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Matthew Perry- “I wonder how much this moron will pay”

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GoodieMcTwoshoes · 16/08/2024 12:16

Sorry if there's a recent thread, it doesn't show up in search.

Apparently his doctors took advantage of his vulnerability and discussed things like “I wonder how much this moron will pay.” Matthew Perry: Two doctors among five charged over ketamine-related death | Evening Standard

That's awful. :(

Matthew Perry: Two doctors among five charged over ketamine-related death

An investigation into the actor’s death unearthed a ‘broad underground criminal network’, US attorney Martin Estrada said.

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/uk/attorney-lisa-kudrow-matt-leblanc-david-schwimmer-courteney-cox-b1176818.html

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yorktown · 17/08/2024 10:30

samanthablues · 16/08/2024 23:16

Yep, ketamine is highly addictive, so basically he was trying to treat his addiction problems with a highly addictive substance?, madness. I don't think they were trying to cure him but more like drain his bank account. Apparently he went through a ketamine assisted therapy with a psychologist, after the assisted therapy he kept asking for more but the psychologist refused so MP was able to buy it illegally in the black market then had his drug enabler assistant (who's not a doctor) injecting him every day, I think that's pretty telling on why this guy could not get of drugs... because those closest with him didn't have his best interests. Add to the fact he was leaving all his will to his assistant, you guys do the math...

Where did you read about him leaving anything to his assistant?
I thought he left everything to his family in his will.

ALunchbox · 17/08/2024 10:30

CountessWindyBottom · 16/08/2024 15:56

I think his death was an inevitability really. I was sad to hear of his death but not in the least surprised. I had read his autobiography on the recommendation of a friend and I absolutely hated it. He came across as incredibly egocentric, immature, pathetic and someone who ultimately always put himself first. He just wasn't in the least bit likeable, or at least he wasn't in his book.

And I appreciate that the nature of addiction is to be entirely focussed on one's own needs and that it is a disease but he wrote the book while sober and he struck me as only really truly caring about himself, ever.

I'm sad for him as I would be anyone who has succumbed to any kind of addiction but this is a case of supply and demand and if it wasn't this 'dealer' it would have been another.

I agree.

Saschka · 17/08/2024 10:27

UnnecessaryOwl · 17/08/2024 08:51

Just because they have a medical degree doesn’t make them any better whatsoever, they’re just a legally licensed drug dealer. It pisses me off no end that someone’s qualifications or career is taken into account when being sentenced for a crime. Should have received the exact same punishment.

Agree sentencing should be the same, but it sounds like bail was not granted to the dealer because she’s a dual national (presumably of a country with no extradition treaty with US) who was considered a significant flight risk. Whereas most doctors, even dodgy ones, don’t have the underworld connections to get themselves smuggled out of the country.

Most people charged with dealing would get granted bail - she’s being treated unusually harshly rather than him being treated leniently.

beeloubee · 17/08/2024 10:16

McSilkson · 16/08/2024 13:35

So similar to what happened to poor Elvis, almost 50 years ago... :(

It's worth reading the medical saga of elvis presley to get a better understanding of it

MissMoneyFairy · 17/08/2024 09:58

Dizzywizz · 17/08/2024 08:47

@Grandmasswagbag am on opiates for chronic nerve pain, and know few others who are too (with ms)

Of course there are people living with chronic pain who benefit from opioid, and they are also used for acute pain, there is a lot of fear and ignorance around their use and many people can live with them for years. Nerve pain is awful, I have every sympathy with you. Not sure there is such a thing as short term chronic pain. Chronic pain is any pain that's lasted for more than 3 months,

UnnecessaryOwl · 17/08/2024 08:51

Portfun24 · 16/08/2024 12:21

Wow that's shocking. The doctor shouldn't of been given bail if the street ddealer street wasn't. At least the dealers not hiding what she is, the doctors worse in my opinion as he should be putting peoples welfare first, have better morals and likely broken multiple codes of conduct.

Just because they have a medical degree doesn’t make them any better whatsoever, they’re just a legally licensed drug dealer. It pisses me off no end that someone’s qualifications or career is taken into account when being sentenced for a crime. Should have received the exact same punishment.

Dizzywizz · 17/08/2024 08:47

@Grandmasswagbag am on opiates for chronic nerve pain, and know few others who are too (with ms)

Username75184 · 17/08/2024 08:25

Grandmasswagbag · 17/08/2024 08:21

I though that opioids are only used here for end of life care and short term chronic pain. Obviously there are a lot of people addicted to OTC painkillers but they are no where near as strong and lethal as something like oxy. I've never heard of people being prescribed strong opiates in the UK for chronic pain, because it's not effective treatment. 'Breakthrough pain' is simply a marketing tool that the saklers came up with when patients complained that the effects didn't last any where near 12 hours. They knew the time release stuff was essentially BS. It was all lies to make Drs feel comfortable prescribing in a way they never would have before.

I was offered morphine patches for chronic arthritic pain in my spine. I declined them because I want a quality of life and felt a reliance on strong opioids would disable me more than the pain does, so yes, they do offer them here in chronic situations where the condition is untreatable.

Grandmasswagbag · 17/08/2024 08:21

I though that opioids are only used here for end of life care and short term chronic pain. Obviously there are a lot of people addicted to OTC painkillers but they are no where near as strong and lethal as something like oxy. I've never heard of people being prescribed strong opiates in the UK for chronic pain, because it's not effective treatment. 'Breakthrough pain' is simply a marketing tool that the saklers came up with when patients complained that the effects didn't last any where near 12 hours. They knew the time release stuff was essentially BS. It was all lies to make Drs feel comfortable prescribing in a way they never would have before.

HelenWheels · 17/08/2024 08:20

just so appalling

samanthablues · 17/08/2024 08:17

'@mathanxiety Doctors in the US' do not 'give them away like candy.

I’ve lived in the US for 20 years and that was not my personal experience. I also had many friends getting hooked up on opiates thanks to doctors prescriptions due to injuries, accidents etc… once my friends were unable to get them prescribed they would turn into the dark web to buy them. Clearly we’ve had different experiences when it come to American healthcare and that’s OK.

Oganesson118 · 17/08/2024 07:56

Its a shame it took the death of an actor from a third rate sitcom
to unearth this. If it had been an average Joe, no one would have cared.

sunburnandsangria · 17/08/2024 07:51

@mathanxiety

Erm ok. I disagree.

I worked on stuff relating to opioid epidemic and litigation.

If the tv advertising didn't work in the US, it wouldn't happen. Manufacturers spend millions on it.

It wasn't a point about Perry's case (as I already said) but the US healthcare system in general which is set up in a way which gateways patient access to addictive meds.

There is far less of an issue with prescribed pharma becoming opioid addition in the UK because physicians prescribe more carefully and review more regularly. I didn't say it doesn't happen at all but the epidemic won't happen in the UK.

Maray1967 · 17/08/2024 07:16

lcakethereforeIam · 16/08/2024 13:45

Drug dealers with a medical degree and a nice office.

Yes, this is what I thought. No better than drug dealers.

Yes, Matthew Perry took the drugs but he’d also tried several times to get clean. People around him including his assistant seemed to be happy to facilitate his addiction instead of helping him to stay off drugs. Incredibly exploitative. I was so sad to read the piece.

mathanxiety · 17/08/2024 01:56

sunburnandsangria · 16/08/2024 21:49

There are a couple of other elements in the US which make it more likely there than here.

The first is the culture of drugs being marketed direct to patient (anyone who's watched tv whilst in the US will understand) and the US culture of giving the consumer what they want.

The second is that most people use their health insurance to pay for drugs and when they are dispensed they get several weeks of supply in one go. In the UK, if you were prescribed an opioid you wouldn't be given a stash big enough to develop a serious addiction.

(I don't think this is particularly applicable in Perry's case, but is definitely part of the opioid epidemic issue).

So much here that simply isn't factual.

You don't get 'several weeks supply in one go' in the US - maybe thyroid meds, or some other medication to treat a long term condition, but not painkillers.

Health insurance doesn't impact the quantity a doctor prescribes.

The advertising of drugs on TV doesn't mean patients get a prescription if they march to their doctor demanding one.

The US culture of giving the consumer what they want...

  • nonsense.

The indicted doctors in Perry's case were operating outside of the law and in contravention of professional practice. He was being treated lawfully and in accord with professional practice (though ketamine is a controversial treatment) by a doctor who was giving him infusions, and seeking extra ketamine from the pill mill operators.

fpm.ac.uk/opioids-aware-clinical-use-opioids/current-uk-data-opioid-misuse
There should be no complacency about opioid misuse in the UK.

mathanxiety · 17/08/2024 01:30

samanthablues · 16/08/2024 14:54

While living in the US every time I went to the dentist he would give me a tube of painkillers (strong opioids), something that has NEVER happened to me in Europe, yep... doctors in the US give them away like candy so no wonder people get addicted to prescription drugs. In the UK NHS protocol will not prescribe opiates unless you're literally dying of cancer, so getting hook on them is way more difficult in this side of the pond. It's really great we have a not- for-profit public healthcare that stops the system benefitting from people becoming ill.

I live in the US and have never been given a 'tube of painkillers' by any doctor or dentist, and I've seen plenty here since 1989.

'Doctors in the US' do not 'give them away like candy'.

mathanxiety · 17/08/2024 00:59

GoodieMcTwoshoes · 16/08/2024 12:16

Sorry if there's a recent thread, it doesn't show up in search.

Apparently his doctors took advantage of his vulnerability and discussed things like “I wonder how much this moron will pay.” Matthew Perry: Two doctors among five charged over ketamine-related death | Evening Standard

That's awful. :(

Were they his doctors?

Or Doctor Feelgoods, rogue doctors supplying controlled substances and operating pills mills?

Feelingstrange2 · 17/08/2024 00:10

Hateam · 16/08/2024 12:34

Matthew Perry was 100 % responsible for what he put in his body but my god there were some evil people around him who took advantage of him. To me they are sub-human.

But was he?

If he was out of it and asking for more, isn't the person who administered it partly responsible? And the qualified doctor who supplied it knowing?

If you had someone suicidal and handed them a knife, I think we would argue some culpability.

AllLopsided · 16/08/2024 23:57

meandkarmavibe · 16/08/2024 14:45

Agree anyone who wants to educate themselves more should watch the brilliant Dopesick, think it's also on iPlayer now.

As someone who lives with someone with chronic pain I thank the heavens every day that the German authorities stopped oxycontin coming to Europe. Just look at the Fentanyl crisis in the US now that we've avoided. Though I wouldn't be surprised if post-Brexit it becomes easier to let dodgy US drugs into the UK.

Oxycontin is available in Europe, including in the U.K. Many people take it for pain with no problems apart from the medical dependence that comes with regular use of opioids.

The problem in the US was initially due to the time-release mechanism not working properly. Drug companies refused to allow doctors to permit 8-hourly dosing instead of the recommended 12-hourly dosing. So the patient would feel fine for say, 6-9 hours, then be in agony until the next dose. Drug companies insisted the mechanism worked fine and told doctors to increase the dose. So a patient who was taking 10mg twice a day would have their dose increased to 20mg twice a day, instead of 10mg three times a day. But they would still be in pain between doses. Doctors gave higher and higher doses without the pain being relieved consistently - no wonder patients became addicted!

In Europe now, doctors who understand pain management will switch a patient to 8-hourly dosing if 12-hourly doses wear off too quickly and breakthrough pain is not controlled by the sister drug Oxynorm. This allows patients to be stable on lower doses. Many stay on the same dose for years. Just because it is a street drug, it doesn't mean it can't be used by patients who need it. For many it has fewer side effects than alternatives such as morphine.

Ketamine is also used in pain management, both in emergency medicine and for long-term management of chronic pain (by regular infusions). It is also used for treatment-resistant depression, often in the form of a nasal spray.

So many myths floating around!

samanthablues · 16/08/2024 23:16

HangingOver · 16/08/2024 21:57

Matthew Perry was apparently receiving ketamine infusions to treat depression

Speaking as a former addict, this sounds an insanely risky course of action for someone with such a history of addiction!

Yep, ketamine is highly addictive, so basically he was trying to treat his addiction problems with a highly addictive substance?, madness. I don't think they were trying to cure him but more like drain his bank account. Apparently he went through a ketamine assisted therapy with a psychologist, after the assisted therapy he kept asking for more but the psychologist refused so MP was able to buy it illegally in the black market then had his drug enabler assistant (who's not a doctor) injecting him every day, I think that's pretty telling on why this guy could not get of drugs... because those closest with him didn't have his best interests. Add to the fact he was leaving all his will to his assistant, you guys do the math...

NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/08/2024 23:01

GoodieMcTwoshoes · 16/08/2024 18:49

I don't think there's much evidence for it, that's why the NHS don't use it much for mental illness. There are so many other, more effective (for most people) treatments. Stuff like that should always be only prescribed as a last resort. Because it doesn't really work for many people anyway maybe. It's a last ditch attempt.

And I think the recreational dose is very different.

Edited

I didn't mean that - it's a fantastic anaesthetic. I've needed it before because I'm allergic to certain components in the standard ones.

5475878237NC · 16/08/2024 22:57

SanDimasHighSchoolFootballRules · 16/08/2024 15:02

He was responsible for his addiction and for what he put into his body but I read his book when it came out and was shocked when I read that as a baby he had really bad colic and when his mother begged doctors to help him, they prescribed barbiturates - to a baby.

It feels like he was doomed from the beginning tbh and that's on the doctors.

The whole thing is shocking and really sad.

I feel sad for every person who isn't able to beat their addiction.

These were my thoughts on this tragedy too.

GoodieMcTwoshoes · 16/08/2024 22:56

HangingOver · 16/08/2024 21:57

Matthew Perry was apparently receiving ketamine infusions to treat depression

Speaking as a former addict, this sounds an insanely risky course of action for someone with such a history of addiction!

Absolutely. And the conclusion was...he ended up hooked on large doses of it. Sad

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Guavafish1 · 16/08/2024 22:50

Like MJ

RedWinePoliticsAndHair · 16/08/2024 22:44

This made me so sad to read. Poor bastard. Being hugely rich really isn't the answer to everything. He would have been far better off never hitting the big time.