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Can’t just be me who is sick of the moaning about the private school VAT and winter fuel payments

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TruthorDie · 16/08/2024 22:09

The moaning about them seems to be never ending. So tone death and indulgent on both counts. Not sure which is worse. A friends mum was ranting on social media earlier about winter fuel payments being stopped and how “worried about being cold” she was. Bad news is Lynn you haven’t needed to work since 1989, married to an oil exec and have had lots of the good life. I’m sure all of your Florida holidays keep you warm enough!

Bright children can get on anywhere, my siblings and l went to a comprehensive. We all have a couple of degrees, one of us has a PhD so it didn’t hold us back too much in life. Before anyone comes at it from the neurodiversity angle then l am and l wouldn’t be surprised if my younger sibling isn’t

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MBDBBB · 17/08/2024 10:43

5128gap · 17/08/2024 10:35

Nonsense. Outside of MN, the vast majority of the electorate couldn't care less about VAT on school fees. It impacts only 7% of those with school age children, a tiny proportion of people to start with, and of those there are many people for whom it's loose change or who support the policy anyway. You are perpetuating the myth that a lot of noise from a vocal minority means this policy is highly controversial, when for most people it matters not at all, and is an easy way to raise a few quid without upsetting the majority.
If you seriously imagine the government feels the need to manipulate opinion, whip up bitterness, jealousy or anger to get this policy accepted against the preferences of your small demographic, you are seriously deluded about your own level of importance and influence.

They aren’t bothered about it now, until what it actually means is that state schools become (more) overcrowded by kids who would otherwise have gone to a private school, and actually the VAT “gained” has been overtaken by the cost of state educating those kids. People just don’t know what it means. You are seriously deluded if you think it means that it will bring in loads of cash.

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:42

HowIrresponsible · 17/08/2024 10:22

Ah yes the Dr's.

Under the last labour govt when Brown brought us slap bang into the European average, productivity declined - and the onky discernible change was a massive pay rise for NHS staff. (Also “chronically and historically underpaid” according to them).

You could cram the entire GDP into the maw of the NHS and it would still demand more and screech about underfunding - even (as now) with the consultants’ car park full of Jags and Mercs.

The NHS doesn’t even do irony well.

Give over...

The consultants are the minority, lots of doctors are called junior doctors and paid as such. Starting pay was £32,398 last year for doctors. Not very appealing especially in the south east. Also when student loans, professional subscriptions, exams etc need to be paid. Threads on here make me giggle when doctors struggle with childcare due to the hours and shifts. But who can afford a nanny on £33k?!

Ironically one of the big issues for the NHS are people living so long and using it +++

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iwishihadknownmore · 17/08/2024 10:41

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 10:31

I've already said that the more well off who don't need it, shouldn't get it. But there are millions of pensioners not entitled to pension credits or benefits just living on the cusp who will be badly affected. And btw, my post was addressing someone's comments about her super rich parents and sarcastically referencing how her heart 'bleeds'. Keep up....

£200 over the course of a 6 or 7month period of having to heat a house is not enough, it doesn't even touch the sides, its a few extra units per month.

Cutting unit energy costs is a far better way forward, for the pensioner, for everyone on a low income and for the taxpayer.

Where would you put the cut off point? and how much would it cost to administer some random income point?

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:35

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 10:24

Doctors only form a small part of the NHS. Many who work in the NHS contribute to the cogs going round. I suspect a lot in the NHS will see what the Dr's have received and will shortly be putting in their salary increase 'bids'. Let's see how Labour deal with that. They tend to spend first, then look at how to cost it afterwards. Junior doctors applied to train when they knew their salary, so assume their applications to study medicine wasn't solely based on salary offered at that time.

5.5% increase was offered the other week. Most NHS staff are in Agenda for Change e.g. nurses, admin, porters, physios etc

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5128gap · 17/08/2024 10:35

MBDBBB · 17/08/2024 10:07

This. It’s a sorry situation and threads like this are exactly what Labour wants -to stir up jealousy and anger against a fiction they have created, lumping all independent school parents into one category. It makes no financial sense for the country, it is directly targeting children, but they’ll push it through because they are bitter.

Nonsense. Outside of MN, the vast majority of the electorate couldn't care less about VAT on school fees. It impacts only 7% of those with school age children, a tiny proportion of people to start with, and of those there are many people for whom it's loose change or who support the policy anyway. You are perpetuating the myth that a lot of noise from a vocal minority means this policy is highly controversial, when for most people it matters not at all, and is an easy way to raise a few quid without upsetting the majority.
If you seriously imagine the government feels the need to manipulate opinion, whip up bitterness, jealousy or anger to get this policy accepted against the preferences of your small demographic, you are seriously deluded about your own level of importance and influence.

Bluevelvetsofa · 17/08/2024 10:34

I won’t get wfa and that’s fine. We will be above the threshold and will do what we’ve done in the past and restrict the heating.

It would be interesting to know the numbers of pensioners who are sufficiently well off to have several holidays a year and/or second homes, as opposed to those who are still going to be in receipt of wfa. I expect most will be in a continuum between the two.

The manner in which some people talk about downsizing, I find irritating though. It isn’t simply a question of selling up and finding a smaller property. If it were, we wouldn’t have spent since February this year, trying and failing to do just that. For some people, their house has been their home for many years and they have such an emotional investment in it that the prospect of leaving it is really difficult.

I taught in state schools for forty years, so VAT on private education is not a concern for me, but the lack of investment in state education, particularly for children with additional needs is a disgrace. If I thought those monies saved were going towards improving the lot of vulnerable children in education and for more positive experiences in the NHS, then I’m sure many would think it worthwhile. But I bet that won’t happen.

iwishihadknownmore · 17/08/2024 10:33

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 10:27

It's undermanaged because of being poorly organised. Managing needs to be effective. Top management needs to be more hands on rather than lots of pen pushing.

There isn't the correct number of staff in the NHS for management to be effective, they are constantly firefighting, moving staff from pillar to post to try and meet demand.

My DD trust has vacancies for OTs and Physio's that are 12m to 18m old, yet have soaring demand, with more people having strokes etc and needing to be kept out of Hospital.

Management spend their time restructuring, dealing with complaints and trying to conjure up ever more imaginative ways to reduce the threshold for seeing a healthcare worker.

& all the time people are leaving the NHS.

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 10:31

iwishihadknownmore · 17/08/2024 10:27

Don't be ridiculous, the country cannot afford handing out billions to people who are well off.
The inheritance issue is neither here nor there.

Same with VAT on school fees, we cannot afford it anymore.

However, it would be better for Labour to reform the energy market & reduce prices for all, rather than handouts.

Why has the UK got, when standing charge included, the most expensive electricity in Europe?

I've already said that the more well off who don't need it, shouldn't get it. But there are millions of pensioners not entitled to pension credits or benefits just living on the cusp who will be badly affected. And btw, my post was addressing someone's comments about her super rich parents and sarcastically referencing how her heart 'bleeds'. Keep up....

iwishihadknownmore · 17/08/2024 10:27

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 09:55

And no doubt you'll happily take your inheritance when it comes. Or will you donate it to the poor? Or doesn't your 'bleeding' heart entend beyond your need to keep your parents ill gotten money?

Don't be ridiculous, the country cannot afford handing out billions to people who are well off.
The inheritance issue is neither here nor there.

Same with VAT on school fees, we cannot afford it anymore.

However, it would be better for Labour to reform the energy market & reduce prices for all, rather than handouts.

Why has the UK got, when standing charge included, the most expensive electricity in Europe?

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 10:27

BIossomtoes · 17/08/2024 10:12

The NHS is under managed if anything. It definitely needs an overhaul but not necessarily in the areas you suggest.

It's undermanaged because of being poorly organised. Managing needs to be effective. Top management needs to be more hands on rather than lots of pen pushing.

SadJaneGrey · 17/08/2024 10:26

My DM will suffer, she can’t get warm anymore and she is late 80’s. But her and my DF have savings. Do can pay for repairs to their house. But I suppose she can just wear a coat and hat and shoes in the house.

Miley1967 · 17/08/2024 10:25

CautiousLurker · 17/08/2024 01:15

Yes, but it’s woefully inadequate - my kids state schools’ refused to even support an ed psych assessment for both my children, as was the case with every person I know. Our local school is at the top of the Times league tables, so it’s not because of being under funded either. We all had to borrow money from grandparents/family to pay for private assessments and those still in state schools after diagnosis and being given an IEP were offered a few hours a week extra support for their children, or a place in the one size fits all remedial classes that did not address their personal needs. Several families I know had to take the LEA to court to get adequate provision, costing them nearly £40k.

How do those who can’t find that money manage? By putting up with the woeful provision because they have little choice. The provision is possibly improved by the fact that some parents have removed their children, enabling those kids to get assessed sooner and have some of those hours that would be allocated to them. I can assure you, when these privately educated kids are forced to return to the state sector it will be those kids currently in the state system who will suffer. The few resources there are will be more thinly spread, those who can get/have already got private assessments will get their SEN provision sooner while those children whose parents cannot will slip further back in the queue.

None of the labour govt plans demonstrate how they are going to fund the increased demand for SEN provision or where they will suddenly find fully qualified SEN staff (which now requires a PGCE, 2 years teaching experience and a 2 year Masters) when they will already struggle to find 6000 teaching staff.

I don't think there's an easy answer. An article in the Guardian yesterday said that 8% of 15 year olds are now on disability benefits mostly for autism/ adhd etc. That's a massive amount of SENCO's needed to address that. The system is at breaking point clearly no to mention the costs.

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 10:24

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:18

The NHS 100% needs an overhaul but paying clinical staff properly is a start

Doctors only form a small part of the NHS. Many who work in the NHS contribute to the cogs going round. I suspect a lot in the NHS will see what the Dr's have received and will shortly be putting in their salary increase 'bids'. Let's see how Labour deal with that. They tend to spend first, then look at how to cost it afterwards. Junior doctors applied to train when they knew their salary, so assume their applications to study medicine wasn't solely based on salary offered at that time.

Xenia · 17/08/2024 10:24

I would like a much smaller state and a low flat tax but I would probably have to move to Guernsey to get that as Labour and the Tories are huge state, massive spending very high tax parties these days. For most people since 2010 tax has gone down but for the top 10% it is the highest in 70 years. So 90% of people are really glad about that of course and about VAT on school fees (if it comes in and if it is not legally challenged) and business rates for private schools. People tend to like taxes other people pay.

No one has sympathy on full time working mothers with vast childcare costs who might then choose with older children to pay school fees but also have 9% student loan/graduate charge, no single person tax allowance any more due to income, no child benefit etc. These mothers tend to live in the SE so have the highest rents in the country to pay and probably a rising mortgage never mind vast stamp duty when they move.

I don't think any of us ask for sympathy but if you bite this hand that feeds enough then Labour may find this top 10% demographic have had enough, earn less and are less productive. (Top 10% of earnings are on £67k a year or higher but I really meant people on 100k+ a year in my post)

HowIrresponsible · 17/08/2024 10:22

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:18

The NHS 100% needs an overhaul but paying clinical staff properly is a start

Ah yes the Dr's.

Under the last labour govt when Brown brought us slap bang into the European average, productivity declined - and the onky discernible change was a massive pay rise for NHS staff. (Also “chronically and historically underpaid” according to them).

You could cram the entire GDP into the maw of the NHS and it would still demand more and screech about underfunding - even (as now) with the consultants’ car park full of Jags and Mercs.

The NHS doesn’t even do irony well.

Give over...

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:18

The NHS 100% needs an overhaul but paying clinical staff properly is a start

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RhaenysRocks · 17/08/2024 10:12

TruthorDie · 16/08/2024 22:09

The moaning about them seems to be never ending. So tone death and indulgent on both counts. Not sure which is worse. A friends mum was ranting on social media earlier about winter fuel payments being stopped and how “worried about being cold” she was. Bad news is Lynn you haven’t needed to work since 1989, married to an oil exec and have had lots of the good life. I’m sure all of your Florida holidays keep you warm enough!

Bright children can get on anywhere, my siblings and l went to a comprehensive. We all have a couple of degrees, one of us has a PhD so it didn’t hold us back too much in life. Before anyone comes at it from the neurodiversity angle then l am and l wouldn’t be surprised if my younger sibling isn’t

So you and your sister were ok so that means everyone will be. Great, glad that's sorted then. Isn't it marvellous how everyone can cope the same?

BIossomtoes · 17/08/2024 10:12

The NHS is under managed if anything. It definitely needs an overhaul but not necessarily in the areas you suggest.

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 10:10

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:04

Calling the NHS a pet project is an interesting description. I’m sure everyone on this post has used it at some point. Pensioners are also often heavy users of it. The doctors weren’t paid properly for sometime -like lots of professions e.g. teachers, nurses etc. That’s why lots of them are going abroad or don’t work in direct clinical practice

On the contrary. NHS needs a huge overhaul. But doctors pay (on this scale) is the least of their problems. I would suggest heavy top management needs to be looked at first. You could throw millions at NHS and still would be no better. The structure and management should be their focus before just throwing money into the pot.

GoingDownLikeBHS · 17/08/2024 10:09

There's always an issue around pension credit as so many have said on here, there's a cut off point and many don't get anything even if they are a £5 a week over etc., but there are other grants and support and Age Uk, CAB etc can help people look. I'm 62 but will fall into the "just too much for PC" category. I'd like to see some sort of sliding scale. So if I am concerned about the fuel payment, it's for others, not me.

But there's the rub as I AM surrounded by wealthy pensioners; most have 2 or 3 houses paid outright and their income from private pensions in addition to their state pension is so high that they are paying higher rate income tax. And yet these are the ones complaining the most. People who never give a shit about anything are now doing their keyboard campaigning wanting their £300. I can assure you they are not wanting it on behalf of the poorest pensioners in our society!

Scarletrunner · 17/08/2024 10:08

The only thing they can go after (without more riots) is housing eg second homes, tax on large homes etc

MBDBBB · 17/08/2024 10:08

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:04

Calling the NHS a pet project is an interesting description. I’m sure everyone on this post has used it at some point. Pensioners are also often heavy users of it. The doctors weren’t paid properly for sometime -like lots of professions e.g. teachers, nurses etc. That’s why lots of them are going abroad or don’t work in direct clinical practice

Wonder why they don’t slap VAT on private healthcare then to “fund” the NHS.

MBDBBB · 17/08/2024 10:07

Sickoffamilydrama · 17/08/2024 10:02

DD is one of the autistic SEN children that falls through the cracks she meets the criteria for an EHCP but our local authority will only assess after multiple tribunals I've heard of none verbal children who have had to go to tribunal.

When she started secondary and really was spiralling we faced a choice fight for years for an EHCP that we'd then probably have to fight again for it to be implemented or in a moment of madness I realised with a recent pay rise we could just about afford private school.

She is absolutely thriving and the change is almost miraculous.

I don't complain about the increase but it is frustrating especially as they are talking about discounts for those with EHCPs which in our area are gold dust.

We've already used up all her savings for uni or a house deposit to pay for extra tutoring and support because she's at such a disadvantage academically (it's an urban myth that all autistic people are brilliant, she is brilliant because she's her but she also has dyslexia and dyscalcula).

We'll just find the extra money and we are lucky to be able to do that but it does seem a poorly thought out and done as a vote winner.

We aren't the only parent in DD school with a story like that there's a high proportion of autistic girls in her class who are similar but hey there girls and autistic to boot so why would they matter we all know that most governments don't really care about women and girls!

This. It’s a sorry situation and threads like this are exactly what Labour wants -to stir up jealousy and anger against a fiction they have created, lumping all independent school parents into one category. It makes no financial sense for the country, it is directly targeting children, but they’ll push it through because they are bitter.

TruthorDie · 17/08/2024 10:04

Livelovebehappy · 17/08/2024 09:50

Apparently there is a bottomless pit when it comes to Labour's pet projects. And look how quick they gave doctors 22% pay rise. Labour love spending money.

Calling the NHS a pet project is an interesting description. I’m sure everyone on this post has used it at some point. Pensioners are also often heavy users of it. The doctors weren’t paid properly for sometime -like lots of professions e.g. teachers, nurses etc. That’s why lots of them are going abroad or don’t work in direct clinical practice

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Secradonugh · 17/08/2024 10:03

AngelusBell · 17/08/2024 08:39

He pays tax on his £218.15 per week pension so I don’t see how he would be able to claim an extra £56, and pays 75% Council Tax because he lives alone. If you have links to these benefits they would be very helpful.

Would you be willing to say which council he is taxed by? I don't want to identify him too much, but different councils can give different fundings depending on different sets of criteria. I'm more than happy to help look up. One of my neighbours was told by our council that they couldn't get any help, but the next borough council would reduce the council tax massively given the same criteria and another council (no where near) would help out with a different scheme.

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