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To find August( especially mid-August) a sad affair?

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rewilded · 17/08/2024 19:13

I can't put my finger on it but I always feel depressed in August. June on the other hand is the perfect month.Grin

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ToastandJamandTea · 29/08/2024 16:18

Really enjoying the nights drawing in now. I start the dog walk when it's starting to get back and arrive home when the street lights are on 😆
Makes the last cup of tea if the day better somehow.

exiledfromcornwall · 29/08/2024 15:41

Another fan of autumn here. I am literally counting down the days until September. I live in a part of the country where the autumn colours are beautiful. No need to go to New England living here.

aardvarkpark · 29/08/2024 09:07

I love August as a month, but this last week of August always seems a little disconcerting. Some schools are already back but some have got another week or so of the holidays left. It's a weird in between kind of time.
This week was supposed to be hot but the weather has been a little disappointing where we are. I love autumn (my favourite season) but I enjoy late summer and August sunshine knowing the 'ber' months are coming. I feel a bit robbed of the joy this year because summer has been a bit of a washout the last couple of weeks. I don't feel quite ready to embrace autumn but summer is not summering.
I always get a bit nostalgic in August, remembering my childhood summers spent riding bikes, playing with friends and family holidays. It always seemed such a long, lazy month. Nowadays it flies by!

PerkyMintDeer · 23/08/2024 20:20

I'm full of something (cough, scratchy throat, snotty nose), lying on sofa in winter pjs and fluffy dressing gown, fire on, wrapped in blanket...trees outside knocked over by last nights storm...In my head we're in the depths of Autumn now!

Suzuki70 · 23/08/2024 20:20

I think it's definitely worth bearing in mond when booking UK summer breaks. DS is year 1 so never really thought about it before, but our break in the North East at the end of July had a lovely late-spring feel to it whereas our friends who live up there are now having sunshine but with cold winds and dark evenings.

ToastandJamandTea · 23/08/2024 20:17

We have been on holiday in north devon for the past week and can certainly sense that summer is on it's way out.
We have had a few hours at the beach each day but the mornings and evenings are chilly.

the80sweregreat · 23/08/2024 19:49

The nights drawing in are a bit of a wake up call to the end of summer. I saw Christmas things for sale in Halfords of all places the other day!
They rush us through the year

PearlSlaghoople · 21/08/2024 10:59

xxSideshowAuntSallyxx · 21/08/2024 10:06

Yes the sun is setting at just after 8pm now, I turned the lights on at quarter to nine last night and it was already dark. There's no gentle sunsetting it just gets dark really quickly, all of a sudden I'm sat in the dark.

And it's dark at 5am when I get up to let the cat out.

It's starting to feel like early autumn which I suppose it will be in a week.

Agree on the nights drawing in quickly… lights on just after 8pm here, or we fall over the dog! Find myself sitting with the DDog (as she’s very fluffy and warm) to watch tv, and DP was heard muttering about how long til the fire is on 😱

There are starting to be “blanket wars” here - whoever sits down first gets the remote and top choice of fluffiest blanket!😀

I was looking at the leaves at the weekend - in just 1 week, there’s such a difference… looking dry and crispy now and have a sort of “worn-out” appearance, other trees are starting to change colour.

I quite like it, Summer has been poor anyway, so might as well embrace the new season!

Girasoli · 21/08/2024 10:37

I like August...I always try to coincide my visits to Italy in the summer to include 15th August which is the biggest bank holiday in Italy (I'm there right now)

August in the UK isn't as fun because it's usually started raining a lot by then...June and July are the best summer months in the UK imo. Its a shame the schools break up so late.

xxSideshowAuntSallyxx · 21/08/2024 10:06

Tumbleweed101 · 20/08/2024 06:57

I’d usually agree but this has been a lovely warm, sunny August (although grey today atm). I think
because the nice weather started late it feels different this year.

I’m off work this week and away on holiday next week (uk one). The nights drawing in are becoming very noticeable though.

Yes the sun is setting at just after 8pm now, I turned the lights on at quarter to nine last night and it was already dark. There's no gentle sunsetting it just gets dark really quickly, all of a sudden I'm sat in the dark.

And it's dark at 5am when I get up to let the cat out.

It's starting to feel like early autumn which I suppose it will be in a week.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 20/08/2024 19:52

SunsetandCupcakes · 19/08/2024 22:24

Sorry if I'm thick, I don't understand LARPers, and even less so after googling

Live Action Role Playing

Essentially, they are re-enactors but I was reading about one of the groups at a local joust we visited recently, and they call themselves a Medieval Fighting Team.

Tumbleweed101 · 20/08/2024 06:57

I’d usually agree but this has been a lovely warm, sunny August (although grey today atm). I think
because the nice weather started late it feels different this year.

I’m off work this week and away on holiday next week (uk one). The nights drawing in are becoming very noticeable though.

HighlandCow78 · 19/08/2024 23:34

I’ve been thinking of this thread all day OP! Autumn seems to have arrived here in NI - rainy, stormy weather, dusk at 8pm and leaves already falling off the trees.

So depressing considering we haven’t even had a summer this year 😞

GingerPirate · 19/08/2024 23:22

Wow.
Love Autumn and Winter, get depressed with
Spring (since childhood).
March is really a month where I have to keep it together. ☹️🤔

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 19/08/2024 23:15

strawberryshortcakescat · 19/08/2024 16:08

I totally get this.
I feel down, my kids are another school year older, heck one of them has finished altogether this year.

I always feel nostalgic about summer holidays gone by.
And back to work is looming (teacher)
Plus Summer is drawing to a close.

I always feel like this.

Im one of the underground movement who really enjoys having the kids at home over summer.

End of summer always feels like that song in Mamma Mia where she sings about time "slipping through my fingers all the time ". 😥

Murphs1 · 19/08/2024 22:51

Oh stop being mean you lot!

Existingbudhet · 19/08/2024 22:50

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:06

You sound ridiculous and embarrassing

Agree, what a load of utter twaddle

NeverDropYourMooncup · 19/08/2024 22:45

SunsetandCupcakes · 19/08/2024 22:24

Sorry if I'm thick, I don't understand LARPers, and even less so after googling

That's a perfectly normal response to them, tbh.

SunsetandCupcakes · 19/08/2024 22:24

LyndaSnellsSniff · 19/08/2024 22:19

Me too. Bloody love autumn and you have a point; fewer LARPers at large.

Sorry if I'm thick, I don't understand LARPers, and even less so after googling

LyndaSnellsSniff · 19/08/2024 22:19

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/08/2024 07:29

I'd take a bunch of wasps over LARPers any day.

I'm waiting for the first bite in the air - I love Autumn.

Me too. Bloody love autumn and you have a point; fewer LARPers at large.

LadyRoughDiamond · 19/08/2024 17:37

Existingbudhet · 17/08/2024 19:23

There are no wasps, hadn't you noticed? This is not good

You’re right! Fewer bees too.

It’s very dry here dry here (Suffolk) - leaves are falling already.

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:10

KimKardashiansLostEarring · 19/08/2024 17:08

‘Jasmin’ 😂
I can see it now, @GoTigers in his mum’s conservatory watching the next door neighbour’s warm skin by the open french doors!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

KimKardashiansLostEarring · 19/08/2024 17:08

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:06

You sound ridiculous and embarrassing

‘Jasmin’ 😂
I can see it now, @GoTigers in his mum’s conservatory watching the next door neighbour’s warm skin by the open french doors!

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:06

GoTigers · 17/08/2024 20:22

August is the sexiest month
Warm skin
French doors open
Light clothing revealing comfortable and hot summer body shapes.
Straps falling off shoulders.
Late night drinks in gardens with failing light.
Jasmin.
The capturing of ‘now’ as the dark of tomorrow approaches.
The most louche of months - 31 days of feeling like you’ve woken after a mid week, off work, afternoon nap. In dappled sun.

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You sound ridiculous and embarrassing

KimberleyClark · 19/08/2024 16:16

When working I always felt depressed after the August bank holiday. Thinking "that's it now until Christmas". .