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Can’t just be me who is sick of the moaning about the private school VAT and winter fuel payments

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TruthorDie · 16/08/2024 22:09

The moaning about them seems to be never ending. So tone death and indulgent on both counts. Not sure which is worse. A friends mum was ranting on social media earlier about winter fuel payments being stopped and how “worried about being cold” she was. Bad news is Lynn you haven’t needed to work since 1989, married to an oil exec and have had lots of the good life. I’m sure all of your Florida holidays keep you warm enough!

Bright children can get on anywhere, my siblings and l went to a comprehensive. We all have a couple of degrees, one of us has a PhD so it didn’t hold us back too much in life. Before anyone comes at it from the neurodiversity angle then l am and l wouldn’t be surprised if my younger sibling isn’t

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5128gap · 19/08/2024 23:04

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 11:21

Can I ask - who do you believe did very nicely under the previous administration?

Your words.

Please advise.

The people who are so keen to see a return to it that they are already complaining, criticising and scaremongering with increasing hyperbole about the alternative.

Bushmillsbabe · 19/08/2024 22:18

Frowningprovidence · 19/08/2024 10:42

One of the questions in the recent consultation on PIP and DLA was around whether you would still claim if there was a way to access all the other services /support without recieving payments. That was under the last government.

The point of universal services/non mean testing is that everyone can claim it so they feel less resentment at contributing to the system as its there for them too. Its not just paying for other people all the time.

I think this is really true. I claimed PIP not because we were desperately in need of the money (although we are by no means well off either) but because of the doors it opens, the main one being 'queue jumps' at concerts, theme parks, holiday venues etc, which means I can take my children to these things and they don't miss out on more than they already do with having a mum with a disability. If I could access these without the PIP at no cost to me, or if places had better disability access (for example we have to pay an extra £240 for early access passes at Butlins as I cannot queue) at no cost, then I wouldn't claim it. But whilst the support for those with disabilities is patchy, the PIP enables me to pay for things which give us equivalent access to those without a disability. It is what it says on the tin, it makes me more independent. It funds a car so I can still get to work, and I then put more in to the system in tax than it costs the taxpayer each month. For many PIP claimants, it's a really cost effective benefit in terms of cost- benefit, as its a benefit claimed by many working people.

It took a huge swallow of my pride for me to claim it, and I didn't for the first 3 years following developing a disability, as I had been brought up to never claim benefits, and also struggled to admit I had a disability, the whole process was quite traumatic. If another hurdle had been added in of means testing, I probably wouldn't have claimed, and our lives would be much more limited.

NeverDropYourMorayCup · 19/08/2024 21:17

ZanyFox · 19/08/2024 13:30

Quite.

And I'm sorry, but the comment I've also worked in universities and academic staff are usually well aware that a student with straight As from a state school will usually be a lot better that a student with straight As from a private school is laughable! A. I am 100% sure academics don't know or care what school their students went to once they are on the course and B. Literally who cares whether they make a judgement on you or not.

Unlike lots of posters on here, I really DO know university staff, and they do not have the time or energy to make snippy judgements about where kids went to school.

Absolutely agree - I have no idea where my students went to school, I don't care and frankly wouldn't dare ask in case I was accused of discriminating in some way.

TruthorDie · 19/08/2024 21:16

Jamtomorrowandthenextday · 19/08/2024 17:15

The triple lock pension has to be dropped at some point otherwise pensions will consume the entire UK spending at some point. Not a debatable point but a mathematical fact. Who is going to be brave enough to do it?

Too true. It’s simply not sustainable

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Morph22010 · 19/08/2024 21:02

Genevieva · 19/08/2024 16:48

Pensions aren't benefits, but Gordon Brown taxed pensions and it has been suggested that taxes on pensions will increase (both putting money into pensions and taking money out).

Gordon brown didn’t tax pensions they were always taxable as part of income, well at least as far back as I remember and that’s way before the last labour governemnt.

What he did do was change the tax credit system on dividends paid out by companies so the tax credits could no longer be claimed back. This effected anyone who was in receipt of dividends and didn’t pay tax but the main investors in the uk are the pension schemes so they were the most effected.

Morph22010 · 19/08/2024 20:53

HighGrem · 19/08/2024 11:07

The DWP can already access bank accounts.

They don't need a bunch of forms, they can just access bank accounts and come up with an amount of savings that would exclude people from claiming. They already do for other benefits.

But pip and dla are gateway benefits, there is no official registration card to prove you are disabled in this country so most places where reasonable adjustments are required require proof of pip or dla, if it was means tested it would need to be possible to have a nil award. Also pip/dla is supposed to put the disabled person in the same position of a non disabled peer by covering the extra costs of being disabled, this actually enables many pip claimants to actually work.

ZanyFox · 19/08/2024 17:56

Yes no more 25% tax free pension withdrawal.

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 17:35

Jamtomorrowandthenextday · 19/08/2024 17:15

The triple lock pension has to be dropped at some point otherwise pensions will consume the entire UK spending at some point. Not a debatable point but a mathematical fact. Who is going to be brave enough to do it?

The same person willing to tackle the NHS,
probably.

Jamtomorrowandthenextday · 19/08/2024 17:15

The triple lock pension has to be dropped at some point otherwise pensions will consume the entire UK spending at some point. Not a debatable point but a mathematical fact. Who is going to be brave enough to do it?

5128gap · 19/08/2024 16:55

ZanyFox · 19/08/2024 11:15

What you're seeing here is a predictable flurry of anxiety amongst individuals who compared to others, did very nicely under the former administration, and now fear the new one might start prioritising the interests of other demographics over their own

That's a very naive way of looking at it.

Which demographics do you mean, exactly? The train drivers? The junior doctors?

No, of course not. Occupation is not a helpful way to categorise people into demographics for the purpose of the points I and the poster I was responding to were making, given its quite obvious that train drivers may be represented in many demographics, as may junior doctors. Given the context of the thread I'd have thought it fairly obvious I'm referring to those occupying a certain position of wealth/privilege that they feel was better preserved under a Conservative government, and who are now anxious that Labour will prioritise the less well off to their own disadvantage. People who have lived for years in a society with a very obvious division between those concerned about school fees and those concerned about paying for food. Yet are now trying to suggest it's the Labour government who have created division.
I'm not sure why you think that's a naive thing to say?

Genevieva · 19/08/2024 16:48

iwishihadknownmore · 19/08/2024 15:46

How? We cannot cut back on pensions can we? or do you think we can remove the triple lock?

Most of the rest is spent on in work benefits. people in PT work will often be PT because of child and caring responsibilities or can afford, due to a partner or savings, not to have to work FT.

The biggest component of ‘annually managed expenditure’ or ‘AME’ is cash transfers through the welfare system, expected to cost £315.1 billion in 2024-25. 55 per cent of these are paid to pensioners, with state pensions the largest item at an expected £141.6 billion
Other big items include universal credit and the tax credits and benefits it is replacing (£92.0 billion) and disability benefits (£47.0 billion, around two-thirds paid to people of working age)

Pensions aren't benefits, but Gordon Brown taxed pensions and it has been suggested that taxes on pensions will increase (both putting money into pensions and taking money out).

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 16:14

iwishihadknownmore · 19/08/2024 15:26

Oh i thought you were asking a specific poster, not me, i'll make a note of that!

In which case, the taxpayer should support, to avoid poverty issues, however many children families decide to have.

We cannot punish children for the life choices of their parents, we did that in the Victorian age and that worked out well didn't it.

So how would you solve labour shortages, without having significant numbers of migrants?

I have no issue with migration - providing they are not simply economic migrants. A points system similar to Canada and Australia would be a good start.

iwishihadknownmore · 19/08/2024 15:46

Miley1967 · 19/08/2024 15:28

I hope they seriously look at benefit reform. I think Liz Kendall will. the current system is totally unsustainable.

How? We cannot cut back on pensions can we? or do you think we can remove the triple lock?

Most of the rest is spent on in work benefits. people in PT work will often be PT because of child and caring responsibilities or can afford, due to a partner or savings, not to have to work FT.

The biggest component of ‘annually managed expenditure’ or ‘AME’ is cash transfers through the welfare system, expected to cost £315.1 billion in 2024-25. 55 per cent of these are paid to pensioners, with state pensions the largest item at an expected £141.6 billion
Other big items include universal credit and the tax credits and benefits it is replacing (£92.0 billion) and disability benefits (£47.0 billion, around two-thirds paid to people of working age)

Miley1967 · 19/08/2024 15:28

Genevieva · 19/08/2024 10:43

This is the tip of the iceberg. Wait for the Autumn statement. They’ll come for something that hits you soon enough.

I hope they seriously look at benefit reform. I think Liz Kendall will. the current system is totally unsustainable.

iwishihadknownmore · 19/08/2024 15:26

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 15:13

You chose to swerve the question.

Noted.

Oh i thought you were asking a specific poster, not me, i'll make a note of that!

In which case, the taxpayer should support, to avoid poverty issues, however many children families decide to have.

We cannot punish children for the life choices of their parents, we did that in the Victorian age and that worked out well didn't it.

So how would you solve labour shortages, without having significant numbers of migrants?

saraclara · 19/08/2024 15:14

HowIrresponsible · 19/08/2024 07:57

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/money/tax/labour-winter-fuel-savings-wiped-out-4bn-benefits-bill/

It's back fired anyway. There were also just as many pensioner's who weren't claiming pension credit as it isn't much money. They got the winter fuel payment regardless.

So now everyone who can claim it is looking into claiming it to get the wfp and it's going to cost £4 billion 😂

Backfired?

That's the Telegraph moaning that they'd been relying an a decent proportion of the most needy people not knowing about a benefit that the qualify for and deserve, and now some of them are going to have the nerve to apply to get it.

That article made me shudder when I read it this morning. The newspaper of wealthy Tories actually wanting poor people not to claim what they actually need, while fighting the battles of those on the highest rates of tax. The Telegraph is evil.

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 15:13

iwishihadknownmore · 19/08/2024 15:10

So in one post you moan about "unfettered immigration" but now find something else to moan about - too many families having too many children.

You chose to swerve the question.

Noted.

iwishihadknownmore · 19/08/2024 15:10

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 14:30

There may be others coming, but you are one datapoint.

And how many children are you happy to subsidise, per family?

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So in one post you moan about "unfettered immigration" but now find something else to moan about - too many families having too many children.

iwishihadknownmore · 19/08/2024 15:08

Jamtomorrowandthenextday · 19/08/2024 13:22

Housing, childcare and wages.

As you say wages are higher, childcare an housing costs are lower. People in Europe have more disposable income to spend on tax. Here people have no spare money.

Yes many in Europe have more disposable income.

At a stroke we could do something to improve that, build council housing, far cheaper rents, more money in the local economy, less in work benefits.

A new housing development nr me, 1000 new homes, the council is shouting from the roof tops that 90 will be "affordable" so either to buy as a shared ownership or to rent, the "affordable" bit means below market rate, so may not be affordable to many at all.

Why has the UK got the most expensive childcare and dentistry in Europe?

Some people are doing very well in the UK.

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 14:30

PandoraSox · 19/08/2024 14:27

Why should a childless person or couple subsidise those with children

As a childfree person who has paid (and continues to pay) tax for the past 40+ years I can answer that one.

I am happy to subsidise other people's children. This is because I understand the importance to society of all children having a good education, good healthcare and whatever other support they need.

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There may be others coming, but you are one datapoint.

And how many children are you happy to subsidise, per family?

PandoraSox · 19/08/2024 14:27

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 14:13

And of course, some are ‘needier’ than others.
How is a disabled child ‘needier’ than an OAP who is unable to heat their home. Why should a childless person or couple subsidise those with children.

I could go on but the point is this - penalising those who contribute most to tax receipts will have consequences - including capital flight and others simply retiring early or cutting their productivity.

Your ire would be better directed at the flabby and mismanaged NHS.

By all means kill the golden goose, but please don’t whine when your services and support are cut.

Why should a childless person or couple subsidise those with children

As a childfree person who has paid (and continues to pay) tax for the past 40+ years I can answer that one.

I am happy to subsidise other people's children. This is because I understand the importance to society of all children having a good education, good healthcare and whatever other support they need.

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 14:13

PandoraSox · 19/08/2024 13:27

Your next fight will be with this Government when they decide to slash support for your child. Who do you think pays for that? That’s right, the taxpayer

Well yes. That is what a decent society does. Supports those in need.

I don't think Labour will "slash" PIP. Many on MN will be disappointed.

And of course, some are ‘needier’ than others.
How is a disabled child ‘needier’ than an OAP who is unable to heat their home. Why should a childless person or couple subsidise those with children.

I could go on but the point is this - penalising those who contribute most to tax receipts will have consequences - including capital flight and others simply retiring early or cutting their productivity.

Your ire would be better directed at the flabby and mismanaged NHS.

By all means kill the golden goose, but please don’t whine when your services and support are cut.

BIWI · 19/08/2024 13:50

AboveBeyond3 · 19/08/2024 10:30

What’s clear is that there is a lot of envy masquerading as social conscience.

Its similar to the person driving a nice car - the envious are ‘I cannot have that, but I will make damn sure they cannot either’

It’s a nasty British trait - very ugly.

No. It's about the politics of privilege. For the few, not the many.

And to be crystal clear, from my own POV, we could have afforded to send our DC to private schools. But we didn't. Because we don't believe in the system.

OK?

ZanyFox · 19/08/2024 13:30

StellaGreen · 19/08/2024 12:09

And then there’s the kids at failing comprehensives who don’t get their A levels and fall out the system without a degree.
I wish people would stop talking about state schools as an equal group and of schools.

Quite.

And I'm sorry, but the comment I've also worked in universities and academic staff are usually well aware that a student with straight As from a state school will usually be a lot better that a student with straight As from a private school is laughable! A. I am 100% sure academics don't know or care what school their students went to once they are on the course and B. Literally who cares whether they make a judgement on you or not.

Unlike lots of posters on here, I really DO know university staff, and they do not have the time or energy to make snippy judgements about where kids went to school.

PandoraSox · 19/08/2024 13:27

Your next fight will be with this Government when they decide to slash support for your child. Who do you think pays for that? That’s right, the taxpayer

Well yes. That is what a decent society does. Supports those in need.

I don't think Labour will "slash" PIP. Many on MN will be disappointed.