Ok we all know each other from kids school(myself and partner and the other couple - couple B)
I have gone out the other lady and some other mother a few times. She is like a school mum friend to me (not close)
Our kids are in the same class and are friends
Go to same clubs etc DS just started the football club in the last few weeks so DH is now on what's app group of the football club and I am not. This is how she (of couple B) is got DH's number.
DH does not talk much at all and only know the couple on a hello hi bases
DH just told me she's privately messaged him asking him if he can take their son to football next week because they are going to a funeral and of course he's said yes. I don't have an issue but I am thinking I would never do that in a million years, message someone else's husband or partner privately asking for anything. I would have messaged the lady asking her to ask her DH if he can help get their child the club. Or is it because she knows I don't ever got to the club?
Or am being unreasonable and that's the way things are done here? Sorry I am from a different background and culture