with a knife and fork - at home, even when she’s made it herself. She also never buys the components of a salad and makes one herself, she buys tubs of prepared salad at least 3 times a week. Lastly, she doesn’t do a weekly shop but will only buy for the next 3-4 days so has 2 supermarket deliveries a week. She isn’t rural or a long way from the nearest supermarket, it’s less than 5 minutes walk from her house; nor does she have issues with storage such as no freezer, quite the opposite, it’s permanently almost empty.

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 25/08/2024 03:17

Durdledore · 18/08/2024 18:14

My mum switches the oven off at the wall - the big red switch that switches the electric supply to the oven.

In her defence, it relates to something from decades ago and she knows it’s superfluous, but she still does it.

I do this - because I have 5 year old twins and wouldn’t put it past them to turn the hob rings on when there’s something sat on the top of the cooker.