Okay, this is going to be strange and weird I apologise..
So my God son ( my first cousin) messaged me today and asked me if I knew about an explicit photo of me taken at his soon to be wife's hen, the photo in question is a group photo where me (and others) flashed their breasts to the camera, it was a joke photo and I didn't realise it was being shown to my cousin ect because only the bride has it. My husband knows about this picture as I told him (he hasn't seen it)
He then becomes extremely creepy and weird telling me how sexy I am, how fit he has always found me, how sexy my breasts are. I text him back saying WTF to be honest i was so taken back, I'm in shock still. He then messages me asking me to send him nudes behind my husbands back and that he won't tell anyone. This is my first cousin 🤮 I instantly told my husband and while I was telling my husband he messaged me saying he was currently taking drugs (cocaine) I told him to stop messaging me this as its extremely inappropriate and disgusting and that I'm feeling extremely uncomfortable. I've ignored him since then, he keep messaging me asking me if I'm going to tell anyone and if we're okay. I've ignored.
So am I being unreasonable to tell my uncle to get my cousin some help (he's in his 30's) for his drugs taking.
Or should i just leave it, im seriously in two minds because this will cause a huge family rift as this side of the family are extremely proud and very high and mighty and I'm not particularly close to them (dad's side)
Thank you