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Not a good wife

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Catdogmouse1 · 16/08/2024 22:01

If your husband said the words you are a great mother, but not a good wife how would u feel?
For context 2 kids under 5 husband works away 7am to 7pm.... gets to fit in gym time in the evening
I do all child related stuff, sort the finances, house admin, medical stuff, cooking and cleaning, oh and work full time as well. He hardly lifts a finger round the house... but apparently i am not a good wife.
Then he has the nerve 2 ask me what i do 4 him and that he doesnt care about washing or cooking... he can do that himself.
Am i missing something?

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MonsteraMama · 16/08/2024 22:06

He means "you're not also willing to be my personal masturbation aid therefore in my tiny, useless, pea brained little mind you're useless".

If my husband said that to me it'd be the last day I ever do a single dusty fucking thing for him other than hand him divorce papers.

whyNotaNice · 16/08/2024 22:06

My husband dared tell me only once what I did was not good enough. Reminded him where the door is. Shut his mouth forever

Catdogmouse1 · 16/08/2024 22:05

Most likely, but when i am up through the night multiple times and then up for the day at 5 with 2 very poor sleepers, and working full time... with all house stuff sorted and him not in until late, Im not exactly sure when hr expects it 2 happen..
Not to mentiom the fact he isnt helping matters with not showing much affection which i have told him i need on so many occassions

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LoveSandbanks · 16/08/2024 22:05

Fucks sake. On top of everything else the twat wants a fucking blow job

ItsAlrightDarling · 16/08/2024 22:04

Of course he means sex. You should obviously be at his beck and call 🙄

Zanatdy · 16/08/2024 22:04

I’d ask him what he does for you, and his kids. Then tell him he’s not a good husband

BeSpoonyAquaHare · 16/08/2024 22:04

If he can do the washing and cooking for himself, let him. Ungrateful bastard. From now on I wouldn’t lift a finger for him. He can do his own laundry and his own cooking, and hopefully that frees you up to have a bit of time to devote to yourself and your hobbies, because he’s a prick who doesn’t deserve the care you give him.

Holluschickie · 16/08/2024 22:03

I was going to say he wants sex..Course he would get more of that if he pulled his weight.

rubyslippers · 16/08/2024 22:02

How would I feel?
fucking raging

you’re missing a good partner and husband

AzureCat · 16/08/2024 22:02

He probably means sex.

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